Shall I reject my friend who is not able to meet?
By prabu6683
@prabu6683 (113)
India
January 18, 2013 8:16pm CST
I have many friends in international level. But I cannot able to meet anyof them. should i reject them or keep on continue their friendship?
8 responses
@prashu228 (37521)
• India
19 Jan 13
Hi prabu
I don't there there is any necessity to reject friendship even you cannot meet them . I n my view friends are hidden treasures given by God we never know what will happen tomorrow you may meet them accidentally .I too have friends all over but i never met any still i am in contact with most them . If u sense any harm from them then you may reject if not i would suggest to continue.
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@prabu6683 (113)
• India
19 Jan 13
how do we know seeing itself a person is good? it is very difficult prashu.
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
19 Jan 13
Why should a difference in nationalities hinder you from continuing your friendship with them? I think it is nice to be having friends from all over so that you can learn about their cultures and you can also share yours.
I say, keep them.
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@Shavkat (140131)
• Philippines
19 Jan 13
You don't need to reject the people who are wanting to know you, even if they are far away. There are some instances, that you will acquainted with them in the future. I have some new friends across the country, though I met them personally when dropping by in their country.
@prashu228 (37521)
• India
19 Jan 13
Yeah i agree ! we never know when we may meet the unknown friend . I am happy you mt some friends , i never met any new friends i hope i will meet them in future.
@ZoeJoy (1392)
• United States
19 Jan 13
You can maintain a friendship with them via Facebook or Skype or email. Just because we can't meet people in person doesn't mean that we can't maintain a good relationship with them. I live thousands of miles away from my family and maintain a good relationship with them. I also have a good friend who lives miles away and we keep in touch with each other.
It's great to have friends from around the world and now, it's so easy to keep connected with them - via the internet.
If you don't want to maintain friends that you can't meet in person, then only focus on your local friends. That is up to you.
@prashu228 (37521)
• India
19 Jan 13
hey prabhu The friends you gonna accept in social media are also unknown to you and you can never tell whether he is real or not .
@prabu6683 (113)
• India
19 Jan 13
Your suggestion is good? but how if we accept more friends from social media what is the use of them?
@DaGonz (11)
•
19 Jan 13
what? why would you do that? why did you call them friends in the first place if you haven't really met them and your criteria for friendship is meeting them personally?
if you haven't seen your mother or any family member for a very long time would you un-family them too?
you can actually have friends who you may never meet and they could still be your friend. having a friend and being a friend is not just bound on physically seeing them or meeting them in person.
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@prabu6683 (113)
• India
19 Jan 13
The reason behind here is we dont know the behaviour of the person in remotely. What do you think on this?
@intelinsideyou (664)
• India
19 Jan 13
This is not a proper reason for rejecting their friendship. They live far from you and that is why they can't meet you but they still want to be friend with you and that is the main thing. Its not necessary that you can meet all your friends. Sometimes even your national friends can't meet you but they continues being a friend with you. So conversation alone can be enough for the two persons to become friends.