His ex-girlfriend-soon-to-be-lover now...
By Miss G
@nhailojaye (207)
Philippines
December 25, 2012 12:55pm CST
I just can't seem to hold my temper back every time I see my ex-partner with her ex-girlfriend-soon-to-be-lover now.. Others may say that I am jealous, but honestly, I'm not.
It's just really so annoying for me who was betrayed by them. Even though they love each other that much, it's not good to use other people right? I just feel so worthless after being used by their secret love affair. tsk.
and now, i really regret the fact that I became so stupid because of love.
7 responses
@Aja103654 (5644)
• Philippines
3 Jan 13
We all hit our down times every now and then. I understand how awful it feels to be used, taken for granted and then left.
You are angry at their betrayal. You know that your ex doesn't deserve your love at all. Let him go ahead and stick to that girl. This is the reason why we shouldn't be rebound partners to anybody. We have to make sure they are over their ex and love us for who we are not love us out of desperation to heal or find new love.
@nhailojaye (207)
• Philippines
12 Jan 13
I really feel so angry.. I really can't get over with that. I really feel used by them.. That's why, I don't like that feeling of using somebody to just have a relationship at the moment. I don't want the person to fill that loneliness I'm feeling for now. I know the feeling of being a rebound partner, it really hurts. It's unexplainable. but one thing is for sure, I will never let my next love and muy love-ones feel this.
@chiyosan (30183)
• Philippines
31 Dec 12
Oh that is such a bummer, i would not even think of you being jealous, no way.. that is pure anger and feelings of treachery. yeah, because those two, your idiot ex and his stupid ex girlfriend, you should really feel betrayed and fooled. oh well they should really just have continued on with your life but then it shouldn't be the case when your ex boyfriend did not even dare make you someone so as to cover up the loneliness he was probably feeling when he and his ex broke up... its so hard, feeling that way and i can say i know how it is to be made a fool.
@nhailojaye (207)
• Philippines
14 Jan 13
yeah.. it really made me angry at some point.. to think I considered that ex of hers as my friend and I eventually told her how I love my ex so much.. She even told me, that she's done with him but in the end, she ended up meeting and meeting my ex-boyfriend every now and then.. It was really betrayal! She made me believe in her that she's done, when in fact, she's the reason why I and my ex-boyfriend ended up.. I just don't understand girls being like this... It's sort of hilarious, right?
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
29 Dec 12
Everybody becomes stupid because of love. When we are in love, all our attention is focused only on that special person- not minding his flaws and shortcomings. But you shouldn't lose hope. The right person will come to you at the right time.
@nhailojaye (207)
• Philippines
12 Jan 13
yeah. We all become stupid because of love. It's just funny how I've become stupid at times in loving him.. I think its one of the reasons why he abused me. HAHA! but life goes on.. Now I feel happy. And I know that God is reserving that right person for me.
@natliegleb (5175)
• India
26 Dec 12
i think that is a great transpiration and it eventually worked out and its so awesome,hats off
@nhailojaye (207)
• Philippines
27 Dec 12
Yeah. he transpires everything he can't to ha girl. Eventually, I just don't understand him. I just feel that I am played at. Anyway, that's life. Things happen for a reason. Good day! :)
@nhailojaye (207)
• Philippines
27 Dec 12
Yes. But how I wish we can still be together. I still loved him though, but i will be kind to my heart for now. I will have it a rest. Thanks :)
@Sparta72s (60)
• United States
25 Dec 12
Its is your choice to feel temper and it is your choice to feel annoyed. It doesn't matter what people say. It's not good to use other people, but people us other people to get what they want. You feel worthless, but it is your choice to be happy. You regret that you feel stupid because of love, but was it really love.
@nhailojaye (207)
• Philippines
25 Dec 12
yes, it's love. it's my one-sided love after all. i just can't believe he did that to me, knowing that I loved him very much.. I just hope that he has his good reasons for doing so, cause if he doesn't have any... he better look for a safe place to hide himself! lols
@subhojit10 (7375)
• India
25 Dec 12
Thanks a ton for sharing this discussion. Well i can understand your feelings and i know how u must have felt and reacted after this incident. I think it is natural for u to get irritated with this news and i think u should forget whatever has happened in the future and should move on. There is no point in wasting your time by thinking about them.
What say?
@nhailojaye (207)
• Philippines
25 Dec 12
At this time, I can say that my wounds from this past relationship is still fresh. For some time,I think I can forgive these unforgivable thing that they have done for me. Using other people and taking advantage of their feelings towards you is naturally false. I believe that someday, God will give them a lesson so that they will never do this to other people again. not anymore!
