good friends or not!
@nezavisima (7408)
Bulgaria
January 1, 2013 10:41am CST
As I know every one of us have known friends and relatives.
but in the last few days I realized that obviously best friends are very few or even that throws them.
apparently I was mistaken that I have good friends.
Now I just realized I have them.
but one month I'm in trouble and nobody can help me and did not even ask me how I am?
it hurts so much!
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6 responses
@prashu228 (37520)
• India
1 Jan 13
Hi
well i have been through this the ones whom i thought as good friends left me when i need them . Its then i realized the true colors of the people around me. well from them i am very selective about making friends.Hopefully its working till now. I know it hurts very much and i even stopped making best friends i just make friends now not best or very close ones.
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@arnold1428 (125)
• India
2 Jan 13
hi i know it would have been a bad experience. But we really cant say how people are until we experience it. What ever happened we should learn some lesson and move forward.
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@nezavisima (7408)
• Bulgaria
20 Jan 13
few people who can count.
I keep thinking that if we istniski friends will have real problems.
like if you have a friend istnski things change radically.
but sometimes our friends are not real and it must be so because you will know whom we can rely on and who not.
Good day Thanks for the reply.
@extremefun4fun (2908)
• India
17 Mar 13
It has happened for me also like that. I am also in trouble and nobody yet asked me how I am? but I have find a really true friend of mine and that is The Almighty God who hears and sees everything and knows everyone and he is wise about all situation and moments of my life. another good and true friends we can have are Books. Books are really good friends. try for them, I prefer to be alone but not having such of friends in my life.
@nezavisima (7408)
• Bulgaria
17 Mar 13
exactly.
lately i do so.
I do not share with anyone about herself out of difficult situations.
perhaps it is when we read books and connect their lives with them.
maybe you should find the best friends in the books and animals.
These are certainly things that we understand the better.
thanks for the reply.
@IntrovertShy (2780)
• Marikina, Philippines
2 Jan 13
Oh. That is so difficult 
May be your friends did not know all about it or they focus too much on other things. Sometimes friends have different characters or attitudes and it is also difficult to know if they worth as your friend or not.
May be your friends did not know all about it or they focus too much on other things. Sometimes friends have different characters or attitudes and it is also difficult to know if they worth as your friend or not.@nezavisima (7408)
• Bulgaria
20 Jan 13
really is.
friends sometimes have different attitudes.
sometimes we can not understand them just might need to know that we can count ourselves.
to think positively.
thanks for the reply nice day!
@jenny1015 (13359)
• Philippines
4 Jan 13
We just have to realize that our friends could not be there with us when we need them. But is doesn't mean that they love you less. Maybe they are just busy with their own lives or maybe, they really do not know what is happening to you unless you reach out to them yourself.
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@nezavisima (7408)
• Bulgaria
20 Jan 13
maybe you're right.
each of us has problems to solve, and each seeks.
but a true friend will find time for you.
Yet here the proverb goes Friend in need is knowledge.
thanks for the reply nice day!
@kokomo (1866)
• Philippines
16 Mar 13
Sometimes, we do not need to talk to be able our friend to know our heartaches and problems, they really know what we are going through by simply looking straight in our eyes. I believe that true friends do that. True friends are not the one who are there around when we are smiling and have fun but when we are in tears and they are around.
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@nezavisima (7408)
• Bulgaria
17 Mar 13
a true friend will always find the strength to help you and you will always hear that you understand the problems and not even tell them.
I think that a true friend will always find a way to help you.
thanks for the reply.
@echo060201 (540)
• China
2 Jan 13
I always believe that a friend in need is a friend indeed. If you show your true heart to others, they will do the same with you. Don's worry, you will have some ones in your life.
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@nezavisima (7408)
• Bulgaria
20 Jan 13
very true friend.
maybe you just have to learn to live.
and realize that true friends are few and should appreciate them.
However, it is important to be yourself and to seek those friends!
