She offered you exit doors but you still be with her

Hi, In my opinion it is not weird. If I have a strong emotional attachment with someone, I will stay with that person no matter what. Since I would know that I would not be able to survive without that person and my heart needs him, I would bear with his ignorance or anger, just praying and hoping that my true love can win him back.

that very bad situation. I think she just change her mind about relationship she had with you. It's funny if you broke up and you just stay with her. I probably indicating that she just tried to make a space in order to thing again about her relationship. It is time to you to just let her go for a while. You can show your attention just like a friend before and she will be comfortable with you again. I had ever have a similar situation with you 2 in my life. The first, I give her a space and time, and she just ran and disapear from me. The second, I did the same thing and she just cameback to me and now she become my wife:)

you can't think logically when you do with logic surely, you better to be alone and prefer to not deal with love cause it just pain that you will get in the end

Very sad situation but I will try to ask why she is telling this whats the reason behind it. If the reason is guanine then I will leaver her but if not then I want to stay there. But still I have no experience of this.

hi, yes that is really weird,of course if that my partner tell to me,meaning that i need to leave or need to separate with that person,and those people who stay wit their partner even their partner already push them away are those martyr or really in loved with their partner.

I think it is weird. If your girl showed you the door then you should understand that there is some problem due to which she can not carry on with the relation further. Love is not all about getting the approval from the lover or sticking to them but it is about the real understanding and respecting each others feelings too. If both have the loving feeling for each other then there will never come an instance when door is shown to any one by any one in the relation. I think the mature action will be to get out of the way(door).

The meaning is obvious to me--that being that she wants to break up with you but you don't want to break up with her. The least painful kind of break-up is when the feeling is mutual, but it doesn't usually happen that way. Even the person who wants to break up might be having some mixed feelings along the lines of knowing that it would be better to break up but still wishing that this wouldn't be so. I know that there have been times that I've come to realize that, if this or that man and I got married, we'd end up being miserable because of significant personality clashes, so I would tell him that I wanted to always be friends and enjoyed spending time with him, but that it would be better if we quit thinking along the lines of ending up married or we might end up hating each other. In most cases, my former boyfriends and I have remained good friends. Even if we go for awhile without being in contact with each other, once we touch bases, it's as if we've never been apart. There's no romance going on with us, but just the beautiful feeling of being with a comfortable old friend!

If you are forced to continue with your lover, you will only feel the pain. If your lover, want you to go, you better go. If you and your lover destined to b together (berjodoh), God will bring you and your lover back. God will show you the best for you.

I think its not weird, it really depends on the reason and how much you love this someone. Well, if you have done everything on your part but still she insist that you leave and not understanding your feelings. Then i guess, to let go is the best option. Have her miss you, let her realize how important you are to her life, if she do come back and you love her then that's the time everything we go along the way.

Merry Christmas adhyz?? Are you under the situation? I hope not but if I am in that situation prolly not going to stay if they are trying to keep me away haha????

We don't easily give up on our relationship most especially when we know that we can still change things and hope that the relationship can still have a chance to get better. It is true love!

No, it's not. But one thing for sure, if you still want her, but she didn't anymore, just leave her. Sooner better. Because it's better if you suffer now, rather than you suffer later. Moreover, you will suffer longer ...

You need to show her how important she is to you, that's why you need to stay....if you just give up, it only shows there is no meaningful relationship anymore...

If she still wants you in her life, she'll make an effort to keep you in it. But, if she doesn't want you to be there anymore and offers you the exit door, then feel free to do the exit. You can't control what her heart desire, so acceptance is very important. If she can't love you anymore, then find someone who can. It's very difficult to stay if she wants you to go away. You'll end up hurting yourself even more.

In anger, a lot of bad things can be said to each other. Ask her if she REALLY meant it. Due to emotions stirring up in any argument, things like that can occur, but they really don't matter if they have been said in anger. She cooled down, and you're still together. So, perhaps, she actually doesn't want you to go.

Staying together as friends after breaking up? Well... it's a difficult question. It depends on how did you brake up. Shouting? Arguing? Or you spoke about how you feel and leaved each other in peace? Anyway it is possible but only after a time. You can give her a high five next day and act like nothing happened.