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kitana710 @kitana710 (53) 9 Feb 13

Here's my dilemma: My husband and I have been married for 3 years. During this time we've been together for a year and half due to the military. So during this time that we've actually lived in the same house together he's...

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kitana710 Thanks Trisha! I appreciate your advice. We haven't actually discuss that certain topic and I'm glad you brought that to my attention. Thanks again!

9 Feb 13

kitana710 @kitana710 (53) 9 Feb 13

Here's my dilemma: My husband and I have been married for 3 years. During this time we've been together for a year and half due to the military. So during this time that we've actually lived in the same house together he's...

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kitana710 It's okay. I feel the same way, but things just happen ya know.

9 Feb 13

kitana710 @kitana710 (53) 9 Feb 13

Here's my dilemma: My husband and I have been married for 3 years. During this time we've been together for a year and half due to the military. So during this time that we've actually lived in the same house together he's...

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kitana710 Thanks Hatley. I just hate to use her as pawn in our marital problems. I find it difficult to say I'll just take her and leave because he DOES love our daughter. He's a good father in that respect. And I couldn't do that to my daughter either. She adores him...

9 Feb 13

kitana710 @kitana710 (53) 9 Feb 13

Here's my dilemma: My husband and I have been married for 3 years. During this time we've been together for a year and half due to the military. So during this time that we've actually lived in the same house together he's...

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kitana710 Yes I do make my own money, in fact I pay the mortgage so everyone pretty much stays in the house for free. They pay some of the utility bills but obviously that isn't the same as rent.

9 Feb 13

kitana710 @kitana710 (53) 9 Feb 13

Here's my dilemma: My husband and I have been married for 3 years. During this time we've been together for a year and half due to the military. So during this time that we've actually lived in the same house together he's...

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kitana710 We have discussed this and we're at a standstill. That's kinda why I was asking if anyone else had any other ideas.

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kitana710 @kitana710 (53) 9 Feb 13

Here's my dilemma: My husband and I have been married for 3 years. During this time we've been together for a year and half due to the military. So during this time that we've actually lived in the same house together he's...

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kitana710 Thanks Kashmeres... I'll at least be looking for another place soon.

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BenterAdede @BenterAdede (77) • Kenya 8 Feb 13

What woudl you do if the father of your child just disappeared into the thin air just to relise months later that he has married another? I am deverstated right now. What will I tell my son when he asks about his father? I really...

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kitana710 I'm really sorry that you're in this situation. But keep strong! Unfortunately, there are MANY single mothers, my mother included, who can support their families. The key to this is having a good support system. Having these friends and family will make you're...

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kitana710 @kitana710 (53) 24 Dec 12

Let's see...it's Christmas Eve and my husband tells me he's going to play D&D (a board game for those of you not in tune with Nerdism) with his buddies for a Christmas event. Bare with me. I have been very supportive of him...

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kitana710 I'm sorry Jenny. Honestly I understand not wanting to even bother fighting about anything. I think that's why posted this originally. I needed some kind of validation to rock the boat. But why should we put so much into our relationships and get nothing in...

9 Feb 13

kitana710 @kitana710 (53) 24 Dec 12

Let's see...it's Christmas Eve and my husband tells me he's going to play D&D (a board game for those of you not in tune with Nerdism) with his buddies for a Christmas event. Bare with me. I have been very supportive of him...

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kitana710 haha...yes, my frustration has been overwhelming. Thanks for your comment Hatley!

9 Feb 13

kitana710 @kitana710 (53) 24 Dec 12

Let's see...it's Christmas Eve and my husband tells me he's going to play D&D (a board game for those of you not in tune with Nerdism) with his buddies for a Christmas event. Bare with me. I have been very supportive of him...

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kitana710 Well ZoeJoy I appreciate your comment, especially if you've been married for 26 years! Good for you!!! I hope that we can find middle ground and strive for a marriage that will last as long as yours has.

