It's crazy love~

Malaysia
February 2, 2013 6:51pm CST
Sometime i not understand. Some girl even their boyfriend hit them and ask the money they still stick with their boyfriend. They say they still love with their boyfriend. I'm not sure if their boyfriend still love them or not. If their boyfriend hit them they should report about this to the police. For me if they really love their girlfriend they will caring to their girlfriend. Hmm because of love a person can not distinguish which is good and which is bad.
10 responses
@Mavic123456 (21893)
• Thailand
3 Feb 13
well yes maybe that's love i don't settle for this though. and besides i don't have money hahaha i can not give because i dont have. fortunately i have not found a Violent BF lol i wish i will not find out
• Malaysia
3 Feb 13
Mavic when their girlfriend say she dont have money this boyfriend will angry and hit their girlfriend. Some guy is very rude and always use violence to the weak person like a girl. I hope you can find good man.
@Mavic123456 (21893)
• Thailand
3 Feb 13
yes, such cruelty.. don't be like that Aka. ok. worry not about me, I am too old for this stuff already.
• Malaysia
3 Feb 13
I know you old but you always act young. Hehe. I guess your age is around 50+.
@yume11 (183)
• Romania
3 Feb 13
Sometimes love it's blind. I think those girls think that maybe someday they'll find the good heart of their boyfriends, or maybe they are staying with them just because they look good, so they can have popularity and such things...
• Malaysia
5 Feb 13
Yeah sometime a parents and friends give a good advice to us because they don't want we couple with bad people.
• Malaysia
3 Feb 13
Maybe they think someday their boyfriend will change to be a good person but how long they want to stay with this type of a guy?
@yume11 (183)
• Romania
4 Feb 13
In love patience and hope , sometimes don't have limits. But when they'll wake up from their ''happy story'' and they'll realize what's happening, maybe it will be too late. That's why , sometimes we should listen to what others say too, in these type of cases, parents and friends can do something before it's too late.
@sriroshan (2585)
• India
6 Feb 13
You are correct even I have noticed some girls who are of those type. I would have never preferred to stay or continue the relationship with such guy. I can't understand why they can't understand that if what they are doing is not good before getting then what they will do after getting married. It is always better to forget or get rid of such boys in the beginning only.
• Malaysia
7 Feb 13
Yes some girl like that. Is that love they want? It is not give any happiness to them. They should report their boyfriend to the police if their boyfriend using violence to them.
• Dhaka, Bangladesh
5 Feb 13
Hi friend, it is not at all good to hurt anybody either boyfriend or girlfriend. I Europe, I have seen many girlfriends hurt their boyfriends. If boys hurt their gf, then their gf report the matter to police and police arrest them. Have a very nice day.
• Malaysia
6 Feb 13
I'm not sure about that because i not live in Europe. If girlfriend hit their boyfriend that mean their boyfriend is weak. At here most case is a guy hit their girlfriend.
• Dhaka, Bangladesh
7 Feb 13
In Europe, boys are not weak but rules and regulations are favorable for the girls. If you see wrestling, then you will see that girls are hitting but gents are telling or doing anything. Police do not give importance to the boys because of their rules.
• Philippines
3 Feb 13
Its ok to be crazy in love. But to the extent that physical abuse is involve then its no longer love.
@sriroshan (2585)
• India
6 Feb 13
You are correct daisy_dion there is no harm to be crazy when in love but when the question comes about hitting or physical abuse then it is worse of the worst thing that anybody can bear.
• Malaysia
3 Feb 13
I think the guy is not crazy in love but his girlfriend is crazy in love even her boyfriend hit her she still say she love her boyfriend.
@r0cker (300)
• India
3 Feb 13
It's not love, it's stupidity. Those girl's boyfriends are with them only for money & they don't even hesitate to hit their GF for it. It's totally stupid that a girl still wanna be with a guy who hit her. She should leave him as soon as she can so she won't be hurt anymore.
• Malaysia
3 Feb 13
Some a boyfriend ask money to their girlfriend. When their girlfriend dont have a money they will hit their girlfriend. That situation happen when they still not married. What will happen when they married? I think it will become very bad situation if they married. Maybe because of love people become very crazy.
@r0cker (300)
• India
3 Feb 13
Girls should part their ways with such kind of boyfriends. They're animals. There's no way getting married with such boyfriends .
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
4 Feb 13
Some men do feel so inferior over their partners. And I guess, hitting their partners or just being terrible with them doesn't bother them at all. They think that a woman should always stick by their side no matter what. I would never tolerate such person in my life. The moment he hits me, i'm surely out of the picture the next second.
• Malaysia
5 Feb 13
Yeah the woman should not stick and trust with this type of guy anymore. First time couple their boyfriend very nice with them but when it is in long time their boyfriend will show their real attitude.
@deazil (4730)
• United States
6 Feb 13
Aka, when I was young I was married to someone who beat me up. More than once. I got a divorce. I wasn't married for even a year. I thought he was going to kill me. There are different reasons why women stay with men like that. Fear, because some women have left and then the man has murdered them. Or the hope that they will change because the men say they're sorry and it won't happen again - but it does, always. There are other reasons, too. Some women are brought up in violent homes and that's all they know. It's normal for them. Some women have very low self esteem and feel they deserve to be treated this way. They feel they are worthless. The men who do these things are sick. They have a variety of different problems. But what they do is very bad. And it's against the law. Hopefully, as the laws get better more women will seek protection.
• Malaysia
6 Feb 13
Woo most of your husband is very rude and bad. Yeah i think some woman afraid maybe they have been threatened by their boyfriend not to report to the police. Sometime their parent also not trust them when they say their boyfriend or their husband is a bad guys. Some man very good to act. In front of their girlfriend parents they look nice but they turned to be devil when only he and his girlfriend/wife. You are right this type of man is sick and crazy. I hope there a better law than before to protect a woman from violence.
3 Feb 13
Yes man I had also observed it many times.They pressurise their girlfriend to do what they ask for and don't go against them a single word.Guyz saying bad words and using abusive language is common these dayd.If girl do not go agree to do they just start using abusive language.Till now I have not seen the girls being beaten but I know It persists.I don't know why really girls stay with them.Actually girls thinks they love him but all those who are abusing them can't love them.They are just using them and its also fashion in girls to change boy friends.I don't say all but some do . Its just foolishness on part of girls.The boyz who can't respect can't love them.
• Malaysia
5 Feb 13
Yeah some man doing like that. Their girlfriend must listen what they said but they not listen what his girlfriend said. They will use abusive language when their girlfriend not do what he say or not agree what he say. At here there a lo of case girls being beaten by her boyfriend. I agree with you if the boy not respect his girlfriend that mean only the girlfriend love this boyfriend. It is very idiot if the girl still want to stick with this type of boyfriend.
@Ahenig8 (10)
• United States
3 Feb 13
No girl deserves to be treated like that. I dont understand why girls put up with guys like that. Youre right, if the guy really loved their girlfriend, they will be caring to them. If they didn't love them, they will mistreat them, maybe resulting in abusive action.
• Malaysia
5 Feb 13
Yeah no girl want to be treated like that. They should report to the police if their boyfiend beaten them. I not understand why they still protect their boyfriend. That why i say it is crazy love. People become carzy because of love.