Would you have the time for fake dramas?

There are so many fake people in this World that is unbelievable. Laziness is part of life for those people always full of excuses.

I don't see the need of it. If I don't like to do something or am not able too I just don't do it. I think it costs a lot of energy to start a drama.

I'm too real to deal with other people being fake. I hate fake people and I will not waste my time with them, my brother married a fake broad that comes from a fake family and now he is fake to me. I don't care what people think or say, if you are fake then I have no time for you. I take what is real and deal with those people first, fake takes a backseat or even worse, a trunk ride. Fake people have to remember too much stuff, real people just have to be themselves.

Laziness OR boredom with the mondain, everyday stuff. Most likely it is laziness though. I would categorize this as drama. Unless they get loud about it ofcourse. Real drama has very little to do with this sort of thing. Real drama is like stealing a husband or whining about some stupid thing and such as that.

That is a waste of my time , i dont know why would people go so far are they that bored with their life .

I would get angry yet be not openly angry. I would continue doing work and concentrate. Sooner their laziness will get to them.

Oh, not at all. I think i have developed a talent to identify which ones are fake when it comes to this. you can easily spot it, really. to know and identify which of the stories they say are the truth, and which ones are made up... i think especially if you spend a lot of time seeing this person, you would most definitely know and will be able to tell. :D If i am faced with someone who is just making up stories, i would just pretend to listen but won't take it to my heart about what they said. i would obviously be able to know which ones are the truth so i think that is what i would just remember. all others would just pass by me. he he so as not to offend the person... i would not directly turn them down; i think they have a lot to share that's why maybe they are already confused what's reality and what's made up in their minds.

Even before I start my drama they can read my scripts well. Looks like pretending is not my game.

I often do fake drama. Not because I'm lazy, or unwilling to do household chores. However, due to hide my sadness. I often tried to laugh, in front of everyone. Although actually, I was very sad and wanted to cry.

Hi Shavkat: I think that's terrible. Some of these persons that fake drama doesn't notice that all that they tell and complain is just in their minds and that they suffer for no reason while some other people who really have big reasons to feel sorry and have pity about themselves overcome their sad stories and make an example working day after day to be the best of them. ALVARO

hi, of course not i don't want to waste my time for the fake dramas at all,yes there are many people who do fake dramas just to get what they want in their life,like my cousin before he always do fake dramas to receive financially help from our auntie.

I dont have time for any type of drama, I think some thrive off of it. My old workerplace they use to all be like this. I had no use for them and ignore them. You determine who you are and your work ethic.

I don’t like such people, most especially they come after you and cry because they have this and that kind of problem. Sometimes it’s quite disturbing most especially if they pull off a “persuading” face that they want you to help them and in the long run, they just use you for what you can offer to them.

Oh yes, I like this, sometimes I imitate them. and it will just be a laughing deal to the family. hahaha.. it was just me doing the fake dramas. for fun.

I hate fake drama. I have so much real drama in my life that I don't have time for fake drama. I have lost almost all of the men in my life, I lost my favorite cat (read one of my discussions to get the full story), I lost friends due to mental illness and physical illness (most of the people in my life die due to mental and physical illness), and I have my work and college life to deal with. You can see why I don't need fake drama, or any drama for that matter in my life. I also have a grandmother and another cat, both of whom are really old and ill right now. I am trying to spend whatever time I have left with them, and I am trying to make them feel comfortable. I find it strange how my grandmother and my other cat are both ill right now, then again, my grandmother and my other cat seem to love each other, and I guess the two of them are planning on going together.

Ha ha ha! That describes my ex perfectly, whenever my ex had to do something they didn't want to do they would suddenly feel 'unwell' or make any excuse to get out of it, they wouldn't do the chore around the house and expect me to do it for them if they left it long enough. My ex was quite the drama queen. They were so transparent and predictable that I knew when they were having a fake drama there was an ulterior motive for them to get out of something they couldn't be bothered to do!

I know what you are talking about there, but fortunately (or unfortunately) having worked as a therapist for many years now, I seem to spot the dramas emerging in others who are not clients but friends and family and feel quite uncomfortable as to tell them to "get off their act" would cause arguments. So I tend to just stay with it and let it run its course. Sometimes I will gently suggest that they are over dramatising, but people don't like it, but it is uncomfortable to go along with such bull... if they are not clients. _Derek

Not only do I not have time to create fake drama in my life, I also don't have time to deal with people that create a lot of fake drama in their lives. You see, just a few years ago I was a very active member of a local playgroup, but I did eventually drop out because of the fact that it seemed like a lot of the other mothers that were a part of the playgroup. It was always that this one had an issue with that one and there was no way to develop a true friendship when everything seemed to revolve around fake drama.

The better way to deal with a fake drama actor is to fake drama him also. Hihihihi. But hoenstly, sometimes that is our escape routine, or part of our natural instinc when we dont feel like doing something. When youre stressed, its good to feel lazy for a while and not being guilty about it. But overdoing it is as bad as eating a raw unskinned potato. :)

with time you will be able to read someone's character and know when they are acting up.like when i ask my daughter to help me with dishes she fakes going to the loo and will stay there for long and i know its a pretend game.