Is there a problem with this girl?

She is trying to annoy you. This girl is obviously crazy. Who in her right mind would do that? I suggest that you report her to the owner for she is violating the rule of being considerate to one's neighbors.

This girl seems to prefer to please herself than to be thoughtful of the neighbours. You say she is friendly and wants to chat on a personal basis, so I suggest that you take control of this friendly chat whenever you meet her and tell her very directly that it is a nuisance for you. Tell her often, tell her firmly and make it plain that friendly chats are out until the music is turned down. All the time she can get away with it, she will. Tackle the music first and then when that is turned down you could mention the noise through the floor. By then she might be more willing to cooperate if it is the only way to have a relationship with you. Wishing you Good luck, good timing and good results.

Hello :D. I think she either lives with someone else or is a complete hypocrite. If you had a meeting I'm guessing the landlord was present and agreed too, report her to him and if that doesn't work go to the ones above and on the sides of her apartment and unite against the common foe. If enough people complain and threat with leaving, the owner will be forced to act even if he doesn't care. A peaceful live is more important than having hypocrite friends :).

Maybe she likes you and wants to annoy you on purpose. You might go to her apartment and complain again. You know how girls and boys pick on each other when they are in grade school? Well, some of those kids just never grow up. They don't have any other tactics or skills to "get together" with someone so they do what annoys them the most. Otherwise she is being really inconsiderate and not thinking about the other people in the complex. I hope you are able to work this one out.

This girl knows what she's doing and she's making fun of you. You should start talking with her seriously and if she still won't stop, tell your landlord or landlady about this problem. If she's our neighbor I'm sure she'll hear from granny and talk to the police

She is so selfish,if I were you,I would play my music even louder when she is not.And let her know how noisy it is.

Yes, I think she is very inconsiderate and selfish! I am sure glad she is not my neighbour, as I like people to be friendly and considerate!

I'm surprised that she is so nice despite your complaints. I had lived in an apartment for many years of my life and let me tell you things can get nasty with people who are disrespectful to others as they feel they are not in the wrong. I hope you can get things resolved and maybe it's something as simple as not realizing how paper thin the walls can be in a rental. If things continue you may need to contact management or the police. If push comes to shove then move elsewhere.

For a start, what was the discussion that took place a year ago about? Were you referring to her to be one of the people who were being inconsiderate playing loud music in the apartment? Somehow, I am presuming that it was not, that the party concern was someone else in the building. Of late, something happened between the both of you that led to a misunderstanding which led her into having this animosity with you. No matter whether I am right or wrong here, I believe that as long as the act itself is done within the legal constraints of time, there's nothing you can actually do about it other than trying to clear things up between the both of you and reach a common understanding of things. I am sure there will be other neighbors affected by her loud music and you can always take a backseat and tolerate it till the other neighbors approach her. As long as she is blasting away in the waking hours of the day, I don't think there's anything much you can do where both the building management and police will not have anything legitimate to stop her. You can always take the initiative to offer the olive branch and clear things up with her. Otherwise, remain where you are and if you reach stage of intolerable, you can always get a good pair of wireless headset and listen to your potpourri selections. It is wise not to let this situation escalate onto another level which makes it so important to reach a common ground for all parties.

It seems as if she might have a hearing problem. However, I really believe that she has a "me" problem. She thinks rules apply only to every one else. You might try inviting her into your apartment when her music is at its loudest. Suggest that she get a carpet with extra thick padding. As last resort, report her to management.

I think there is a problem with that girl. Because she wants to prove something in her life. She wants to annoy everyone in that place due to some reason. Maybe she is a little bit upset or maybe she is angry with someone or she want to get attention...from others.

I don't know, but maybe she thinks only herself and she does not care what you told her or for her, the music is not loud and so, she does not know if someone disturbs or not. If you told her that the music is loud, maybe she does not care what you told her, all she care is about herself. The music that she's hearing especially the song is good, for her is not loud and she does not care either you tell her that music is loud or not. She acts innocent as if nothing happens that is why she is so friendly and wants to chat or she knew she done wrong that is why she acted that way.

People don't understand things about living in apartments---mostly that 'your own apartment is not entirely soundproof ... that sounds you make inside your apartment DO NOT STOP INSIDE YOUR APARTMENT.' To them, the floor of their apartment is 'The Ground' (and not 'the layer above someone else's ceiling'). They'll stomp around up there as if there's nothing but rock beneath them. My apartments' property-managers tell me that they try to enforce 'quiet hours' (starting 10:00 PM Sunday through Thursday, Midnight Friday & Saturday; ending at 7 AM everyday) by evicting people who regularly blast loud music & television. That 'cheery disposition' whenever you see them might be their "way of getting out of it"---making you feel like you're 'taking candy from a baby' whenever you get angry with her (like you're some sort of heartless Scrooge ). So you need to explain how it makes you feel when she bangs on your ceiling---how you 'fear that someone is damaging your ceiling (like throwing bowling-balls on the roof)' whenever you hear her banging on the floor and dropping things up there

As for me for those situation,I will go to the landlord and complain,so why you not to do so?

I don't think there's a problem with this girl. That's her lifestyle but it's very inconsiderate to keep doing that when she knows that it negatively affects other people. Maybe you should tell her nicely but firmly again that it really bothers you. If it doesn't work I guess you have no choice but to tell the apartment manager.

favouredmost I wou ld talk to your landlord or landlady were I you as she is disturbing you and others. You all paid for a nice place to live in quiet and peace and she is ruining that for you all so I wo uld talk to the landord about the loud music. maybe he will talk to her and make her turn the volumn dow to a reasonable pitch.

I think she keep dropping things on purpose and playing loud music just to make you mad. Since you live in an apartment building, complaining to the landlord would not solve the situation because they would tell you to call the police. I would call the police. Confronting her will only make her angry and have no compassion for you. You already told her that her music disturbs you and she didn't give a damn about it, otherwise she wouldn't be playing her music so loud at that hour. Call the cops every time she does it.

i don't know if this girl has a problem with her brain because she doesn't seem to understand the agreement about the music volume you discussed with her and the tenants. I would suggest that you talk to her again in a nice manner, and when she still plays the music loud, give her a warning, and when she keeps doing it, ask the landlord about it for the landlord is the only one who can do something about it.

I would not have any more contact with her. Just be polite when you met her in the hallway or elevator but do NOT say anything to her. REPORT her to the manager. Record her loud music so that you have evidence. She is deliberately being annoying and disturbing other neighbors. It is not your job but the job of the manager to control the noise level of the apartments. My parents were apartment managers - they told the tenants if they have a problem with another tenant, do NOT contact them directly, just write up a report and let them, the managers, handle the other tenants. That way, emotions and bad feelings are not involved and it is handled in a professional manner. Do NOT chat with her. Just be polite and say as little as possible to her. If the manager is not willing to do anything, call the police.

I don't want her to be my neighbor! swear! anyways, maybe you should talk to her for the second time in a most nicest way and words that will please her, it's like reverse psychology you don't like her but you will act that you like her approach because sometimes its effective they became nicer in their action. just try