Marriage is a workshop

You think a lot for you husband. What a good wife!

I am just making a funny note on marriage, no touch of seriousness in this.. However, I have know whining wives about their husband's earnings.. and in the end they would always say, "i didn't even able to buy some panties for myself" which I think some wives do. They are very busy budgeting everything for everything, food, bills, children, savings, except herself.

hahaha yes this is true, there are some women such as this. but some women often forget about themselves and when get burn out due to endless work, she will say that she was not even buy this.. and that for herself. She works at home 24/7 so I guess she deserves to get something for herself too. If she has her own work then she has money to use for buying for herself.

but you like the bag..... fine! no bag???? find your own bedroom.

ahh no.. I'm not that cruel, just sayin'.. "stay on your side!"

god knows what to respond, still i m to earn too, so responding ... thnx friend for assisting me.

It is just a matter of prioritizing.. and a matter of agreement between the couple I am sure, everything will work well if both couples are mature and responsible people. the photo was just exaggeration.

Haha this is supposed to be a funny meme. But if you are the wife and you will money to shop, will you?

@VivaLaDani13 I was never dependent to him even when we travel together. We put money 50 - 50 for the our expenses. But do you like to put your money together in the bank, if he is just your partner? I never thought of that. that's a bit risky.

@Mavic123456 hehe I know! But it reminded me of couples I used to know / do know. Nah. I am the type of person to feel bad even when I'm given a birthday present lol I have no idea why but I just feel bad when I'm given things. Especially if it's for no reason. But that does make me always completely grateful. Even if I was with a millionaire, you honestly wouldn't see me asking him for money. ONLY time I ask to borrow money is if it's for something desperate but even then that's rare. And then I would pay the money back. But if my partner was wanting to give me money to buy groceries for us then I would help out with that. But I just can't take money to go off and buy things for myself. I would only use my money for that. BUT ( sorry looking at different ways for this ) if we had money put together in a bank, I would take money out of there to buy things because it's my money as well. But I wouldn't go overboard. What about you?

Yes, I am glad to know this. Wives usually work than the husbands. Wives usually 24/7 and do all the stuff like budgeting, disciplining kids, cleaning, thinking of menu and all of these stuff. so it is really tiring, and yes, buy something that will make a you happy.

yes, it is good that you work and buy yourself a treat. I think this simple treat is a need for ourselves.

yes, that's beside the point. I heard my sister one time complaining to her husband about this.... I laughed when I heard the husband replied.. "why didnt you buy your own panty, no wonder you are using my briefs" then the husband laughed... I laughed... Yes, women thought men will mind, but in reality nope .. they don't mind at all. At least i can speak for my sister and her husband. because her husband knows how hard my sister works in the their family.

ahhh now that you are starting.. it is quite really difficult for both of you.. but you will finish all these stuff without you knowing it.. Now no choice but to make some sacrifices for the little ones. anyway they make you happy in their own little way.

hahaha ... yes.. yes... sexy woman spends money to cosmetics and slimming things and medicine. wow.. then you must marry a sexy woman at least you know it is worth your money...

Oh yes, I heard few wives complain about this. I heard my sister even said this .. and when her husband replied... "why don't you buy what you want?".... then laughed. that's why I had this in my mind.. yes why not. see she thought her husband will think she spends money for herself.. but in reality, her husband never think anything at all. Now she has ipad, iphone, and when she doesn't like them anymore, she gave it to us, her poor sisters LOL. Though she works also. Thank you for appreciating this post. I am so happy to know this.

thanks.. for appreciating...

your husband is very lucky. but you need to have something for yourself too... even a slice of blue berry cheese cake...

ahhh that's good for both of you .. actually, it is in the agreement.

hahaha.. yes, aunt hatley, good morning, actually this just a fun way of saying and reminding other wives that they have life too. Some wives forget that they need to pamper themselves too because they work 24/7 at home. (stay at home wives) if working worse.. working for 8 hours and still working at home.

I am fine Dainy thanks for asking you too hope you are fine. ahhhh sooooo I was right about the sexy girl... but he is truly special... some men are like that treating wives as princesses and queens...

that's great. you must be working or have some part time jobs... and yes this is true, buy at least something for yourself. How can you love someone if you don't love yourself.

yes, that is so true.. many wives sacrifice a lot and like humans they get tired too. so they need to give themselves something they want or material thing that can make her happy. She needs to herself too.

Ahhh of course Raine, the photo was just exaggeration of life. yes, this is true, everything must be put into considerations to live harmoniously.... including finances. very good observation.