Would you tell your partner/spouse if you won a million dollar lottery?
By Dominique25
@Dominique25 (9464)
United States
December 27, 2012 8:40pm CST
I understand not telling everyone about it. But if I won a million dollars I would tell my husband. It would be scary to tell a lot of people because people will do crazy things for money. So I would only tell my husband until I was able to take the ticket in.
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13 responses
@animegirl334 (3263)
• United States
8 Jan 13
I would tell my spouse too if I have one (and won a million dollars in the lottery). Since we share a lifestyle it wouldn't be good for our relationship if I held something so big. Maybe if it was a 500 dollar lottery I might hid it so I could buy something I like. I would probably buy a cake for my spouse too though so we both share the luck.
@Dominique25 (9464)
• United States
12 Jan 13
Yeah I agree with you that with something big like that it is best to tell your spouse. Especially if the couple is close.They wouldn't want money to ruin their relationship. It would even be nice to win $500. I think then I would surprise my husband with something to tell him about it.
@Dominique25 (9464)
• United States
12 Jan 13
I completely agree with you. I think that a person should definitely tell their spouse if they won something like that. I think too many people are starting to have a greater love for money and the things that it can buy or get them. So "things" are loved instead of people. Which is why some feel they would not tell their spouse and that I'm sure would greatly affect their marriage if not end it.
@brew2x (3094)
• Philippines
2 Jan 13
Like you I would only tell my husband. And if the amount is really huge to even last us a lifetime still we will keep mum about it and pretend to live an average life. I will still continue to work. It is really dangerous to have plenty of money since there are lots of bad people out there who are waiting for a victim. Am I that paranoid? :)
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@Dominique25 (9464)
• United States
3 Jan 13
In the times we are living in. It is necessary to be that paranoid. There are too many bad people out there who are just looking for an easy to make money. I think it is a good idea to tell your husband to keep it quit from others.
@Savvynlady (3684)
• United States
7 Jan 13
I am not married, and the guy I go with, we don't see each other a lot due to us living on opposite sides of town and no transportation between us. So, he probably wouldn't know if I did win anything or not. I DO have an ex husband that I owe child support to, and before his butt get deep in my business I would have to be in a lawyer's office setting up an agreement for his butt because there is still monies owed between us. fair is fair, but I had to pay him child support but when them kids came to me, he gave me NOTHING but he cried poor mouth every time they had to do something. So, I would have to shut em down before he try to play me and try he will do. I don't mind sharing, I don't mind giving, I do mind when people play me and that irks me more than a little bit.
@Dominique25 (9464)
• United States
14 Jan 13
Yeah it is maddening when others try to take advantage of us when they themselves did us wrong. Sorry to hear that he didn't pay you any child support when he should have been. I'm sure that that situation made you really upset especially when you were going through that.It is sad to see how fast a person can change from being completely in love with a person to doing them so wrong.
@DoctorDidi (7018)
• India
31 Dec 12
Why not? I might not go public but my partner should always be informed at least for the sake of safety.
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@Dominique25 (9464)
• United States
31 Dec 12
I agree with you. It would be a good idea to tell your partner. Some people feel that they wouldn't tell anyone (except of course for when they turned the ticket in). I think some individuals have a fear that even their family members/partner/spouse would try to take advantage of them. That though is really sad.
@clothmama (13)
• United States
2 Jan 13
I would absolutely tell him. What's mine is his, and what's his is mine. We share our money.
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@Dominique25 (9464)
• United States
3 Jan 13
I'm glad to hear that you would tell him. That is great. That is really how things should be.So many people start to become secretive when it comes to money even if it might be a small amount. I think it's a loving thing to do, to tell our spouse if we have won something big.
@tonyllenium (6252)
• Italy
31 Dec 12
eeheh i am not married so in my case i won't say to anybody....but i think if you are married is an important news to communicate to your family...may be somebody will run away but it sounds strange this last case for me...
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@Dominique25 (9464)
• United States
31 Dec 12
Yeah communicating is very important. I think that it would be a good thing to tell your spouse if you won something like that. When it comes to money some people are very particular about things, even keeping it from their family. I think that is sad.
@wilsongoddard (7291)
• United States
28 Dec 12
Well, of course I would tell my boyfriend. Of course, I'd also make sure that I put the money into a separate account so that I could pay off some stuff and buy a nice house before he spent anything. I love my boyfriend, but he does not share some of my financial priorities.
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@marguicha (223720)
• Chile
28 Dec 12
I could not stop myself from running to tell him! I am a widow now, but we had a no secrets marriage that lasted almost 40 years. I`d tell him immediatly and trust that he would do what was best. Probably, the best way in those cases is to be helped by our Bank.
@Dominique25 (9464)
• United States
15 Jan 13
I'm glad to hear this about your marriage. It would be a wonderful thing to be married that long and have such a great relationship. Yeah I agree the best way to handle it would be to let him know and have the bank help out. Thanks so much for sharing your thoughts. I appreciate it.
@kourdapya (924)
• Philippines
7 Feb 13
I would tell only my husband and the family. I'd talk to them that it should be a secret, otherwise I won't give them their share, hahaha!
@345042441 (130)
• China
28 Dec 12
Of course i would tell my husband if i won a million dollar lottery. I could not find the reason why i should just keep it for myself. We have undergone some difficulties together and i think we should share happiness together too.
@Dominique25 (9464)
• United States
19 Jan 13
I'm glad to hear that you would tell your husband. I would tell my husband too. I just think it would be the right thing to do. As well as I would be happy to tell him something like that.Yeah sharing things with our family and friends is important. It draws us closer.
@kitana710 (53)
•
28 Dec 12
I would find it very hard to keep a secret like that from my husband. I would absolutely tell him. We have separate accounts so we've already established that we make our own money. But when it comes down to it, we pay for each others bills, meals, and clothes all the time so we don't have a problem with that. I'm sure my husband would advise me on what and who I should spend it on but ultimately it'd be my choice. We were married before I won the lottery so I think I'd at least owe it to him to tell him I won.
@Dominique25 (9464)
• United States
16 Jan 13
Yeah I agree with what you are saying. I would feel the same. It is nice that you both have your own income but yet you still do things for one another. That is a great thing. It would be to win something like that and then tell our spouse. They would be so excited for us. And then we would be able to buy them a lot of things !