Im moving to usa... and Im happy, but my brother is sad....

So you'll be moving to Vegas again? What about your business down there? Welcome Back to the US then!

Wow! Nice for you! You should enjoy life in the US... WOuld you find job there? I think it is difficult to find a job in USA. Will you stay with your father there? Good luck and hope that you will love happily in the US.

You can visit him, and he can visit you. It really isn't all that far by plane. Perhaps, he will eventually decide to move to the U.S. as you are doing; then, he will again be near his little sister.

I hope he can cheer up a bit, his little sister is only go up north and not abandon him forever, there is nothing for him to feel sad about, it is not like you are going to vanish forever from his sight and decide not to pay him any visit in the future or write to him anymore, all you want to do is to go to USA and live in yours own country, he shouldn't feel upset, he should have the confident in his little sister, know that you still love him and have him inside yours heart forever, he shouldn't try to imagine all the unfounded story that you are not going back to Mexico anymore, it is nothing like that, may be you need to convince him further to soothe all his unnecessary anxiety and fear from his own imagination. Anyway, i am glad to have you back here again and wish you a Godspeed back to USA. my friend!

Change is always hard and moving to another country can be tough on your brother and to you as well. Good thing, we got the internet and technology to keep us connected with family and friends. But, being physically around people that you love and care about is incomparable. It seems that you two are close and I am positive that you two will keep in touch and find ways to spend time together when you'd want to. Good luck to you.

Why you decided to move in USA ? Is that preplanned or it is a sudden decision ? What about your internet cafe who will take care of it afterwards ? Have you decided to leave Mexico permanently ? May be your son is calling you to live with him. And I am sure your brother will miss you. If I am not wrong your husband also lives in USA.

Just six months then! That time will fly by, it will be a big upheaval for you and quite an adventure I am sure, I know your brother will miss you big time, but that doesn't mean you won't be able to see him again, holidays etc. I missed my mum when I first moved away but it was only a 30 minute car ride away, for you it's different, you'll be in a totally different country than him! He has 6 months to get used to it I guess.

Glancing through your replies it seems that you will be the one who is far from family when you move to Vegas and there won't be any family left in Vegas when you get there. Have you talked to anyone about a job at MGM Grand? Although they said when you left that they would welcome you back, there may not be anything available right now. Of course it is a large place and they may have a consistently high turnover in employees, so there probably will be no problem.

Of course he will miss you. That reason he is sad when you leave him. Specially when you are very close to each other

I think you also made a discussion about someone you like wanting you to move to the US , did that influence you decision to moved to the US are did you have that planned out for a good time now . I hope you have a good time living in the US

Congratulations on moving to USA. Life is a journey and keeps moving. Your brother will be okay and will start adjusting in dew days. Dont worry. everything happens for good

I hope everything works allright for you. I know that you have a lot of work in front of you, but on the other hand, this is somthing that you have wanted for a long time.. I don{t know why the air fares are so expensive unless it is a special ticket.

Hi I can understand siblings are siblings its lot of pains when we leave them. But yes you have your sisters there in vegas so basically you will be with your siblings again how lucky. Hope you have a good time there.

Wow! That was fast Maria. I know you mentioned selling your home, but what about the cafe? It sold fast! Will your brother run the cafe? That's great you and your brother are so close, most siblings are not. You are right though, he'll be married and will have his new family to look after, but I am sure he will still miss you. At least these days we have the internet!

It is hard to be distant from the ones we care about. So either you are far away from Luis or from your son. Hard choice, but it is still a good move.

hi maria lost my response so second try.Welcome to the U.S. and I bet you will be thrilled to see your son again.Yes you and our brother will really miss each other but you c an both visit and with cell phones you can sure keep in touch too.

I can understand how he feels. Also a wife is not the same as the sister he took care of and is close with plus shared his life with for a long time. Still I think it's also about you, your life and since you have a son yourself you should be able to be with him as well. I really hope for all of you things will turn out great!

Pains are very usual when you try to move from your native place. Pain seems to appear to the ones who lover you and cares you. Pains created inside your brother is a proof for how much he loves you. Any way you are too lucky to get such a loving brother. Make sure that you always keep your touch with him.

Hey good for you! It is good news to move if you are happy. For him he just knows that he will miss you. This is normal! Its good you wish to return to see him.

Hi mariaperalta. Even I would have cried if my sister who had been living with me for so many years would leave home. It is something that can not be helped. But yes you are right.He will be alright. Though he will always miss you but then he would be happy for you. I hope you will stay in regular contact with him. Have a nice day !! SuperShames