Leaving a Happy little family for a rich guy..

Thanks for sharing This is bad, the rich guy will keep her for some day, than throw away, i am sure. Welcome to mylot.

this is sad. but maybe there is still something that your firend guy did not tell you. for her to leave a good family i dont think she can just leave her family for money. you need to find out fromherself too

Honestly I am expecting the consequences that your friend will encounter someday for a fact that she just left her boyfriend and their 6 year old kid? It was like she left the big responsibility, does she ever thought that being with rich guy can solve her problem? Doesn't she realize that she already ruined everything and her situation will be more complicated because of her actions? Most of the time I have been hearing stories when the women are being left by their boyfriends and husbands. Especially when a girl was discovered pregnant then the guy would just left the girl to escape from responsibility. So that is what exactly she did, she must be thankful otherwise that her boyfriend took the responsibility. What was their financial status? I think there is something to do with financial stability that she can't take the challenge anymore. Wow this story is for "Maalaala Mo Kaya"

Things happen in a marriage that when left unsolved would lead to one stupid decision. And this is probably one of them.

Hi heleighna It is really strange to hear this , and i am shocked how can she leave a little girl like that ? . I think she left because of money only , as the foreign guy is rich so she left with him with out giving any reason . Looks like Movie impact is more on your friend .

I've heard lots of stories like that where some women marry "a rich foreigner" or just a foreigner mostly westerners or those who came from "1st world countries" so they can live a more comfortable life. Well, I don't know the reason of the girl you're talking about, but from what I can see, it's more of a selfish reason. If she's a decent girl, who has already a kid with a certain guy, and let's just say she fell in love with somebody else and not yet married, she could talk with her guy heart to heart and not left him, dumbfounded. And most of all, she should take her child with her, well, depending on their agreement. And your guy friend should move on, forget all about her, be strong and most of all, always have faith in God. Have a nice day!

I think money does not play great deal in relationships. Some people might think money is more important, but I would suggest happiness is more important. I think some people always go around the money while others go for happiness.

I can't imagine any mother leaving her daughter like that. I hope that the father has sense enough to sue for full custody. Otherwise, the mother could come back and take the little girl away, confusing her even more.

I have heard cases like this all over , lots of men leave their children with the mother and run off with other woman . I think those kind of people will pay for their action . I cannot really judge because there is some things our friends wont share with us , we may not know how they treat their partner . I hope your friend daughter will be ok , she has her father he will just have to love her twice as much .

I think that your story is heartbreaking. Still, I`m almost sure that there must be something which you don`t know. I cannot fanthom a mother leaving her little girl for money unless there was something else unsaid. Still, if this is so, she is not fit to be anyone`s mother.

We all grow up and do not get assembled the way Ford cars are. Meaning there is difference in our levels of maturity. One of the partners may be more mature when compared to the other, and might find the other short of his or her expectations. Likewise, the partner who has yet to cross that grade of maturity might feel hurt at not being indulged enough. So there are two sides of every story, and traditionally, it would be parents and elders sitting and resolving these issues. But we no longer have that mesh to spring up from. So such breaking of fabric is inevitable in many cases. It may not essentially be for the sake or riches though. Because as you mentioned, it is hard for the mother to take a call against her child...especially if she is a daughter. Its their life...lets hope it does not happen to ours.

Well, the behavior of your friend, if you allow me, is to blame! She was accompanied with a guy for 7 years, has a daughter of 6 and what do you do? Go with another as this is rich? NO, wrong. I believe that this is not love! I can understand that maybe in their family there have been discussions, sometimes not be gone completely agree, but absolutely, from my point of view, your friend was wrong in full! I used very strong words in this comment, but when I hear that there is a middle child of six years old, how would like to respond?

That's just so wrong. Even without the sanctity of marriage, the mere fact that they have a child together means they are already committed. If they don't want to be together anymore, then that will not mean they will cease to be parents. It really amazes me sometimes how can a mother even think of abandoning her own child. I would sort of understand a bit if she would take her child with her and she will just say that she wants her kid to have a good life (like everything can be solved by money, huh?). But what she did is totally so selfish.

It's crazy because that's happened to one of my in-laws. His wife met someone online and took off. She left him and her kids a note and that was the last he heard from her. What kind of people just do that?!? It makes no sense and there should be some kind of consequence for their actions. It's abandonment!

wow! it doesn't matter if they were married or not. they were in a relationship and have a child together. how could she do that to that little girl. that relationship won't last simply because of karma.

I assume you have a female friend? Not a girl friend or did you have a relationship with her as well? Personally I do not believe people just leave without a word. If a woman starts being interested in other people, men, there is something wrong with the relationship she already has. She might be neglected, bored, a partner that takes her for granted. I am sure a partner, man can see if she changes. Not every woman is talking, trying, asking for attention but for sure a change of behaviour was there. Might be the partner did ignore it or did not want to see it. I feel sorry for the little girl, but only future will tell if she can deal with it or not. Money is seldom the only reason to leave but a better life is for sure.

The real victim in that situation is the 6 years old kid. Sorry to say this but your girl friend is selfish. How she can afford to leave her daughter for that guy, that kid is helpless and innocent, needs care and compassion from a mother she is too young to experience and be neglected by her own mother.. But I am sure that is all temporary.. soon your girl friend will surely realize with regrets what she did to her own daughter.

Not a new story. Well, i guess there is a reason why she chatted a foreign man anyway. Maybe they are not in good terms with this guy friend of yours, you just do not know since , Filipina girls are good in playing okay. You cannot blame why she fell in love with that man. However, I did not like the idea of leaving her child to his father. If i was the girl, the child should be with me. Well not sure what are her reasons. Only she the one knows that. But for sure, i know she wasnt happy anymore with her filipino guy.

in my idea she has done wrong.... leaving a family for just a rich guy... hmmmm.. she didnt think as today i am leaving my family and i destroy little girl life tomorrow maybe that rich guy do same with her and leave her for another one... this is life's truth... you give with this hand and you will get it with another hand....

maybe she is asking for more than love and that is money. this is how we can test the love of a person thru money. and i am sad to know that kids are getting affected because couple's problem.