My friend is disappointed in online dating

Well I had never try this online dating.. I'm not that interested in this matter because of the news I heard in connection with online dating some became a raped victim so if you want to do this be extra careful specially with the person you just met online then you will meet personally.. but I don't have anything against it.. some are lucky enough to have a partner because of online dating.. but in the case of your friend maybe she Should wait for the right person she will love don't search for it let love search for her..

I've tried online dating myself and haven't had any luck with it at all. I hate when they waste my time. I'm online because I'm serious about finding someone to spend my future with, and here they all are acting like it's this big game. It's not a game, don't waste my time. If you're not interested, be up front and tell me that in the very beginning. I hope your friend finds some success in her online dating. Oh...and the reason why I've gone to those sites is because I don't go out, I don't have a lot of friends, and it's easy to find someone with similar traits online as what it is anywhere else.

She needs to be realistic that we can't please everybody. She also needs to realize that at least they were being honest in telling her that they don't want to continue seeing her because in that way she can move on to other better people who can surely appreciate her. Every disappointment will take her closer to the right one. Internet dating is not for everyone. Some people who are really intellectual prefer to strike a conversation or two online and see if they hit it off online. If they do then they meet and see if there is chemistry physically. Even in offline dating we are all bound to get disappointed by some guys anyway. It could be there's a crush we have and they don't feel the same way towards us. To be honest I had been disappointed before solely because of my unrealistic expectations with the men I had chatted with. It had nothing to do with them being unreal with me in our chats online.

One thing I know about internet dating is that you can't have such high hopes. It takes years for people to find true love on the internet. I think online dating is good if you're into it for fun. Your friend has the wrong mind set and is using the wrong method to find love. If she wants love and she doesn't want to be frustrated, she needs to be happy with herself and without a man. She will become a better person and happier even. We don't need men to make ourselves happy. Love will come her way, she doesn't have to look for them online. Maybe the right one is right under her nose? Stuff like that.

I do think that online dating is not ideal to find the special person. Since we cannot see the real colors that certain person. I never tried it, but if it happens then I could validate the negative impact of this. Some people had seen their final about it too.

my friend had a bad experience. he broke up with his girl friend,he hope to begin a new relationship after a long time. he meet a girl online,honestly the girl is pretty.her first setence is :do you have enough money?if you have,we can proceed to go shopping after dinner.if you don't have,so i will go back after dinner. my friend is so disppointed with her words. then my friend said,we don't need to have dinner,so you can go back now...

I haven't really tried online dating sites but I used to chat a lot and have known some guys through it back then. I have even had a boyfriend online. I don't really take anyone online before that seriously but this guy seems to be sincere. He was really sweet and funny. But I've learned that he is also pursuing a friend of mine online. I can't imagine that I actually believed him back then when in fact I already know that lots of chatters on that platform are not for real or pretenders. I haven't tried having a relationship from someone I've met online after that. I believe that someone will come along eventually even if you are not looking. I think dating is healthy as long as you just enjoy it and not put pressure on yourself to find a partner.

I don't have any issues or anything against these online dating sites especially when it is an avenue that allows participants to meet people we normally would not be able to in real life. Thanks to the extensive list available on these sites we not only could consider or meet people from all walks of life but all over the world as well. I never tried them before because it wasn't available during my time and unpopular when it came into the scene. When it came into our country, the criminals or bad intents are equally as quick as those who are genuine ones, so you can imagine what happened when news of girls and women had bad incidents happening on them - cheated, trafficked or introduced into vice. All of it, enough to discourage any thought of it being a good tool. I think we should never overlook that these sites does not promise success and everyone is not protected from the bad elements which exist in real life. We may be on the driver's seat as far as information and selections but once we decided to meet up, we should expect no less for risks and failures. I feel that we should always expect the bad elements and unexpected where your friend doesn't seem to be in that league. It hurts but hurts will go away and to let one's self confidence disappear with it, should not or never even happen. People including can always walk away when they do not see the point or even don't feel like it. At the same time, learn and understand about the push factors in relationships than just focusing on the pulls. I hope that your friend recovers her self confidence and able to handle failures with a better frame of mind.

