Reasons to dump your partner... #2 TRUST

If my husband said that he liked cooking just to win my hand and it turned out he does not then that would be a big lie just if I said that I loved stitching. Here ends do justify means! I would feel very uncomfortable living with those who cannot be trusted no matter in which area the trust is shaken.

This one I agree...nobody likes rude shocks...especially regarding monies...though cheating topic does come close enough to this trust issue, does it not? :)

I think ANY lies can break down the establishment of trust. If you can't trust the person you are closest with then you have no basis for a stable relationship. No one wants the unnecessary anxiety, frustration and big time drama.

The problem with a big lie is, even if the evidence is staring straight into the culprit's face, he still manages to create a string of endless lies to disprove it. Once trust is destroyed, everything crumbles with it and for me life would be much lighter living in reality alone than be with someone whom you are not sure to trust your life with.

hi, as i have said to your discussion a while ago that my number two reason why should i need to dump my partner,but trust also need in a relationship to make it more healthy and stronger,without this fighting and misunderstanding will arise in a relationship.

I dont find any big lie or small lie things between partners. Of course, in the process of making love, one may tell lie/s to some extend to win over tht person. But after being a partner, one should be 100% true (though i am not) to his/her partner. In most of the case, i ve found partners are faithful but not obedient. They understand, considering all angles in life, that their partner is the best choice. still for some of the temporary reasons, they try to enjoy some part of their routine with other friend. Though its not un-natural, still i must admit,this type of activity should be avoided. As its part 2 of your title, i guess, you should concentrate a bit more to handle the issue, if any, and try your level best to keep your friend in track. I can only wish the best for you.

this should be number one. you have to know your significant other very well in order to trust them. when that trust has been broken, how can you trust them ever again. you will always be wondering.

Trust is the most important element in a relationship. If you can't trust them with your heart then all bets are off. I don't understand why people break trust with the only person who they have committed their feeling to. There are too many people who think that they can bust up relationship after relationship and never pay the price. I'll tell you what the price is, its loneliness and they deserve every miserable second of it.

As far as i'm concerned a lie is a lie & i hate to be lied to. I never trust people that lie to me. If they'd do it once they'd do it over & over. The truth may hurt sometime but i had rather be hurt than lied to.

I definitely do agree with you that trust issues are one of the biggest things that can break up a relationship. However, I really do think that it does start with the little things. I guess what I am trying to say is that if you are not able to trust your partner with little things, then I don't think that you would be able to trust them with the bigger things that really could lead to problems in your relationship in the future.

I don't think you'd ever have that peace of mind when all you can think of is what your partner is probably doing when you are not together. Or you would even think if that person is really who she says she is. You'll go crazy thinking about your partner constantly. And I think that if trust is not in the relationship, there is no use to cling on to the relationship.

I think for me trusting someone means you can count on that person. I don't care how he/she is treating someone else, also not about hearing a truth I don't like. I like to hear the truth and have to know that the person I know is for real. With or without a great character, personality or ...

Trust is really important in a relationship. When you cannot trust your partner anymore, it's time to end it there because how can you keep the relationship working without trust. It's better to be alone that with someone who's not being true to you. There are things that is difficult to establish and fix when broken, one of them is trust.

You are right, Without trust makes the life uncomfortable & frustrated. I think you have to explain everything to your partner that dont lie in front of you.. If she wants to become you happy then get rid of this habit..