How playful are you?

@Shavkat (140097)
Philippines
December 29, 2012 5:38am CST
I can still remember one of my friends. He used to play the love towards women. There are so many instances that he encouraged the same thing, but I can't do it. I believe in karma and I don't want that the women attached to my lives will be in the same spot of hurting them. How about you? What do you think?
14 responses
@sriroshan (2585)
• India
29 Dec 12
Same thing is with me what I think we all do what we want or what we do in this world as per our Karma that god created in us. Keep in mind we are control and make to act according to what God wants us, we are just vehicle with the control in God hand.
@sriroshan (2585)
• India
29 Dec 12
Yes God always tells us and in every religion it is being preached that we should never hurt the other people unnecessary
@Shavkat (140097)
• Philippines
29 Dec 12
If a player will take it seriously, God never wanted us to act like this with other people.
@tshihmin2 (186)
• Malaysia
30 Dec 12
I don't go around playing with love. Love thing is a very serious thing. Either you really love or you don't. If you really love somebody, you really show out and love will come. But, if you don't love the person, and you go to show out to him or her, then you're asking for trouble. For your information, please don't be misunderstood, I'm not talking about you, Shavkat. I'm talking about people in general. I believe in the idiom, 'What Goes Around Comes Around'. This idiom really suits the situation. By the way, I hate people who goes around playing a fool with love.
@Shavkat (140097)
• Philippines
30 Dec 12
Indeed, I don't like the idea of being a player.
@wolfie34 (26771)
• United Kingdom
29 Dec 12
Play with fire you will get burnt and you are right, I too believe in karma and one day he will find that playing women is not a wise thing to do. Has he never heard of the saying 'a woman scorned'? I have never been playful, I believe in honesty and trust, I expect people to treat me the way I treat them. He obviously has little respect for women.
@Shavkat (140097)
• Philippines
30 Dec 12
I had seen some of my friends who had suffered for being such. I do think it gives them a big lesson.
@savypat (20216)
• United States
29 Dec 12
I think that playing with people in a hurtful way, may bring a sense of power, but for all the hurt you do to another it will return to you if not in this life then in the next. Karma.
@Shavkat (140097)
• Philippines
30 Dec 12
I agree, the power of bad karma will over turn for those people.
@zoey7879 (3092)
• Quincy, Illinois
30 Dec 12
Players are kids in a candy store that either need to step back or find someone who's polyamorous - or someone who might be more tolerant of their tactics in general.
@Shavkat (140097)
• Philippines
30 Dec 12
Yes, thanks for sharing.
@alberello (4752)
• Italy
29 Dec 12
Well, from your brief discussion, you mentioned the example of a friend. You said that he "play the love towards women", but to be honest, I do not know what is this "game". Maybe it's time to fall in love with one, and simultaneously another woman? Well, I need clarification. However I have no experience of this kind, I have never had a relationship. However, I think you're right, if what you mean is to have fun in love with women, in my opinion is a wrong notion!
@Shavkat (140097)
• Philippines
29 Dec 12
A game is like an idiomatic expression to express of playing the feelings of other people, referring to be a womanizer. Thus, it is not a good thing to do.
@RobtheRock (2433)
• United States
30 Dec 12
I do not believe in playing with women's feelings either. I am a nice guy though and sometimes I am playful. I had a friend who told this woman I loved her. I was very friendly and then saw that she was serious. When I told her I wasn't in love with her, she told me she had been in prison and didn't like being toyed with. I've since learned to be aware of women's feelings.
@tkonlinevn (6438)
• Vietnam
5 Jan 13
Life is more colorful. So, we can choose. As me, I life to choose cheerful. I choose all happiness and sadness of life. However, I think I love family life most!
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
29 Dec 12
I could be many things but playing witb other people's feelings is not my cup of tea. I alwaus give and show my true feelings to ybe person I love. I wouldn't want anyone to do the same thing to me. "what goes around comes around".
@Shavkat (140097)
• Philippines
29 Dec 12
We need to be true and try not hurt other feelings. These are the things the players must put into their mind.
@asliah (11137)
• Philippines
7 Feb 13
hi, i also believe in karma a bad karma once a man or even woman play the hearts of their lover,maybe not the same year or month but it will come to heir life someday,i am a serious person and i don't like to play hearts because i believe that it will return to me someday.
@ryanong (9665)
• Vietnam
29 Dec 12
one day later, he has to pay for his playing, i believe that... I don't like that style...if you dont love anymore, just say dont love and the love could be broken and then you can date another, not like...to be in love with many people at the same time...and in fact it is not true love, it is just playing...
@Shavkat (140097)
• Philippines
29 Dec 12
It is not a good thing, they are like changing clothes from time to time.
@Pegasus72 (1898)
2 Jan 13
I think when you get in a relationship it should be forever which it is harder to find honest and loving people these days. Choose well, and make it a life long commitment.
• China
1 Jan 13
I don't like the idea of being player in a relationship,either.When we are in love with someone,we need to be faithful.
@Nursefrai06 (2498)
• Penrith, Australia
29 Dec 12
I think it is really unfair for anybody for their feelings to be played with. Nobody deserves to be played because we're people, not objects and most certainly not toys.
@Shavkat (140097)
• Philippines
29 Dec 12
Exactly, we need to be humans.