How do you know if someone's flirting with you?

I dont think not knowing wether a person is flirting with you or not is not really a bad thing. Well it just proves that you are a non-assuming and non judgmental person which is of course a good thing. Besides knowing if a person is flirting with you or not does not really give you much benefit. And as observed when they do detect that your giving them attention on their flirting or that you know that they are glinting with you, for some reason they seem to back off. I don't know why that's the case but it hap pens to me a lot. Also if ever you tell somebody that you think this guy or that guy is flirting with you, the guy you were referring to can always say you're too assuming and they will deny it (100% sure that the person will deny that he flirted with you if he is asked by another person.) And besides to assume is to make an *SS-out of-U-and-ME. but to answer the ff questions, when people flirt they are overly friendly and there is something with the way they look at the person they are flirting with. And they take every opportunity they can to initiate even the slightest bodily contact (may it me a brush on the shoulder or something even more subtle)

Hi Aja! It is said that Flirting is a kind of activity involving verbal or written communication as well as body language by one person to another, suggesting an interest in a deeper relationship with the other person. As regards your own experience with your boy friends, you are the better judge to conclude whether they were honest and sincere in their approach or their intention was just to spend some time with you and part away. If someone comes into my contact and start interacting and I find that her attitude is hollow instead of having some depth, I may conclude that she is flirting with me. I do not flirt with anyone. I believe that if am befriending someone let it be serious and not for the sake of it or for the temporary phase which may evaporate with the passage of time. Have a great day! Dpk

My girlfriend calls me a flirt and I say I'm just being friendly. I guess in a way I become too friendly that it can be seen as flirting by some such as my girlfriend. Flirting is probably any means of showing the intention that you have some sort of admiration towards a certain person and want to be noticed.

I think you can feel it if someone if flirting. Probably by the way they smile or the things they say. Although a person being friendly acts a lot like a person flirting. I say it doesn't matter whether they are actually flirting. If it is someone you like you should flirt even if they are just being friendly. If they are not someone you like then there is no harm in not realizing they are flirting.

hello there, Its really hard to guess weather someone is flirting or not,as in your entire 22 yrs you had 4 boyfrens,by now i think you should know who is flirting and who is not.Being a guy I can tell you some things which might be helpful to you. First if the guy is flirting, He would talk to you in a bit of a romantic way but also teasing you at the same time,he would be praising you for your looks and talks and the way you walk.May be he would talk about your figure or something which might offend you at times. But guys who really like you and thinks good about you,they would take care of you and will make sure you are fine..weather or not you are in need of something,they will always be close to you so that in case you need any help,they would be the first to help you. May be this helps Take Care Raj India

When a boy calls you frequently, or sends text message to you everyday, that is probably he is chasing on you. You can feel that he tries every means to talk to you, to contact you and make you happy.

Flirting comes in different ways and styles. Men and women had their own styles when it comes to this matter. There are sweet gestures that looks or sounds flirting- but for the concern person it's just a sweet way to express care and nothing more. I am not good when it comes to this matter-so let it be.

Hi there Aja103654, Same as you are, there are times, I cannot define if somebody is flirting with me. Though sometimes I loved the way how they treated me. Hence, most of the time, I am treated so very special by those people. And I loved that feeling, so I guess, being treated so very special is one way of flirting. But I am not that pretty sure. Perhaps, I just loved the way people treating me so sweet.

From my experience, I have sensed a guy flirting with me if he is too inquisitive, he is touchy or just basically find ways on how he can touch you either on your fingertip, cheek, hair or waist. Also, look at the way he listens to you when you speak. Are his eyes glued on you all the time? I mean does he often make eye contact with you? How often does he tell just how gorgeous you look? Or how your clothes fits you perfectly? Does he constantly appear to wherever you go? Does he always find ways on how to communicate with you? Those are just guidelines for you to know if he is flirting with you. Hope it helps.

In my younger time, men flirt by teasing you that they would like to try how it is to date me. Or they would call on the phone after office hours, to say that they just would like to hear your voice. Anyway, men have different styles of flirting. One just have an open mind when they do so. But if you are single and so are they, why not?

Hi friend, it is easy to find out the flirting ways, if some persons is interested in talking with a lot and admire you for silly thing and appreciate all your activities, then s/he is try to flirt you. Some persons will do lot of crazy things to win over their beloved persons heart, this kind of things are a symbol of flirting activity. They will follow you in various activities in online and offline and try their maximum to keep in touch with you. They try to be center of attraction in your presence

Haha,as for me,I can feel girls flirting with me according to their eye's expression,and I think boys all can feel that if some girls show those kind of eye's expression on you. And of course there are other ways such as we all know,wearing exposed and touch you with intention,lol,there are many ways.