Dumbing down your English because of race?

Oh is see what you are saying. I would be pissed because of that. Definitely.

Now I don't feel bad at all for not liking him anymore. Not a single guilt feeling. :D

Thanks for sharing your experience, but the difference is that, he is putting an effort to dumb himself down and the people you speak of are putting an effort to improve themselves. I wish he just did that, maybe, he could have dragged me into the improvement with him.

What!? Asian with British accent? It sucks that he treated you that way. I wouldn't talk to him either. Someones gonna do him like that one day if they haven't already. I wonder it he'll understand how it feels then.

Right, Asian with British accent. I don't know if he's fudging it but it sure is believable I mean, he could make people believe that he grew up in Europe or something. XD That's true, karma works, I hope haha. Yeah I kinda think everyone will get what they deserve anyway in the end of all this, ugh.. I'm not feeling guilty at all disposing of him (I know ... The term. XD) making room for some better people now. :D

Like we talked on skype, video call type. And his English was so amazing oh my goodness! It was unbelievable, he even had that British accent. I was thinking he might have had a hard time composing his chats for me cause the English was so horrible like he misused the "your and you're" an the "too and to" and the "is and are" and everything. I was kinda pissed off. I mean if he just had been honest I might have learned something from him. :| now I just don't want to talk to him anymore. :| I feel like he lied.

Yes that's true, not to brag or anything bit I learned English even before I learned Illinois and I am so pissed that he'd think I deserve that kind of English, that broken English is what I need to be able to convey my feelings about his thoughts. It's not fair. Thanks for being with me o this. :)

Well he didn't say he was good in English. He pretended to be really bad at it. He pretended that he had wrong grammar. But in truth he was really good at it. He speaks like a real American. Probably even better. He pretended to be bad at English so that he could meet me at my level because I'm Asian too.

Hmm cause friend, you see, I didn't pretend to be dumb about my English, I talk to him this way, he could have just spoken normally and saved me the trouble of having to make out what he said, well, I say, if you do things well, you should continue doing things well. Putting yourself down doesn't by far make you a better person at any way.

Hmm, well the guy I was referring to, he is Indian, Indian with very good English who can do British and who can speak straight English without rolling The "r's" but don't get me wrong, I love listening to Indians speaking, especially when they speak Telugu. :D Telugu just sounds so romantic and intimate and everything, :D Come to think of it, it's quite nice that he did try to consider my feelings, but he could have stopped it once he figured out that I didn't need him to put an effort to dumb down his English, for me, I'd tell him anyway if I had a hard time getting what he meant. I'm actually glad that you allotted time into knowing my thought, I can feel your gaze as you are reading this. It feels nice. :)

I think that counts as lying too don't you think? But isn't it a white lie? XD I knew it, all lying is bad. XD it sounds kinda racist though don't you think but I don't know were both Asians so it can't be racist. XD I still feel bad about it and I don't want to talk to him. Thanks for making me feel that feeling bad about it is okay. I was almost feeling that I wasn't normal or anything. XD

Goodness, that's true too. I mean most of the tv shows we watch nowadays are in English. Even children who are left alone in their houses know how to speak in English cause they watch Disney channel all day. Their parents didn't even teach them but they are really fluent. And yeah, English is open for everybody, anybody can learn it. Hmm. That's actually a very good point it opened me up to a lot of thoughts. Thanks for your response. :)

Well yeah. I have to stop proving myself and explaining myself to people who would have just judged me anyway. :| yeah, I don't wanna talk to him, I still feel like he lied to me, wether its a white lie or not. I feel insulted, anyway, I guess I shouldnt let him affect me, it's not like I need him in the first place. XD

It's nice of people to be considerate about others. Maybe he's right about me not being good cause I'm guilty of bad grammar too sometimes but then I think I'd appreciate it more that he just didn't do that and corrected me for my bad English instead. Well not to brag or anything but my parents saw to it that I learn English first before other languages and that includes our own dialect. I'm not saying I'm good at it but I could have learned more from him if he just spoke to me the way he normally would speak in english. Thanks for your response. :)