Why do she act strangely?

Philippines
February 1, 2013 7:58pm CST
When a woman tells his man leave me alone, then when a man leaves the woman get mad. hmmmff When a woman said don't text me ever again, then if you don't reply she will text you why you didn't reply on my text? Then when a man says I love you to his girl, most women do tell you I know you don't love me. If you give flowers and chocolates to your girl, she will tell you I don't like that. Is this strange or something?
3 responses
vernaC
@vernaC (1491)
• Romania
2 Feb 13
It's actually called reverse psychology and I'm sure you're aware of it. You just have to be sensitive and initiative enough to keep up with this type of woman. It's very childish but hey maybe your gf is still a teenager.
bantoot_code
@bantoot_code (41)
• Philippines
2 Feb 13
I think her attitude is just like teenager but she's not a teenager anymore. I really don't know what to do.
vernaC
@vernaC (1491)
• Romania
2 Feb 13
You can talk to her seriously on growing up and be mature enough in handling your relationship. Being childish is cute but it won't help your relationship to grow.
Shasta
@cupkitties (7421)
• United States
2 Feb 13
Remind her that you are not a mind reader first of all and that nothing will be resolved if she can't say what she really means. When she does try and talk to you about a problem, listen or at least try to appear like you're listening and never say "I don't want to hear it". Saying things like that only leads to them feeling like they can't turn to you for anything and then she will say nothing is wrong when it really is. IF she says she knows you don't love her, its because she feels for some reason that you don't. Saying I love you and actually feeling it for someone is two different things. Ask her why she feels this way. Find out what gifts she does like besides flowers and chocolate. Try to be creative.
bantoot_code
@bantoot_code (41)
• Philippines
2 Feb 13
I can't understand why she act like that, I'd try to talk with her, but she refuse if i insist to talk she will tell nothing is wrong. I try to listen and understand her but nothing happens. I always give my gifts in a unique way, but still it won't work. hmmmmffff
Raine38
@Raine38 (12391)
• United States
2 Feb 13
Well, maybe she's just a bit crazy lol! Or she wants to be mollycoddled and be treated like a baby. Literally. It does drive one crazy if people would say one thing yet mean another. Maybe you should talk to her and tell her you are having some problems with the way she communicates. Hopefully she wouldn't say yes but actually means no.