How many "Friends" do you have?

@34momma (13882)
United States
December 26, 2012 10:55am CST
I just turned 41 a few weeks back. I was thinking... How many friends do I really have? As I thought about it, I am blessed to know that I honestly have a bunch of really great people in my life. I have 2 women in my life who I consider more like sisters, then friends. They are my true soul mates and I love them dearly. Then there are those people I knew when I was younger who we still keep in touch and have a relationship. There are also those people who I have meet here at mylot and on facebook who I have never meet in person, but who I love dearly. So when I sit down and think about it... I really do have so many wonderful friends in my life. How many friends do you have?
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@jureathome (5361)
• Philippines
27 Dec 12
I have only a few true friends. And, those people are they type who, even if we don't see each other or communicate too often, we still have each other when we need them. I think I only have about 10 of them or lesser. The rest are just acquaintances.
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@34momma (13882)
• United States
27 Dec 12
those are the true friends. those people you don't need to talk to every day to still love and care for you. those people who you can go months without hearing from, but if you call them they are there for you.
@anaknitatay (1335)
• Philippines
27 Dec 12
that's great, I have a few close friends but I have yet to meet those people who I can consider real friends... or maybe my standards are too high?
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@34momma (13882)
• United States
27 Dec 12
Real friends are those people in your life that love and care for you no matter what. those people who forgive your mistakes and rejoice with you when good things happen.
@lumenmom (1986)
• United States
3 Jan 13
I don't have a whole lot of friends but the ones I have are dear to me and surprisingly a couple of the best ones I have I just met in the last 2 years. A few of my good friends have passed on and I don't keep in touch enough with a few of my older friends. I need to do that more.
@prashu228 (37521)
• India
27 Dec 12
Hi Nice to know that you have good friends .I have very few friends because of my straight forward nature even in that few i cant say that they are my true soul mates , after coming to Mylot i found good friends but i never meet them in person but i m happy with all the friends over here.
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@subhojit10 (7375)
• India
26 Dec 12
Thanks a ton for sharing this discussion. Well that is absolutely great to hear about your friends whom u call as soul mates and that speaks how close u all are with each other. To be very honest, life becomes smoother when u have such friends in your life and i am happy that u feel complete with their presence in your life. I do have many friends in life but i do not think i can put any of them in the category of best friends. What say?
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@34momma (13882)
• United States
26 Dec 12
I for sure have two amazing best friends/soul mate friends. They have helped me grow into a much better person. they allowed me to share and learn with them. I lvoe them dearly
• China
27 Dec 12
I did't count the exact number, but i do know that if i need some help in some matters, i can find someone to help me without excuse and inpatience.
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@34momma (13882)
• United States
27 Dec 12
well the numbers don't really matter. the love and intention is all that counts.
27 Dec 12
I have only a few if that. Unfortunately I have been hurt a lot and it's caused me to be very selective on whom I allow in my life. The one's/ that I do have I know I can rely on them 24/7.
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