Why some men are just that lucky

My mom was against it, too. She found out about it from my boyfriend's adoptive mom. (What a grouch that lady was!) I never admitted that to her. But told her that I will keep away from him. But really, I could not at that time, I can't afford to just leave him at that state. Anyway, months went by, and it affected my studies. I failed in my 3 subjects. I had 2 subjects who were just fair enough. Then i was marked incomplete in one subject. I was so scared I won't be able to reach my 3rd year in College. Then I felt that my boyfriend wasn't doing something to make his life better. I felt that he was just fine clinging on to me all the time. Then one day, I just told him that I had enough and I needed to concentrate on my studies. I no longer wanted to see him. If he comes to school to fetch me, I would always avoid going out from that gate. I started ignoring his calls. It seems mean to others but I was so afraid I'd fail school. But luckily, I was able to make it to 3rd Year, but have gotten over him. But at the back of my mind I was hoping that somehow he did make himself really able to move on with his life alone. Well, 20 years after, I saw him at Facebook, married and with kids. He was able to finish school and now has a very stable job. He was actually thankful that I helped him somehow to be on his feet.

Of course. We are in the modern world. My aunt works in abroad and my uncle stays at home taking good care of their children. It does not matter who do the work as long as they are happy and contented, its fine. That is what I called love. No questions ask. Well, how I wish I experienced that kind of love, but still I am still suffering from a social stigma and I still have a lot of questions in a real world especially men in society.

Hmm that is not good if a men make their wife as a maid. At here some men make their wife as a maid when their wife not listen what they say they will use violence to their wife. Hmm they very lucky because they can get a good wife and still stay for them even they are bad husband.

Well, I guess I was jealous of him, because he was that lucky, he has his woman to pay for him everything. As long as his lady is okay with it, we as outsider, none of our business.

I agree with you on this as well. When we're outsiders to others relationships, it's really none of our business how their relationship operates.

For me, they are both lucky because they love each other. It does not matter who works as long as they both happy then, its fine. Its not all about the money isn't it? Many people think the guy is lucky because people see it in a concrete way. I mean we live in a physical world and so, when it comes to money, well, if a girlfriend spend all the expenses for her boyfriend, they'll think that a guy is lucky because they see it in a concrete way like the guy must work because he's a guy. A guy? It does not matter who works as long they're happy and contented, its fine.

Reminds of how housewives used to lose their husbands and had to fend for themselves and their children, with no career skills.

I think it should be equal, and noone should be doing more than one thing. I would not allow that at all, and he would be gone so fast. But many who are low self esteem and confidence tend to attract these men, it's like these men need them, and depend on them so they feel wanted.