kitana710

@kitana710 (53)

Age 39

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Baby daddy gone missing

BenterAdede @BenterAdede (77) • Kenya 8 Feb 13

What woudl you do if the father of your child just disappeared into the thin air just to relise months later that he has married another? I am deverstated right now. What will I tell my son when he asks about his father? I really...

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kitana710 I'm really sorry that you're in this situation. But keep strong! Unfortunately, there are MANY single mothers, my mother included, who can support their families. The key to this is having a good support system. Having these friends and family will make you're...

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How does it feel to lose weight?

jricky1 @jricky1 (6800) • China 5 Feb 13

It's cool to see you lost weight everytime you weighed yourself.So i would really like to hear what you guys say and are you happy to get youself better shape of body?Glad to hear and have a nice day.

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kitana710 I think it's probably rare to hear people feel bad about losing weight. For me it's great! I have to work hard to see results so when I do, it's a great accomplishment!

8 Feb 13

Leaving a Happy little family for a rich guy..

heleighna @heleighna (102) • Philippines 8 Feb 13

I have a girl friend who is already in a relationship with one my guy friends for 7 years and they already have a 6 years old little girl, they were living together for 7 years already. So the girl met a foreign guy online, and...

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kitana710 It's crazy because that's happened to one of my in-laws. His wife met someone online and took off. She left him and her kids a note and that was the last he heard from her. What kind of people just do that?!? It makes no sense and there should be some kind of...

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If you do cheat on your partner, should you always tell them the act?

Nursefrai06 @Nursefrai06 (2498) • Penrith, Australia 29 Dec 12

Lying and cheating is definitely wrong. However how about drunken hook-ups where in the person involved is in a state of impaired function and under social pressures which is immediately regretted? If you are in a wonderful...

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kitana710 I think it depends on your level of commitment. Boyfriends and girlfriends don't necessarily mean that you've committed to being the only one that you're going to be with. Engaged I think is different because you've established that you two are planning to be...

30 Dec 12

Breakfast helps a lot.

jricky1 @jricky1 (6800) • China 30 Dec 12

My dad told me that no matter how busy you are,breakfast is so important for us and become the most important meal in a daily life,so do you guys have a habit to eat it?Overall,various food could also helps a lot.I...

breakfast

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kitana710 It is a fact that breakfast is very important to your health and I make sure to start every morning off right. Honestly I'm one of those people who HAVE to eat breakfast. I can actually go without eating lunch or dinner but breakfast is the only way I can...

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Do long distance relationship realy works?

mayrylflores @mayrylflores (173) • Philippines 29 Dec 12

It only works when two people learn to trust and communicate with each other. Do not expect too much time from your lover or else frustration will start. I have been in a long relationship twice and I know this could be so...

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kitana710 I believe it can work if both parties want it too. My husband and I are dual military and we've been separated for about 2 years. Of course there are those doubters who say that he's cheated or that even I have, but the truth is we both haven't. Our level of...

29 Dec 12

Can You Live With Someone You Cannot Trust?

Jennifer @LovingMyBabies (85288) • Valdosta, Georgia 27 Dec 12

Can you live with someone who constantly lies about everything? Has secrets? Does that make you comfortable to live with them? To be honest it would make me a little nervous to live with someone who lies all the time and has...

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kitana710 Unfortunately that's how I live. I can't trust my housemates with my stuff so I pretty much have to hide stuff and label everything. It sucks and you would think that they'd stop or say something but because they know they're wrong they haven't. I'm just...

27 Dec 12

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do you judge people by the clothes they wear?

pomwango @pomwango (1353) • Kenya 21 Dec 12

i quickly make opinions at first sight and more so by what the person is wearing.i tend to dismiss us with loose morals those who are wearing too short, tight or revealing clothes.some have too much piercings i also dont take them...

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kitana710 Honestly I think it depends. No matter what kind of style you have it means something about you. If you look sloppy, you probably are. If you look dirty, you probably are. If you're incredibly preppy or have an extrem grunge style it means something to you....

27 Dec 12

Are you quick to make peace with others?

Dominique25 @Dominique25 (9464) • United States 27 Dec 12

I do not like to argue or have disagreements with others. However there are times when others can be this way towards us.When I have a disagreement with someone, whether it is family,friends or a stranger I try to make peace as...

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kitana710 I wish I could say that I am but I know I'm not. I'm very stubborn and I often feel that they should apologize first. I feel that I've had good reason to do whatever I did. I fight with myself on trying to be the better person and to rise above my ego but...

27 Dec 12

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Are you a teachable person?

Dominique25 @Dominique25 (9464) • United States 27 Dec 12

Some people feel that when they reach a certain age they shouldn't have to listen to others. Or that they are too proud to take advice from others. I know that we are all imperfect and so I know that no matter how old I get I will...

