Should I give up of our long friendship because of His New Hubby?

Some friends are not that bad. Though it is fine to ask the hubby to avoid the bad influence that used to do when they are still bachelors. I do think we need to balance the situation.

agree Shav.. but if the friendship will create trouble for her because of the jealous wife why keep the friendship with the husband. (hmmmm did i get it correctly?)

After all it's her problem she can't deal with this friendship. If the situation is as you explained, I don't think you should apologize and explain yourself everytime you say a word. I stand by my opinion that it's her husband who has to solve the problem because her attitude eventually will reflect your friendship and you may lose him as a friend.

her ear is close to listen to me every time that I confront her and explain to her everything she don't listen she always say shut up . stop stop she is very exaggerated I mean I haven't done anything but she is so overreacting like that there is something that I have done.Sometimes I feel like she have mental problem as she act like she have been a war shocked or been to war. I didnt' met his husband after him before her we are already good friends and i told her to check all my emails from the very first tiem we met and our conversation history in yahoo messenger and see how do we talk so that I can prove to her that our most talked is spiritual matter and the rest are family problem. and other social issues, that's all and she will not find any word of malice there that we talked about the two of us. but still she don't.even she checked my background as what I told her she still didn't listen It really seems she need Psychologist.

It is best to avoid him absolutely,even if you missed his company,it does make any goodness,as this could avoid you from his already jealous wife from suspecting any relationship from his husband.Now,you are safe and sound without worrying any misunderstandings from your friend's wife.Anyway find another friend to accompany you in all your appointments,and maybe you can also find your own love.For a few days,you could really felt his absence,but as times passes by you could realized he has his own life now to start,and you have your own life to deal with.You could also find your own boyfriend by other acquaintances.Enjoy your being single, and cherish your other crushes.They might discover you are their girl,just choose who you like best.

ok thank you for you good advice.although my conscience is clean and yes its sad on my part as I would surely miss him . in times like this I sometimes which I am a man so that his wife will not get jealous.

Definitely she is a evil person which is jealous of their long term friendship and that's why trying to set them apart. She even know that they are like brother and sister but still behaving like a mean person. I don't think her husband knows all these things but should be informed, only then this problem will be solved.

That is so true. and I also tried to ask him but the problem it's always the woman who is also there and watching my messages and reply it . She really dont' allow all my messages to be read with my friend because everytime I text him She reply .It is really hard to find a good friend. it is like jewel which are rare. that is the reason why I am sad to give up our friedship. especially it tooks years and we build a strong friendship already.

hi thanks for sharing your opinion You know what Do comes up to my mind. she think of me as a treat to her husband.I have idea that she had done that to with other persons she maybe afraid of karma .I really don't think that she will treat me like that a I thought she will be happy to be friend of me too for I am one of the reason why my american friend encourage to make a relationship with a filipina like me and married her. so I was surprise that she insult and disrespect me. I told her the past days if she didn't prove all her false accusation against me, I can file a case where many lawyers are offering a free service here.and deport here in Philippines.My supreme patience to her is getting over. Maybe she used to be like that woman that she used to think of me so she think that I will be like her.I don't know what will I do if I see her for all insults She told me secretly . because she still pretend to be a good woman to my friend. so my friend doesn't know it for all my messages to my friend she is always watching and deleting before my friend read this. why do i said that because my friend messages me and do not react in all things that I have said and my questioned to him. and the girl replied to me using different account.

that is really what I planned but I failed. I though she will like me too and be friend to her .She have no any reason to get jealous with me I explained to her everything that I am also the one who promote her to my friend who give good feedback to her so that's why my friend goes on to have a relationship with her because of my influence and advice for I am filipina to like her. but her mind is close or maybe she is like that so she think all woman here are also like what she is. just like what I said I put everything to God.I can no longer make a way so I prayed to GOD to make A way. I really don't want to lose our friendship. so it is sad on my part to lose a real friend because true friend is hard to find and only now in my life i find such good friend as he is.

his wife always 24/7 looking my friend email textmessages and delete all my BIble quotes there . she is really doing ways to get rid of me. and Yes although I am a bit upset with this woman. Just like all others reaction with this discussion same as your advice . Then I would make a way.

that is true , and that is what I did. I also told her to review all my emails and our recent messages in yahoo msgr. so that she will know how do we talked and all are about spiritually.but still she don't want after all .her mind is so close and she don't listen to me she only said stop stop stop shut up. If only this person is my neigbor I feel like throwing all the bottles in her head so she will wake up.I don't know if her mind is still normal I also get jealous but not as worst as her.

I don't judge her If I do The firs time my friend met this woman I already discourage him to have a relationship as this woman when she first met my friend she said so many things like she cannot live without my friend that she are so much in love with our friend. Which if we will be ask we would not believe that a person who just met in chat will not deeply fall in love with that so fast right. But still I didn't say anything bad to Him on this evil one. although i DON'T believe in her words towards my friend and in my mind as most filipina here doing and intention to married an american is to live in America and have visa and to have a good life. But Now towards how does she treat me and disrespect without any reason Now I am Judging but making a conclusion to her actions and the words on her mouth , Psychologically . and then I can say that her first reason is to used my friend now she is there with her 2 sons. It is bad to judge a person without any evidences. i DON'T but I say that is what she is. because that is what she showed to me evilness. unfortunately she is woman like me. Most woman here acting like that is very common when they experienced good life from being poor because they think that they are already above others like me and since she know that I am not wealthy so that's how she look at me and just what I said that is based on my observation on her action.and I don't judge without a reason.And you are right. perhaps I should sacrifice our friendship to this evil one. and I don't think evil win. So I put everything to God now.yes I am not hurt but I am sad because he is a good friend And I know he needs me to guided him and always remind him the importance of our existence as no one talked to him like that, and enhance him spiritually.