Silence From My Beloved

I agree with her. It's you who needs help and I would better go for it. You are not able to have a normal relationship and have to find out first what is really bothering you. If you know that you are able to work on it (or accept it). The next step might be to see how things go on and in a later stage it might be necessary to have some consults together. But these kind of consults are only there if people do have a relationship since years and tried enough and do not want a "divorce". And what you need to know about women: if they say both should take care of themselves first you better take that seriously. Also if they say to keep some distance. This means they need a lot of time to think things over. Keep calling, texting, wrinting, e-mailing, ringing at the doorbell, sending ... will only be seen as a more reason to end the relationship. From your discussion I also can only read that "it only hurts" because of christmas and new year's eve. I would advice you to have some help in a very short time. Make a list (since there is plenty you can do alone) what is bothering you... see if these things have something in common or are a result of eachother. What are your fears, worst nightmares, is there a good reason to be so jealous and angry? What happenend in your past? Accept yourself, also these parts of you, this is the only way out. If you are not able to accept and love yourself, have confidence in you, nobody will.

No need to see a psychologist, friend. You are the one who settle everything because depending on your post here. You react unjustly to your girl friend, which hurt her. Better to learn all those mistakes that you do. Then learn on how to exercise prudent actions to handle everything which is smoothly and hurt your girl friend.

As much as it's hard to consider or do, but give her space, step back and let her contact you, she made need time, unfortunate it's over the Christmas period, but if she still thinks of you, she will contact you. I think once she does you both need to sit down and talk it out together, if the relationship is worth saving, then you need to be honest with each other and whether you both want the relationship to continue. Giving her space will help her realize this I am sure.

Man , l have been through the same last year and l know how much it hurts. My advice would be to treat her the way she is treating you. Focus on your family and yourself.

I really understand the harship you are experiencing.Try to distract your attention to some other things,and do not stay alone,or you may think too much about it.You still have your family and friends who would be always by your side.Be strong,Ivan.Though we haven't met each other before,I do think you are a good man deserves to be loved,you will surly find your right one.Hope you will be well soon.

Well, as I put myself in the shoes of your loved ones, I think she was pissed off and she probably feels that you're being too tight on her. Just by letting her feel that you're being suspicious about her, it significantly tells that she's not worth of your trust. Jealousy is part of any relationship, but please don't take it any further because you might ending up loosing her. Trust is one of the most important ingredient of a healthy relationship. Talk it over and try fixing the mess. And let her feel that she's being trusted by you.

Jealousy is a sign that you love it should have. Jealousy is natural, because you claim to be first in all lists of interest in your lover's life. If anyone threatens your position in love, your heart will be inflamed with grief, anger, demands, and threats. But, if you believe the value you, he really is a loss if you replace. Be angry, but still elegant effect.

It really bad incident on your life. It is very difficut to live without your dear one specially when she is your girl friend. I think your problem could be solved. You pray to god jessus to solve it .You can give you an idea .This new year eve you go your girlfried home or afront of him with some red rose and with some chocolates. Give this thing and say your feelings and also told her hoe much miss you her in that day.