what to do........?
By mailofpoori
@mailofpoori (11)
January 5, 2013 11:11pm CST
hello my lotters,
i have a silly and general problem in my life.
i am a friendly person. i make friendship with everyone in my class.
but two friends created problem.
problem is doesn't like each other. one doesnt like when i spend more time with another. i cant leave any of my friend, but those doesnt like to live with each other.
i dont know what to do.
how can i overcome this problem?
also did u ever had such type of problem? how did u over come it? help me friends........
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2 responses
@MoonGypsy (4606)
• United States
6 Jan 13
i constantly find myself in this situation. it actually cause me so much stress that i end up having nightmares. in the past, the way i have handled it is to not hang out with either of them. i don't advise you take this method. you could be cheating yourself out of two good friendships. i do advise that you talk to both of them. let them each know that you realize they don't get along. let them know that you want to remain a neutral party and not be involved. let them know that you are there for both of them, but will not betray either. the one who can't respect that is the one that can't be your friend. if they both can accept that, then fine. as long as you remain truly neutral to them both. hope i was able to shed some light. good luck to you.
@mailofpoori (11)
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6 Jan 13
hiiiii moongypsy
thanks for u r comment.
but i did that explaining both that i am there for both.
two intelligent persons can be get compromised
but two egoists cannot be compromised.
they are affected by a disease called ego.
they doesnt want me to see with other.
any way thanks for u r comment
@41CombedaleRoad (5952)
• Greece
6 Jan 13
If these two people want you for a friend they must respect your freedom. They know you well enough to understand that you are a friendly person who likes more than one friend. The fact that they dislike one another has nothing to do with you, it is their business. As far as you are concerned you like them both. You should ignore their silliness, try not to favour one over the other and let them sort their problems out.
If they continue to put pressure on you then ignore them both and enjoy your other friends. If they are worth having in your life they will soon come round on your terms.
