Thirst to respond.

It is so okay if others have responded already and according to you , they have said everything . maybe yes they have , but the way you give comment is too different , you have your own mind set, style and approach ! Go for that then , express yourself.

If a discussion has too many responses, I just read the main topic and react to it accordingly. However, there are some comments on a discussion that I can't help but comment to as well. Although I tend to read most of the responses for me to see if they have already pointed out my view. If I see that what I intend to comment is in most repsonses, I don't comment at all. Hahahaha!

Hi kotia, it is your good habit to check the responses of other mylotters. But it takes a long time. I do not see others answers. I only read the main discussion. and then I answer the question or write my comment on it. Have a very nice day.

Hello there kotia057! I see that you are only new here so I would like to welcome you here in myLot. I hope you will like it here like many of us. I say that you should still say what you want to say eventhough the others had said it. What important is HOW you will say it. I had learned that in a training that. While writing your thoughts, for sure there will be another thoguht that will add up.

If my words are taken I just go to that box and agree to it and strengthen my belief through explaining further what I think the person had not mentioned. in that way I also have contributions to this person.

It depends upon us what we think about those discussions.And my view is totally seperate.And if one can read and respond to discussions in a manner,then one can respond in other manner.So everyone has different views about one thing.

hi kotia no I do not ever feel that way as I am not any of the others and I find I often have something more I can say instead of what all others have s aid. I am here to learn and share and care and also to earn. In order to earn I must participate and in order to participate I must post a response so I go ahead and post my response I do not chicken out because a lot of people just say what they think the poster wants them to say. I post what I want to say instead.

It really happens. Coz if a discussion is really interesting, that could get a lot of responses. Well, if that happens, you can still type in what you feel about the post and then maybe you would want to ask questions to make a connection with the member who started the discussion.

I feel the same and i feel like i'm obsessed with mylot here so i come everyday to check my topics or comments.While sometimes people just respond many and i'm happy to have things shared.People are just so nice,so happy mylotting.

We are recommended to read the answers before we respond and sometimes I do that, but if there are lots of responses then it is just a waste of time. Sometimes other people's opinions can colour mine, so I actually prefer not to read to many other answers first and to join in a discussion before it gets too long, so I run through the list of discussions that are most recent at the top of the page. The list of top topics is often very long, so I start on the short ones and if I have time I check through the popular ones later.

kotia057 if i see that discussion have a lot of respond i will never respond to that discussion. Honestly i'm lazy to see a lot of responses because i will read all responses and after that i not make any respond. I like to respond in discussion which is still dont have a lot of respond. Hmm but if i feel interested with that discussion and have a lot of idea i will still respond to it even it have a lot of respond.