I have done this before and well eventually the right person came along and now we got married. Yeah sometimes it can be a disappointment, especially when before meeting you spend all your time chatting with them on the internet and over the phone. The guys that I have met they didn't even have the decency to tell me that they were not interested in me and just stopped talking to me all together. So I do have to give these guys something, at least they were honest and told her how they really felt.I just would advise her if she still wants to continue this to just be careful with who she meets and make sure its not always alone. Some of these guys are not always who they claim to be.

Tell your friend to be patient.It can happen! It took me four years,but I feel very lucky,I found my soul mate.These days,you have to kiss a lot of frogs till you meet your prince! She should arrange all the meetings in public places, and trust her instincts.

Porcospino I have never used online dating because it started after I was married..but I know a lot of people who have used it. I know several who ended up marrying the persaon they met on line. Some of them said it took a lot before they found 'the one'..lol like the old saying..you have to kiss a lot of frogs before you find your prince Tell your friend to hang in there..the work might pay off..and nothing ventured, nothing gained...and I wish her all the best!!

I think your friend is frustrated coz she really want to have a boyfriend right away. Tell her to just wait and just tell her not to give up. She can talk or chat with men she meet online and start as a friend first. Hope she will meet the one soon!

You can also get disappointed with "real life" dating. I think if it's online, it's just happening fast because meeting people over the net is really instant. But that's life. Also, she's lucky that she hasn't met any real weirdos and creeps. They're all over the internet. She can just have fun and meet new people and don't be too anxious about dating too soon. It will happen at the right time. But exercise caution though and always think that whenever in doubt, doubt.

I've done similar things, where I talked to someone for a long time and they're acting like they're interested. Then they just decide "Nope, you're not right." And I'm thinking "Why did you waste all this time, getting my hopes up?" I don't think she should give up completely though. It's just like dating in real life; usually you date a lot before you find a keeper.

My experience on online dating wasn't at all successful, and it was quite harrowing at times, basically I found that most would actually 'lie' and it seems that honesty went out of the window. One lied about their age, they were actually ten years older than they had stated, not much of a problem, because age doesn't matter to me, but when they started talking there's was a lot of things they said that just didn't ring true, and certainly different to what they had said. A few were damn rude and told me I was ugly! A few stood me up and the one I did manage to snag turned out to be a control freak, that lasted three weeks. I gave up in the end, probably because I decided I was far more happier being single than finding someone, after my experience of two abusive relationships being single is far more satisfying. But I can definitely relate to your friend's frustrations about online dating.

I think that your friend would be better off joining a community organization, taking enrichment courses or volunteering with a local group than trying to find the right guy through a dating site--especially if she is using, rather than pay, sites. If she does want to continue with online dating, I would suggest that she research site reputations before joining. Paid sites are more likely to have members with a greater commitment to finding the right person, since there is that financial investment.

I don{t even know if there are sites for old people+s dating. I would like to have a friend, maybe even a person that I could get to know a little better, but I doubt that I could get that online. Yet for younger people it seems that online dating is a risky but interesting posibility.

Online dating is a gamble, hit or miss if you will. I met at least 20 guys before my husband that I did not like online at all. Or it didn't work out for whatever reason. I went to online dating because all that is in my town is military guys which I am not interested in at all. So I went online to find my mister right. It is never over night that you find the right man, online or offline. I did not meet my husband until a year of being online meeting people... I am glad I didn't give up though because if I did I would have never met my husband. Online dating can work if you give it a chance. I would tell her to just be patient, the right one will come... =)

Usually I don’t do meet-ups when engaging people to dating site, because mostly some people over dating site are fooling you off. Saying that they this and that and in reality, they are not. So, it’s best to not expect anything because some people just try to put a good impression by faking their identity.

Website is a place where people make friends with each other.However,whether we can find a lover depends on who we meet.Some friends indeed can find a true love online,while more people find it hard to find their right persons.So just take chatting online as a way to make friends and wait and see if we can come across the right guy.