9 Feb 13

kitana710 @kitana710 (53) 24 Dec 12

Let's see...it's Christmas Eve and my husband tells me he's going to play D&D (a board game for those of you not in tune with Nerdism) with his buddies for a Christmas event. Bare with me. I have been very supportive of him...

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kitana710 No you're right. Things have been very rocky in our relationship and there are more issues to it, however, I felt that this way I could just simplify the situation.

9 Feb 13

kitana710 @kitana710 (53) 9 Feb 13

Hello! Does anyone know anything about being a LMT? How are the job opportunities? I've been interested in doing this since I was a teenager and I have the opportunity to go to school for free. I get to choose a certification...

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kitana710 @kitana710 (53) 9 Feb 13

Here's my dilemma: My husband and I have been married for 3 years. During this time we've been together for a year and half due to the military. So during this time that we've actually lived in the same house together he's...

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jricky1 @jricky1 (6798) • China 5 Feb 13

It's cool to see you lost weight everytime you weighed yourself.So i would really like to hear what you guys say and are you happy to get youself better shape of body?Glad to hear and have a nice day.

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kitana710 I think it's probably rare to hear people feel bad about losing weight. For me it's great! I have to work hard to see results so when I do, it's a great accomplishment!

8 Feb 13

heleighna @heleighna (102) • Philippines 8 Feb 13

I have a girl friend who is already in a relationship with one my guy friends for 7 years and they already have a 6 years old little girl, they were living together for 7 years already. So the girl met a foreign guy online, and...

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kitana710 It's crazy because that's happened to one of my in-laws. His wife met someone online and took off. She left him and her kids a note and that was the last he heard from her. What kind of people just do that?!? It makes no sense and there should be some kind of...

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Nursefrai06 @Nursefrai06 (2498) • Penrith, Australia 29 Dec 12

Lying and cheating is definitely wrong. However how about drunken hook-ups where in the person involved is in a state of impaired function and under social pressures which is immediately regretted? If you are in a wonderful...

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kitana710 I think it depends on your level of commitment. Boyfriends and girlfriends don't necessarily mean that you've committed to being the only one that you're going to be with. Engaged I think is different because you've established that you two are planning to be...

30 Dec 12

jricky1 @jricky1 (6798) • China 30 Dec 12

My dad told me that no matter how busy you are,breakfast is so important for us and become the most important meal in a daily life,so do you guys have a habit to eat it?Overall,various food could also helps a lot.I...

breakfast

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kitana710 It is a fact that breakfast is very important to your health and I make sure to start every morning off right. Honestly I'm one of those people who HAVE to eat breakfast. I can actually go without eating lunch or dinner but breakfast is the only way I can...

30 Dec 12

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mayrylflores @mayrylflores (173) • Philippines 29 Dec 12

It only works when two people learn to trust and communicate with each other. Do not expect too much time from your lover or else frustration will start. I have been in a long relationship twice and I know this could be so...

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kitana710 I believe it can work if both parties want it too. My husband and I are dual military and we've been separated for about 2 years. Of course there are those doubters who say that he's cheated or that even I have, but the truth is we both haven't. Our level of...

29 Dec 12

Jennifer @LovingMyBabies (85285) • Valdosta, Georgia 27 Dec 12

Can you live with someone who constantly lies about everything? Has secrets? Does that make you comfortable to live with them? To be honest it would make me a little nervous to live with someone who lies all the time and has...

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kitana710 Unfortunately that's how I live. I can't trust my housemates with my stuff so I pretty much have to hide stuff and label everything. It sucks and you would think that they'd stop or say something but because they know they're wrong they haven't. I'm just...

27 Dec 12

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pomwango @pomwango (1353) • Kenya 21 Dec 12

i quickly make opinions at first sight and more so by what the person is wearing.i tend to dismiss us with loose morals those who are wearing too short, tight or revealing clothes.some have too much piercings i also dont take them...

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kitana710 Honestly I think it depends. No matter what kind of style you have it means something about you. If you look sloppy, you probably are. If you look dirty, you probably are. If you're incredibly preppy or have an extrem grunge style it means something to you....

27 Dec 12

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