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kitana710 @kitana710 (53) 9 Feb 13

Here's my dilemma: My husband and I have been married for 3 years. During this time we've been together for a year and half due to the military. So during this time that we've actually lived in the same house together he's...

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kitana710 Thanks Trisha! I appreciate your advice. We haven't actually discuss that certain topic and I'm glad you brought that to my attention. Thanks again!

9 Feb 13

kitana710 @kitana710 (53) 9 Feb 13

Here's my dilemma: My husband and I have been married for 3 years. During this time we've been together for a year and half due to the military. So during this time that we've actually lived in the same house together he's...

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kitana710 It's okay. I feel the same way, but things just happen ya know.

9 Feb 13

kitana710 @kitana710 (53) 9 Feb 13

Here's my dilemma: My husband and I have been married for 3 years. During this time we've been together for a year and half due to the military. So during this time that we've actually lived in the same house together he's...

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kitana710 Thanks Hatley. I just hate to use her as pawn in our marital problems. I find it difficult to say I'll just take her and leave because he DOES love our daughter. He's a good father in that respect. And I couldn't do that to my daughter either. She adores him...

9 Feb 13

kitana710 @kitana710 (53) 9 Feb 13

Here's my dilemma: My husband and I have been married for 3 years. During this time we've been together for a year and half due to the military. So during this time that we've actually lived in the same house together he's...

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kitana710 Yes I do make my own money, in fact I pay the mortgage so everyone pretty much stays in the house for free. They pay some of the utility bills but obviously that isn't the same as rent.

9 Feb 13

kitana710 @kitana710 (53) 9 Feb 13

Here's my dilemma: My husband and I have been married for 3 years. During this time we've been together for a year and half due to the military. So during this time that we've actually lived in the same house together he's...

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kitana710 We have discussed this and we're at a standstill. That's kinda why I was asking if anyone else had any other ideas.

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kitana710 @kitana710 (53) 9 Feb 13

Here's my dilemma: My husband and I have been married for 3 years. During this time we've been together for a year and half due to the military. So during this time that we've actually lived in the same house together he's...

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kitana710 Thanks Kashmeres... I'll at least be looking for another place soon.

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kitana710 @kitana710 (53) 24 Dec 12

Let's see...it's Christmas Eve and my husband tells me he's going to play D&D (a board game for those of you not in tune with Nerdism) with his buddies for a Christmas event. Bare with me. I have been very supportive of him...

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kitana710 I'm sorry Jenny. Honestly I understand not wanting to even bother fighting about anything. I think that's why posted this originally. I needed some kind of validation to rock the boat. But why should we put so much into our relationships and get nothing in...

9 Feb 13

kitana710 @kitana710 (53) 24 Dec 12

Let's see...it's Christmas Eve and my husband tells me he's going to play D&D (a board game for those of you not in tune with Nerdism) with his buddies for a Christmas event. Bare with me. I have been very supportive of him...

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kitana710 haha...yes, my frustration has been overwhelming. Thanks for your comment Hatley!

9 Feb 13

kitana710 @kitana710 (53) 24 Dec 12

Let's see...it's Christmas Eve and my husband tells me he's going to play D&D (a board game for those of you not in tune with Nerdism) with his buddies for a Christmas event. Bare with me. I have been very supportive of him...

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kitana710 Well ZoeJoy I appreciate your comment, especially if you've been married for 26 years! Good for you!!! I hope that we can find middle ground and strive for a marriage that will last as long as yours has.

9 Feb 13

kitana710 @kitana710 (53) 24 Dec 12

Let's see...it's Christmas Eve and my husband tells me he's going to play D&D (a board game for those of you not in tune with Nerdism) with his buddies for a Christmas event. Bare with me. I have been very supportive of him...

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kitana710 No you're right. Things have been very rocky in our relationship and there are more issues to it, however, I felt that this way I could just simplify the situation.

9 Feb 13

kitana710 @kitana710 (53) 24 Dec 12

Let's see...it's Christmas Eve and my husband tells me he's going to play D&D (a board game for those of you not in tune with Nerdism) with his buddies for a Christmas event. Bare with me. I have been very supportive of him...

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kitana710 Ahhh thanks Frankie J. I appreciate your kind words. I hope you had a great Christmas and have a happy new year!!!

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kitana710 @kitana710 (53) 24 Dec 12

Let's see...it's Christmas Eve and my husband tells me he's going to play D&D (a board game for those of you not in tune with Nerdism) with his buddies for a Christmas event. Bare with me. I have been very supportive of him...

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kitana710 Ya know, I'm not quite sure how the other guys manage to pull it off as well. I'm assuming their wives are similar to me and just figure it'd be better to let them go then to start a massive fight during Christmas.

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kitana710 @kitana710 (53) 24 Dec 12

Let's see...it's Christmas Eve and my husband tells me he's going to play D&D (a board game for those of you not in tune with Nerdism) with his buddies for a Christmas event. Bare with me. I have been very supportive of him...

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kitana710 Thanks kipmik. I'm not sure exactly how to bring it up but I'll be sure to do so.

26 Dec 12

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kitana710 @kitana710 (53) 24 Dec 12

Let's see...it's Christmas Eve and my husband tells me he's going to play D&D (a board game for those of you not in tune with Nerdism) with his buddies for a Christmas event. Bare with me. I have been very supportive of him...

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kitana710 Haha...yes I do believe that I've had the same thoughts, however, my husband is also younger than me (I failed to mention that). He's barely 21 and I'm 27. Think that has anything to do with it? I'm sure it does. Don't get me wrong...he has his own car, good...

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kitana710 @kitana710 (53) 24 Dec 12

Let's see...it's Christmas Eve and my husband tells me he's going to play D&D (a board game for those of you not in tune with Nerdism) with his buddies for a Christmas event. Bare with me. I have been very supportive of him...

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kitana710 Thank you! I appreciate your response. I dunno...maybe it's just a male thing. Maybe because it's not important to them they automatically assume that it's not us. It's probably just like how we think it's important and assume they think the same thing....

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kitana710 @kitana710 (53) 24 Dec 12

Let's see...it's Christmas Eve and my husband tells me he's going to play D&D (a board game for those of you not in tune with Nerdism) with his buddies for a Christmas event. Bare with me. I have been very supportive of him...

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kitana710 We didn't have plans but I had assumed that Christmas Eve was just as important as Christmas Day. Maybe you're right. I should have planned it prior to just assuming that all families would want to spend Christmas Eve together as well. Thanks for the insight!...

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wongchoiyee @wongchoiyee (7413) • Malaysia 23 Dec 12

...and just stay at home. I am tired of commuting all these years, none of a job I hold longer than 3 months, all of them are just 1-2 months. I see people are treated me like a nutty, while I am obedient, loyal and hardworking. I...

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kitana710 Agreed...because you are a hard worker show confidence that you know you're doing the right thing and don't take their bullying. Gain your peers respect and you'll be fine. Once you start letting them walk over you then they'll know they can do it again.

23 Dec 12

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