Can't understand a girl
By Enigma1234
@Enigma1234 (53)
January 3, 2013 4:08pm CST
So i am 18 years old,not bad looking at all and i know it's kinda stupid for a boy on my age to start such a topic, but i'm really confused.Most of times it's pretty easy for me to talk with girls, no matter if they are beautiful or not.I'm starting to get close to them as a friend and get friendzoned often.I don't know why i keep doing it, but it seems like i can't stop.Tho that's not my problem in this moment.
There is a girl with which i am in one class from 5 years and this is our last year together.I didn't like her last 4 years, not because she is not good looking or something, just i haven't feel chemistry i gues, but somehow from last 3 months i'm just crazy to her and the problem is that this time it's hard for me even to get close to her as friend, because i can't even understand what kind of girl she is.We don't have much contacts to each other, but in the moments when we get to each other she make sure to confuse me completely.In one moment she make obviosly flirt with me and in the other she act like i am a wall.Can someone more familiar with girl psychology tell me how i should react on that? I feel stupid for thinking that much for her.
2 responses
@subhojit10 (7375)
• India
4 Jan 13
Thanks a ton for sharing this discussion. Well i can understand your situation and i do not think there is any particular age to have queries regarding relationships. I think it is human psychology to interpret things and circumstances on their own. What i want u to do is try to understand that girl once more and then confess your feelings directly to her and see what her reactions are. generally at this age such things happen and u should take appropriate decisions when dealing with relationships.
What say?
@Enigma1234 (53)
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4 Jan 13
I'll do my best of course, but it's hard when she is the one that decide when the conversations or contacts happen.
What i know for sure is that she is a truely good inside as a person.Always ready to help.She is smart as well.Tho there are some rumours about her, about what she is working etc, if you understand what I'm trying to say.I don't believe that tho, but looking her company of only good looking girls, i get just too much questions in mind.
