Why do you think some people don't get married?

I have a colleague at work who said that she is not ready for marriage right now because she is still supporting her siblings' schooling. So I guess responsibility is one of the key factors that affect people's take on marriage. Those who are still attached to their families and have responsibility find it hard to commit into marriage which is another responsibility before they have fully fulfilled their duties to their family. Other factors I can think of are fear of commitment or maybe immaturity. Have a nice day!

i think it is because some people don't believe that you need that piece of paper in order to eternally bond you together. some people get married in name only, like for business reasons. then again, there are some people who stay longer together unmarried, than people who are married. i believe that if two people love each other, it's up to them whether or not they want to get into a contract with the state or not. it really has nothing to do with the bond two people have with one another.

In some countries people tend to wait a long time to get married because of the lack of money. Especially with the way things are now a days, people are lucky to have a job to keep their lives minimumly comfortable nevermind to have a wedding. Most people i knwo my age at leat (20) get married but a small 50 person wedding or less to cut down in all the expensises and to stay out of debt. Others dont see the point in getting married because married or not you are comprimised to a person and it isnt some paper that is going to make it oficial. It is just a signed paper. The people that are together a long time have memories and a marriage wont change any of that.

Maybe they have tried marriage and it just didn't work for them and they don't want to give it another go. They probably don't want to feel "tied down." Maybe they just don't want a "ball and chain" (my Uncles words not mine) telling them what they can and can't do. I might try marriage again, but not anytime soon. I am still working on some goals and I want to complete these goals by the time I'm 50. I have much work to do and there just isn't time for anyone else in my life right now. I have the kids and that's all I need.

In Western countries 3 out of 4 couples get a divorce as well. Marriage is nothing more then an agreement. Many people get dissapointed later. I was never married because the governments didn't allow it. S what the heck? I live with the one I love. No official papers signed. But happy!

Marriage isn't for everyone. not everyone is capable of maintaining a successful marital relationship, the world has evolved into ways that people now have diverse opinions about what they want out of life. Some people don't want to have children which is an almost necessary part of any marital relationship. Yet, rest assured, marriage is a choice. Some people just might not view it as a priority while some people just know deep down in their selves that marriage isn't for them and the best we can do is respect them for that.

Being one of the longest surviving institutions doesn't mean it is anything wonderful. Marriage is socially correct only. It is the thing to do. I think that some people don't get married because they are selfish and self serving. They are stuck in their ways and they don't want someone trying to curb their interests or change them in any way. And still others are just unable to committ.

Like me? Ha ha Marriage is an institution and it is bond between a man and a woman. People don't want to get married because some might not be ready or some people focus other things that made them happy rather than marrying someone. It is because if you are married to someone, well, they are many risks to be involved like money, taking care of the children or training children to be well behaved... sometimes, argument within marriage is difficult. Infidelity can be involved and fighting between children and parents can be a headache too. Freedom is another thing why they choose not to get married. Mingling to other friends, lots of girlfriends or boyfriends that were not serious if they have that kind of attitude, travelling to other parts of country and many to mention is what makes them give too much freedom rather than marrying someone. Well, they don't care if they got old. If they got sick and no one takes good care of them, they can stand on their own if they have lots of money.

hi, i think the number one factor why a couple not get married because lack of money,of course we need money when marrying someone,another reason happened here is the family of both sides are not in good term,another thing is no time.those are the simple reason why there are couples not get married.

Usually, it is either for feelings or a economic arrangement. It depends on how you view marriage in your life. and how important you consider it. It may also depend on the state fo your relationships and how those relationship starts and stop. People have different and convenient reasons for starting a marriage and breaking up as well.

I think there are many reason for not getting married...Some people just have not found that special one whom they are willing to spend the rest of thier life with...some don't \get married because they prefer to be by themselves...Some people just don't have a desire to be in a relationship with that one person forever....

i think everyone want to be married to have partner in their live until the end. maybe they still did not find any that suit them yet

I agree with your thoughts on marriage.I respect the institution of marriage and its a respectable one as well.Well,i am single.In my case, its because of the religious things.In Hinduism, we have horoscopes.If the horoscopes does not match,then the marriage is usually not agreed on.Sometimes our astrologer says its not matching and sometimes its the girl's astrologer who says it does not match.It has been sad thing.And i have been going through such things for a long time.My family is equally sad on this front.Hopefully things may get better.On a personal note, i think the big reason people do not get committed to marriage is because they feel the soulmate they found is not quite right.They could delay a little further to find other such prospects and moving on with things.Everybody is looking for more desirable and perfect brides or bridegrooms.After all,its sort of section of things and we have only a life to play with.And this has happened for many people that i am aware of.I do not think money usually hinders getting married.Its the commitment or lack of other such things which forces to delay marriages.Thanks!

Nice discussion! To me the basic reason why people don't marry is because of fear. Some people are afraid that their marriage can end up in a divorce, some other are afraid because of finance. If you want to marry you first have to overcome fear! As a Christian, it is writing in the word of God that " For God hath not given us the spirit of fear; but of power, and of love, and of a sound mind." In 2Timothy 1:7. We just have to overcome fear. And remember, marriage is a good thing. God is the Author of Marriage!

There are lots of reasons why people don't get married. Sometimes it's a matter of the cost of doing so. Other people might plan on it but circumstances prevent it. Then there are people, like myself, who think that marriage is just a piece of paper and/or a religious requirement rather than anything else.

Religion. Some believe it is our "God given duty". Others feel that they are called on a different path and that path can not involve anyone else because it takes their focus and time away from their God. There are people who never experience romantic feelings whatsoever. Its really hard to make a marriage work without the right kind of love.

Those people are lucky and clever in this world than married people. They are the happiest persons in this era.

Some really meant for it. They just don't want to have commitment. They want freedom. And some are meant to be single. They just could not find their partners. However, being single is a blessing too.

there are lots of reason why people don't get married.. maybe they are afraid of responsibilities, don't believe in marriage, haven't found the right one..not all people is capable of being married.. it is a choice and destiny.. but whatever reason they have.. let's just be happy for them if they choose to be single and that what's makes them happy and comfortable.,

For some reasons of course... Mostly, they didn't believe in marriage and commitment because of some heartbreak or broken family issues. The other reason is they got so busy with their careers and being too much driven lead them to that.