Having a child, does it change your life?
By Shavkat
@Shavkat (139828)
Philippines
6 responses
@asliah (11137)
• Philippines
5 Jan 13
hi,
of course having a child will surely change their life,they will need to learn on how to sacrifice their self for their child,everything will change even on how they think and act,also the life of having child is more busiest and having more responsibilities.
@maximax8 (31046)
• United Kingdom
23 Dec 12
It has changed my life a lot to have my children. They are so lovely and they bless my life. My live is more exciting now I have my children. I really enjoy being a mom to my children.
I have a three year old daughter, a five year old disabled son and a seventeen year old son. My older son is at college and he will be going off to university next autumn. My disabled son goes to a main stream primary school and he has a full time assistant. My daughter goes to a nursery school and a childminder for 15 hours a week.
My children are so very excited about Christmas.
@chantalle25 (208)
• Philippines
24 Dec 12
I am not a mother yet but I have close friends who already have their own family and really it does changed their lives. If you are already a mother it is really hard to party because you have the responsibility to your child and to your husband. Sometimes you can unwind but it's not like before that you are single. You need to take care of your child and give their needs. My friend told me that it really changed her when she had his little boy. She said it's selfless love, she's always thinking about her child on how she could be a good mother and how to deal when a child has tantrums then you became more patient because we know that a little child really would have tantrums and oyu cannot just dump it like a toy whenever you are tired. So now that I am still single and not having a child of my own, I understand my friends if they do not spend a lot of time hanging out because they have their own families to attend to :)
@echo060201 (540)
• China
23 Dec 12
yes, i think so, i saw many new mothers are happier after they had babies. I ask them this question, they answered me, they are so happy to have a baby in their lives, because they love babies' smile and facial expressions. So, i believe that baby really increases the happiness in our life, and they changed our life just by being part of it.
@summer0614 (334)
• China
24 Dec 12
The child will sure change my life.My friends who are already mothers often complain that they are seriously lack of sleep.They have to feed their child whenever he is hungry.And must take care of the child at anytime.They do not have even a minute to relax or do their own things.Without a child,you can do whatever you want,and may not feel so tired.But on the other hand,having a baby is the most happiest thing for the family.