Mix Emotions I Felt This Month

It is pretty nerve-wrecking if you know that there is somethinv new that is about to happen .but always think of the positive things. I am sure that both your wife and baby will be fine. Coz if there are problems, the OB wohld have told you about it months ago.

I would just say, their is not a moment worth enough, as compared to holding your baby for the first time in his few hours after birth. Those moments are precious, and also worth waiting... Jobs would always come and go, but this moment won't. Congratulations on being a father... :)

Well if you could postpone your leaving it will be worth your while to witness it firsthand and see your wife and your son in person. I think that is what is meant by your wife not leaving her at this moment. Of course expectant mothers are really emotional and will be dependent on their husbands no matter what the condition of their pregnancy are. I would suggest to bargain with your employer to reconsider your leaving and hoping that you will feel how it is to be a father at that moment with them. With regards to giving birth, many of the hospitals are very reliable in delivering safe births nowadays, provided she is having no complications with her pregnancy then I think you should not worry about it at all. Congratulations in advance!

Congratulations to you and to your wife! You should really stay by your wife's side ALL THE TIME. If you can, you should stay longer. What I mean in longer is one year or more. In case you're not yet aware, the baby starts smiling as early as one month. When the baby is two to three months old, he will begin to utter some sounds and to act as if he understands what you're talking about. You shouldn't miss these, julyteen.

Congratulations my friend! Well, if you can still reschedule your flight, then it would also a good thing to stay first for a while until everything is settled. That is one problem when the parent/s is/are working in another country. But of course we cannot do anything about it as we have to earn enough amount for our family. But personally, I won't entertain the idea of working abroad. Have a nice day!

Yes i agree if you can postpone your trip it would be better, anyway, even if you go now you won't be able to be at peace. Because, you will surely worry about the situation that may take place with your wife's delivery. Just make sure you have t he discipline to pursue your work abroad if you wanted too, because i am definitely sure that leaving them would be so difficult specially if you hold. Your son. And cuddle him. Congrtulations! I pray for her safe delivery and so with the baby too.

You must stay first and take care of your wife including her baby. Working abroad is still reserve for you. You have also earnings here in online earnings. Well, congrats that you have a baby boy soon. Just get well soon there, Hulyo.

Congrats on your first baby If you still have time, I suggest that you wait till the baby's born. Seeing, touching and cuddling your first born is one of the greatest experiences that you shouldn't miss. It's not everyday that you will see the first smile of your first born.

That's exciting. Good that you will be with your wife when she will deliver your son. At least you are there for her. Wishing you both an enjoyable parenthood soon.

I know what you feel! Because almost all fathers like you would feel the same way if they were in the same situation. Besides, it's normal for you to feel that way. :)

Wow! that is really great! that would be very exciting for you but a very harsh experience too for your wife. Hope she could deliver your child safely. God bless

I understand why she would want you there with her. I hope everything works out well there. Good luck with the baby and the new job. Take care there. See you here soon..

Having a baby is the most wonderful experience you will ever had based on my experienced.. when I had my baby I'm so thankful that my mother and my husband is with me during nd after I gave birth.. they are my support system.. your wife will gave birth in your first baby I hope you can be there to gave her support.. goodluck in your baby..

When you have children - that is now your number ONE priority. And since both men and women have equality - it is the number ONE priority for BOTH parents. Children do best in a TWO parent family, when both parents are focused and dedicated to raising their own children. Also, a marriage is a team effort. Your decisions need to be a mutual agreement. Why do you need to go abroad? Can't you find a job nearby, so you can be close to your wife and baby? Don't you want to be there supporting your wife and to see your baby when he/she is born? It doesn't matter if you don't have any experience, just be there for your wife and baby.

hi JulyTeen wow so you will s oon be a new father and I hope all goes well for your wife and you soon will have that new baby.I think it will go just fine and you will be so thrilled to see that son or daughter wow.Nothing like that first child it is such a thrill both for the mom and for you too.

I'd try to see if you can get the start of your job abroad postponed until after the baby is born.

If i am in that situation, i would also beg my husband to stay and see our kid first.. see, this is only like those once in a lifetime moment where you get to see her bring your child into this world..and will never happen again, even if you have other kids because that would be their moments too.. so i hope you will choose what you think feels right and what will make you happy.

I definitely think you should stay until your baby is born. I know jobs are hard to come by right now but family comes first. Later on you can always find another job, you only have one family. I wish you the best of luck and congrats on almost being a daddy!

You should stay because the first few weeks after a baby is very hard and lot of women need help if there is no help there for her then you need to be there for her and help her out so she can rest when she needs it.

Wow,first of all congratulation to you and wish you have a health baby,I think you should try to push your work abroad process backward and wait for the time your wife deliver your baby,because you wife really need you at side at that time.