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kitana710 I most definiteyl am!!! I love learning and I've often found that learning from others' mistakes has kept me on a good path. I'm very aware that I make mistakes as well so I don't mind constructive criticism and always strive to be better for myself.

27 Dec 12

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Would you tell your partner/spouse if you won a million dollar lottery?

Dominique25 @Dominique25 (9464) • United States 27 Dec 12

I understand not telling everyone about it. But if I won a million dollars I would tell my husband. It would be scary to tell a lot of people because people will do crazy things for money. So I would only tell my husband until I...

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kitana710 I would find it very hard to keep a secret like that from my husband. I would absolutely tell him. We have separate accounts so we've already established that we make our own money. But when it comes down to it, we pay for each others bills, meals, and clothes...

27 Dec 12

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I found out that he is married

chiwasaki @chiwasaki (4694) • Philippines 24 Dec 12

I found out that he is married... I have a crush in the office. Of course it is just a crush, an admiration. But I found out that he is married. Well that is fine, it is not as if I will have a relationship with him. But I...

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kitana710 Apparently to many I know they said that it's ok if you're not the married one. I on the other hand don't believe that for a second. If you intentionally know that someone has already promised to be with someone else isn't it obvious that you shouldn't be...

27 Dec 12

How many "Friends" do you have?

34momma @34momma (13882) • United States 26 Dec 12

I just turned 41 a few weeks back. I was thinking... How many friends do I really have? As I thought about it, I am blessed to know that I honestly have a bunch of really great people in my life. I have 2 women in my life who I...

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kitana710 I have only a few if that. Unfortunately I have been hurt a lot and it's caused me to be very selective on whom I allow in my life. The one's/ that I do have I know I can rely on them 24/7.

27 Dec 12

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are you as open or talkative online than in the real world?

Cutie18f @Cutie18f (9546) • Philippines 27 Dec 12

It is easy to classify members here who are very open or very talkative from those who only say a few words on this site. Is this online behavior of yours compatible with your real-life self? I wonder. Personally, I think it is...

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kitana710 I'm more open online. With such anonimity it's so much easier to display my feelings without any sense of repurcussions. Obviously in the real world, people feel very offended and suffer heavy consequences. Don't get me wrong, if there is a time and place for...

27 Dec 12

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Do you listen to your partner/spouse when they say you are going to do somethin

Dominique25 @Dominique25 (9464) • United States 26 Dec 12

I think that it is very annoying when anyone tells me that I have to do this or that. As if I'm suppose to obey there every word. My husband tries to do this often. For example if I get a full time job he says that I will be the...

command

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kitana710 I'm in a similar situation. My husband wants a ton of kids but once we had our daughter he was too busy or just didn't help like he said he would. He barely changed diapers, didn't help with feeding or baths. I think the idea he had in his head was much...

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In this life, Is it really possible to completely forget someone?

chiyochan @chiyosan (30183) • Philippines 24 Dec 12

I think not... I thought i would never ever think of him again, that person who has broken my heart twice over. I thought that if i am able to forgive him, i would be free.. that i would never think of him again, i thought that if...

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kitana710 I think it's just hard to stop thinking about the people who have had a lot of influence on our lives. I don't think that you necessarily haven't moved on. It's just that you can't really just forget about people you've loved.

24 Dec 12

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slept late and here come the carolers

Cutie18f @Cutie18f (9546) • Philippines 24 Dec 12

It was the eve of Christmas so naturally we were the whole evening. After the party, we went home and slept at around 2 a.m. already. Guess what? Very early in the morning a series of carolers were already going from house to...

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kitana710 I've never had carolers come around. Although I wouldn't mind, too early in the morning could possibly lead me to be a little crabby. I'd prefer 10-11am. I'd at least get a little sleep and people will more than likely still be at home.

24 Dec 12

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i like watching home alone every christmas

liezel25 @liezel25 (292) • Germany 24 Dec 12

Every Christmas, there's always home alone the movies in differents parts and shown in different channels. It doesn't get old for me and I always enjoy it. I like it more when its maculay culkin is the actor because its funny. Do...

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kitana710 That's definitely a classic. But my favorite is ELF!!!! I can't help but laugh my butt off everytime I see it. Merry Christmas!

24 Dec 12

Waited too long on getting my girlfriend her Christmas Present!

jambi462 @jambi462 (4576) • United States 24 Dec 12

I was a little bummed out today, I've been really busy at both of my restaurant jobs because of the holiday and I haven't had the time to cash my check to go and get my girlfriend's present. I was hoping that they would be open...

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kitana710 I don't think she'll be disappointed. Just be creative!!! Get her a card and write sweet things or just go to the dollar store and get fake ones that will lead up to the card...just use your imagination and put some effort into it. She'll be happy that you...

24 Dec 12

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