my kids end up crying!

@jazel_juan (15746)
Philippines
January 9, 2013 11:25pm CST
Last night, i told my husband i would be going to Davao City by the 21st for a training, little did i know, my kids were listening!! and without hearing any explanation first they were CRYING! hahahah They thought i will be leaving for good or something! Me and hubby had to explain it was just for a few days as i have a training to attend too.. it is crazy i tell you! lol
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@julyteen (13252)
• Davao, Philippines
10 Jan 13
It's a normal reaction to a kids that are very close to their parents. It seems they will miss you badly. But when they grow you will miss them back because they are also busy attending something related to their doings and undertakings either from school or from their job related travels
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@julyteen (13252)
• Davao, Philippines
10 Jan 13
It is need to have a very strong family relationship. Just like my family they also miss me when I am not home. I want to stay with them but because I need to work hard for them I am force to leave the country.
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@jazel_juan (15746)
• Philippines
10 Jan 13
oh that is sad but i know what you are going through, somehow, my brother is also working overseas as he always tell me how hard it is to be away from the family.
@jazel_juan (15746)
• Philippines
10 Jan 13
Yes, that is why i like to cherish every bit of moment with them.
@SIMPLYD (90721)
• Philippines
10 Jan 13
See, how much a separation causes the children, jazel. Funny , that your children misconstrued it as such. Maybe you were in an angry tone while you were saying it, so they thought you are leaving your husband and them for good!
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@jazel_juan (15746)
• Philippines
10 Jan 13
lol funny thing is, i was not in that tone at all.. i was smiling and laughing as we were just given our clothing allowance and i could buy my stuff in Davao too! lol plus theirs as well. I really hope they did understand..but maybe they did as they were requesting for toys now hahaha
@SIMPLYD (90721)
• Philippines
11 Jan 13
So finally, they understand now.
@laydee (12798)
• Philippines
11 Jan 13
Hmmm maybe too many fights or arguments have been happenning lately, that the kids start thinking that mom and dad's marriage could be in trouble! But it's good you had the chance to explain. Hehehe. It would have been a great problem should they have not been informed on the circumstance. Wow, you're visiting my home city and I am sure you'll love it. Do enjoy! Have a great mylot experience ahead!!
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@jazel_juan (15746)
• Philippines
14 Jan 13
Nope, its been awhile since hubby and i had some fight or arguments even.. i guess my kids are just tooooo clingy lol they are used to me being there..
@alberello (4752)
• Italy
10 Jan 13
Well, I think it is normal for children to feel the lack of her parents. I do not know how old your children years, but from what I understand they are still children. But I hope they will understand your situation, and above all that you will soon be back there with them, to hug them.
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@jazel_juan (15746)
• Philippines
14 Jan 13
they understand now too much explaining.
@prashu228 (37524)
• India
10 Jan 13
hi yes kids are worried if they see/hear their parents going away from them. LoL your children started crying without listening the whole thing. it seems they are very attached to you and love you very much.
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@jazel_juan (15746)
• Philippines
14 Jan 13
i always tuck them to bed, prepare their food, study with them, read for them..so i guess pretty mcuh you can say we are tight bonded.
• India
10 Jan 13
Kids mostly cried up when anyone from mom and dad was going away from them. It's psychological effect. They cry to stop you emotionally. In this situation try to make them understand that you are not going or come's in a few minute. Don't shout at that time because they are innocence. What you did is the best the one.
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@jazel_juan (15746)
• Philippines
11 Jan 13
i don't shout at my kids that easily too nar..
@choybel (5042)
• Philippines
10 Jan 13
I remember crying whenever I'm left by my mother back when I was first sent to school. I believed I only attended class once after seeing that I couldn't be left alone. I don't know how I overcame that but now it's the opposite because I'd very much prefer my parents not with me all the time. I guess that's part of growing up and my experience as well, growing up in an environment where I usually choose to be independent. Anyway, I guess children will always feel sad when they believe they will be left by their parents. I do hope that your children understands the situation though.
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@jazel_juan (15746)
• Philippines
10 Jan 13
hahaha and that will eventually change too when you get a bit older and have kids.. I for now want my parents around, probably because they are not getting younger and i want to spend my time with the most now.
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
10 Jan 13
Oh, I found it so sweet of them my dear I know how kids feel when mom is not around. Wait till they're grown up and they will surely wish sometime mom is not around
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@jazel_juan (15746)
• Philippines
10 Jan 13
Lol that is the time i am not anticipating!
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
10 Jan 13
You know how kids are. They are all to clingy to their moms. And as kids, their world revolves around mom.
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@jazel_juan (15746)
• Philippines
10 Jan 13
generally they are.. except for my two year old though, he is attached to my hubby.
@sishy7 (27167)
• Australia
10 Jan 13
It's hard to be separated from our kids. I'd imagine your kids being a lot younger than mine. Mine are teenagers and it is still hard for me when they are away, like right now, eventhough I know where they are exactly on vacation.
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@jazel_juan (15746)
• Philippines
10 Jan 13
Yes my kids are 8, 5, and 2 years old.. my 8 and 5 year olds did cry while my 2 year old, since he could not understand much yet i guess was just smiling hahaha.. i will miss them too but i am honestly looking forward to the two days break.
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