Dont wanna spend this Valentine's Day alone

@r0cker (300)
India
February 3, 2013 2:39pm CST
I've never looked at this day like this. I've always spent this day like every other day of the year. But this time it's different. Now I'm in college & want to start a relationship. I'm friends with some girls but they're just friends. I dont have that feeling for them. That means I've to go for a strange girl. Let's suppose.... I see a girl, like her but don't know her.Now what to do? How to start??? Aaaaaaa...it's heating up my mind. So help, I dont wanna spend this Valentine's Day alone watching football.
9 responses
@wolfie34 (26771)
• United Kingdom
4 Feb 13
I actually don't like Valentines Day, not because I am single which I am happy about, and not because I will spend it alone because it doesn't mean anything to me, but because I actually met my ex on Valentines Day! It was a bad omen alright. Don't rush into anything and don't put too much emphasis on Valentine's Day, it's just another day.
@wolfie34 (26771)
• United Kingdom
5 Feb 13
As does commercialism and the media, when you see commercials about Valentines Day, weeks before it's even hear, kind of makes things ten times worse when you are alone I do agree
@r0cker (300)
• India
5 Feb 13
You don't like Valentine's Day because of a bad omen. Alright. Well I'll keep in mind that I've not to rush into anything. I also thought of it as a normal day, but the society around us gave it much more hype.
@alberello (4752)
• Italy
4 Feb 13
Well, for me, Valentine's Day, I have always passed as any day of the year. You want to know why? Simple, although I arrived at the ripe age of almost 38 years, I have never been involved in a romantic relationship. Basically, I've never entertained a girlfriend. And you know what I'm saying? I say instead that I am so happy! Single forever. It is exactly what I want! So I say to you girls .. I do not seek me. I want to be alone! I finished!
@r0cker (300)
• India
5 Feb 13
It's great that you are happy being a single. Well it have it's own advantages but sometimes it feels that we should've been in a relationship. We should've someone to love us other than family and friends.
@annierose (21583)
• Philippines
4 Feb 13
hi rocker, I guess that everyone doesn't want to be alone specially during special occasion like Valentines.Why don't you try to go to some places where you can meet some girls. You can also ask some of your friends to set a date for you --- a blind date. I think that it will be exciting.I think that you can also find girls online and just choose who you want to go with. Just be careful because not all people you meet are honest. Good luck!
@r0cker (300)
• India
4 Feb 13
Thanks. The idea of blind date is looking good. It's worth a try. But I've seen that mostly blind dates don't work. I dont think online dating gonna work because most of the girls present there are fake.
@airasheila (5454)
• Philippines
4 Feb 13
good day r0cker, same as you are i don't want to spend valentines day alone this year because if that thing happens, this will be my first time to spend it alone.
@r0cker (300)
• India
4 Feb 13
Hey airasheila. You & me are on the same page. So, why are you alone this time & what you're gonna do to not spend that day alone?
@tiffnkeat (1673)
• Singapore
4 Feb 13
You have many choices: 1. Be sincere and ask her for a date. 2. Ask your friends' partners to introduce one of their friends to you for Valentine. 3. Entertain the thought of spending time alone on Valentine's Day watching football alone. Which would you choose?
@r0cker (300)
• India
4 Feb 13
I'll try all of these one by one. If the first one won't work than I'll go for the blind date. If that won't work too than I'll try the first one again. And if I won't get success till Valentine's Day then I'm surely not gonna spend the day watching football alone...... I'm gonna watch it with my friends & the next day I'll go for the first one again. Just gonna try again & again.
4 Feb 13
ahhh .. No problem freind. Select one girl first. The girl seeing whom u feel so happy. Then Just make her freind first. and the day of valentine propose her.
@r0cker (300)
• India
5 Feb 13
Thanks for your advice. Well I wish it'll be that easy as it looks while reading.
@farjun (135)
• Israel
3 Feb 13
ask her out.. its not that hard.. if you like whatt you see then do it! she might say yes- then your on you own =]
@r0cker (300)
• India
4 Feb 13
Thanks. Ok I'll ask her out. I wish it would be that easy.
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
4 Feb 13
Why not just come up to her and introduce yourself. Well, you don't have to tell her that you love her in an instant. Atleast allow her to know you better.
@r0cker (300)
• India
4 Feb 13
So I introduced myself to her than how to guess she's interested or not & if I dont tell her that I love her instantly than what do I've to tell her then ? Should I start by becoming friends?
@doronk69 (91)
• Israel
3 Feb 13
Just go to some girl you see at the club,party,street,campus or class. Start talking to her with a converstion that keeps her gessin who you are, and then ask her for a date or for her phone number. Belive me it works like magic.. and besides, I take it that you are from the US and that you are intrested in football, if that's the case then you shouldn't have any problems with that issue;) Well, Good Luck with that man!
@r0cker (300)
• India
4 Feb 13
Ok I'll start from my college campus &, street . But, is it good to have a relationship with a neighbourhood girl? Maybe her family would be against it. Well I'm not from US but I like football.