She Said My Chest Wouldn't Look Good In The Dress!

I'd actually be flattered!

If thats you in your avatar I thiml she is nuts you are v ery pretty so what the heck is she talking about.I do not s ee any problem with it either just that you are attractive and perhaps she is jealous a bit? I would be insulted too. ugh ugh. shame on her.

I would be SO offended if someone asked me to be in their wedding and told me to wear a particular undergarment! Are your dresses still being fitted? I'm sure the seamstress will fit it and you'll look fabulous! But to tell someone that their chest is too big is just so rude!

I understand it's her wedding. However it smells like the beginning of a bridezilla. If she was concerned how your bust would look in the bridesmaid dress she should of picked something that compliments everyones shape and size. The meanie in me would be thinking she needs to put some socks in her bra if she's worried that the attention will be on your bust and not on her big day. Childish!

i dont blame you. was she saying thats a requirement? if so i would either say no thanks if i didnt want to do it or give in and try to not let it stick in my mind. leave it go one way or the other

To be honest, I'd actually be flattered that I have a big chest. It's a gift and I'd flaunt it. Big chests give the illusion of a smaller and less bulky tummy. Well in the wrong clothing, big chests can make people look fat however since its a wedding I don't think they'll make you wear things that will make you look fat. Hmm... Maybe because it's her wedding she doesn't want you to look prettier than her. I'd stick with that. :)

Without wishing to sound rude but are you bigger than her chest size? If you are then that's probably what it is, pure jealousy, she doesn't want you out-shining her on her big day! But having said that I would be offended, how big your chest is shouldn't make one iota of a difference to anyone, let alone the bride. Who is she to you, a relative or a friend, I doubt either because if she was a relative or friend she should be overjoyed that you are going to support her, not telling you to lower your chest size! Very indignant indeed!

Hi LMB! She apparently had no business to render you unsolicited advice. If you did not ask her that how you were looking, there was no point in her suggesting you to wear a slip. We all (that includes you also) have been blessed with a body by the Great God and if we feel comfortable with it, others should not give useless suggestions.

You can see her point,I suppose She wouldn't want more attention on anyone else but Her on her big Day-and I thought it was an accepted rule of weddings that You're not supposed to upstage the Bride!

i guess the bride doesn't want to be shown up. this is to be understood as it is her day to shine. i would just put the slip on and let her have her day.

OMG, now I'm jealous! I wish to he!! that someone would tell me that, lol! I'd be flattered beyond a doubt and would stick my chest out even further! Now you KNOW the only reason this was said is because of jealousy because no one in their right mind would tell someone that, unless they think the whole bridal party and guests will be watching you, instead of her. I actually think it's ridiculous all the way around and shame on her. BE PROUD GIRLFRIEND and show that figure off! (And don't wear the slip thing either, lol!)

(laughing) I'm large chested too. I really wonder about people and the things they say sometimes. Sounds like one of these brides who wants everything "just so", and while I appreciate wanting to have a nice wedding, I think that comment was out of line. Problem with bridesmaid dresses is that they are usually "one size fits all", and while one design will look great on you, another that looks bad on you will look great on another girl. But anyway, nobody's going to be looking at the bridesmaids, they will all be looking at the bride, so why does it matter?

On a scale of 1 to 10 I'd have rated you around the 4/5 mark from the pics I've seen. Either you've put some weight on or you hide them well under a veil of modesty. Anyway, it's not etiquette for the bridesmaid to outshine the bride, so I suggest you cover your puppies, at least until the ceremony is over.

Hi LovingMyBabies, how good you look depends on yourself. Don't need to be affected by other people's comment on you. You look good as long as you have confident in yourself. So, you should just be you, and it's a positive thinking of not getting offended.

Seriously? Are you two good friends as in it would be okay to have a conversation like this and not be offended? I would be mad if that happened to me. Maybe another dress should have been picked out then? I'm not so sure. How did you handle the conversation? If you're happy with the way she wants you to wear it and are okay with being in the wedding, then perhaps its better to let it roll off your shoulders. I know its the bride's day, the bride's way..

Sounds like she's afraid people will spend more time looking at your boobs instead of looking at her.

If this is a friend I'm sure she meant no offense. I think it's always best to get to the reasoning behind someone's comment before jumping to conclusions that their intent was to offend you.

Yes, I probably would be. It is her wedding and purhaps she wants the focus to be on her and not someone with bigger chest that she has. Know what I mean? Hope that helps.

Maybe she's just hedging her bets! And making sure that nobody else stands out on "her day". And that there is only one star, her! As a guy(pardon the honesty), we tend to ogle the pretty ones, specially if they're dressed and made up. And the ones who are 'well-endowed' attract the most attention. Believe me as I also attended a wedding last month, and I'm guilty!

Yeah I would be offended. Why would she say something like that? Maybe she would just be jealous because perhaps more people would be noticing you instead of her on her wedding day. I think if she would have said something like that then i would understand. But to say it as if you would look awful in it is offensive.