I realize that...
By Ifamous
@ifa225 (14461)
Indonesia
December 27, 2012 8:06am CST
I don't have a true friend at all
I thought I have a best friend who will be there for me and stand beside me when my hard times
but I just wrong, Me is my only true friend
8 responses
@Mavic123456 (21893)
• Thailand
27 Dec 12
Such sad one, sadder to realize at this time when new year is about to begin. 
why did say that you have no true friend. However you are our true friend is ourselves, and no one can beat that. We can also,consider you mother as true friend. Sometimes, even you siblings. My true friends are my sisters. I have very few friends but I am okay with that. It is better to have such few friends true and authentic that too have thousands that will be so tiring.
why did say that you have no true friend. However you are our true friend is ourselves, and no one can beat that. We can also,consider you mother as true friend. Sometimes, even you siblings. My true friends are my sisters. I have very few friends but I am okay with that. It is better to have such few friends true and authentic that too have thousands that will be so tiring.@ifa225 (14461)
• Indonesia
27 Dec 12
Hi Mavic,
I am not a looner actually,
I have hundred friends out there, but I feel like they just a stranger since they never there when I need them
I had tried to be their shoulder to cry on, but they just leave me when they have another friend
Maybe I just have to learn that none I can lean on
@Mavic123456 (21893)
• Thailand
27 Dec 12
No dont lose hopes of finding friends, we are still breathing so we will Still find friends in so many ways and means. Don't be too pessimistic on matters. Unless you no have no intention of getting out of the house anymore.
@thesids (22180)
• Bhubaneswar, India
27 Dec 12
Hi ifa
Oh. That is quite sad dear. I have many friends of that kind (and hence I understand you better when you say this) but then, I believe somewhere I have a good friend in my wife. She is my best friend. Maybe you are searching for the right friend in wrong persons...
Okay, I have an idea... arent we friends? Tell me how can I be a true friend?
Oh. That is quite sad dear. I have many friends of that kind (and hence I understand you better when you say this) but then, I believe somewhere I have a good friend in my wife. She is my best friend. Maybe you are searching for the right friend in wrong persons...
Okay, I have an idea... arent we friends? Tell me how can I be a true friend?
and you can not buy me some choco but only virtual 
uhmm by the way, what is gtalk? 
@thesids (22180)
• Bhubaneswar, India
28 Dec 12
PM me your postal address and I am sure a few days later someone would ring up your doorbell and deliver you chocos dear
And yes, it might be impossible for my physical existence by your side... but I can always have a gtalk window open for you and we can chat... and then maybe you can share all that you want to with me... I am a good listener
And yes, it might be impossible for my physical existence by your side... but I can always have a gtalk window open for you and we can chat... and then maybe you can share all that you want to with me... I am a good listener
@gerald_lian (2188)
• Australia
27 Dec 12
This might sound disappointing, but sometimes I feel the same way about myself. Ever since young, I have been quite a loner and never really had a close friend whom I can hang out or spend quality time with although I do have a lot of regular/casual friends. I have tried hanging out with groups of friends before and trying to "fit in", but it just wasn't to be because what they did in the group was not what I was accustomed to or comfortable with. Sigh, it is indeed difficult to find a true/close friend these days........
Ever since young, I have been quite a loner and never really had a close friend whom I can hang out or spend quality time with although I do have a lot of regular/casual friends. I have tried hanging out with groups of friends before and trying to "fit in", but it just wasn't to be because what they did in the group was not what I was accustomed to or comfortable with. Sigh, it is indeed difficult to find a true/close friend these days........@gerald_lian (2188)
• Australia
28 Dec 12
Sometimes I feel alright being alone, but sometimes I also feel a bit depressed and sad being alone, especially when I see others hanging out with close friends enjoying each others' company. Being alone can have its advantages, but being alone all the time can start to get depressing after a while.......
@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
30 Dec 12
You know, I have been there. It is very hard to find true friends. Most people now are only by your side when you have something they need or want. Once you need something they are gone. I know the feeling. Been there too many times!
My husband and I rely on each other and the Lord, we are our only friends and that is how it will stay. It is VERY hard to trust people now a days! It's sad but its the way it is...
@echoforever (5180)
• United States
1 Jan 13
i dislike to see this topic i think you must have been hurt or wronged recently and i hope you're alright from that experience... take care
tanks@echoforever (5180)
• United States
1 Jan 13
Oh I just mean that I'm sad to know you're upset.
I hope you will feel better with the comfort of your fellow myLot members.
@akhaniemar (122)
• Philippines
30 Dec 12
Well, as they say, your best friend can be your worst enemy. So chose your friend wisely. But don't forget you still have the people who will never leave you. Your family. Some friends will just take you for granted. Don't feel too bad, maybe they just don't know your value, but someone will. Just don't stop being friendly.
@shion13 (85)
• Indonesia
29 Dec 12
just be yourself though. people who'll be your true friends are the people who'll stand by you though they know your weakness, or bad sides. who'll protect you when you're being mocked. who won't stab you in the back. you'll find them, just don't isolate yourself from others.
