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It is okay as long as you are comfortable with it and you feel that you don't need someone else. The question if its okay to remain unattached forever solely relies on you and how you do things. Its true that almost everyone want to be in a relationship but nobody wants to give up their single ways.although, you'll never know what might happen, things joust happen after all. My mom once said that shell never remarry and she will never be associated with another man, but then she met my stepdad and that changed everything. She seems happy with her current relationship and i am happy for her too.

If your happy it is okay to be single as long as you want to be. I am married and it's not like that though. I don't follow orders or have to please my husband all the time. It is a give and take relationship. Not all marriages are like the one you just came out of... I'm just saying. Not all marriages are bad and ugly. Mine is good, of course we have bad times like anyone but we respect each other. But if your happy being single then that of course is your choice. I could not imagine my life without my husband in it...

i think its fine to be single forever as long as you can handle the temptations. lol anyway there are kids to focus at share your love,im sure you can make it...

I can't really relate much since i have never been married. Although, it is tiring to always try and please someone. Some people are meant for married life, while others choose to stay single. I think you should just stick to what you are happy with.

Hi for me I hate being single, I would love to come home to a wife and kids.im 50 now and still want a family.have the right mate should be a partenr ship everything 50/50.even Im a great cook were I live I do call it home i call it my place a home is were your happy and have some one to come home to. but if you are happy in the insdie then maybe that good for you. ok good day.

it is good to be single, but if you ask me if you would could be happy by being unattached, then I would give you a big "NO". yes, you read it right, being single is different from being unattached from any relationship. You could be single as long as you do not find someone who really makes you feel good and happy. I know it is not as easy as it is being said and things like that. but then, you know, time heals all the wounds and as time goes on, you would need someone to make you feel good as you as a person really deserves to be taken care off and being loved and be happy. You can be happy being single with all that you said, like no pleasing others and following others, but there is some beauty in life when you are pleasing someone else to see them smile and things like that. The biggest and the most satisfying happiness comes when you are happy from inside and you have the beauty of life also with you . Only happiness without the little beauty will always have the power to bring you down in the long run. I wouldn't say, go and bump yourself in to another relationship, i would just say, do not close the doors of your heart.When some one knocks it, be open to open it. May be god has someone better and feels that you deserve to be more happy and be loved. Be positive in life.

I love being single, I wouldn't have it any other way, after being in two abusive relationships and taking my freedom for granted, I have vowed that I will stay unattached for the rest of my life. I prefer my own company and I am independent, I can do what I like, when I like, without having to answer to anyone. I would hate to be in a relationship again.

Hi Majivy, It is never happy being single and unattached. There are times in life when single don't work at all and since man is a social animal so he needs time and again someone to share joy, sorrows and someone from whom a person can tell his or her deepest feelings. This is my feeling, I might be wrong but this is how I feel.

Well, you should know that I, despite having arrived at the ripe age of almost 38 years, I have never been involved in a romantic relationship. This is for my personal choice, and after all, that's fine with me! I live with my parents and younger brother. Not that our family relationships are better, but still I do not care at all engaged to a woman! I'll stay single forever! And so I lived happily ever after.

Hi friend, there is nothing wrong in living as a single person, as you mentioned that you had a failed married, so you had a bitter experience about marriage life and not interested in marrying another time, so live your life in your own way. No one can dominate you.. All the best

I was single for 6 years between my first and second marriage. I enjoyed being single although it was a big change in my life and costly in every way. I remember a friend visiting me in my little flat. She said 'Aren't you lonely?' and at that time my immediate reaction was 'No, I am free'. So I can understand why you prefer your single life to your married one. I did not want to be single forever, I wanted someone to share my life after 6 years of being alone. I am thankful that this need was met and now I no longer yearn for the 'freedom' I had. The hard thing after a failed marriage is to believe you can have a successful one and to be afraid to try. After a few years you may feel as I did.

After a failed marriage, yes of course it is okay to stay single, unattached, do whatever it is you want to do with your time without worrying what will be the outcome of your every actions. You've only yourself to please, yourself to love, and you can do the things, go to places that only a no family commitment could ever do. It is only natural to be skeptical having been through with what you had. If it's what's in your heart and you are comfortable of being alone, I'm sure you'll get by. The possibilities are endless, who knows you'll get over the pain and have a different view on staying single forever.

Its gr8 to read your lines. Its all very valuable and in right spirit to handle the art of living. But you have asked something else in the end. I guess, you had never thought to love someone and marry, just to get attached to others requirements. It just happened and the same even may happen in future. So attachment is just a subset of love and you are not sure of your tomorrow's love. Ve a nice day. Get your love soon.

You probably feel that way because of your bad marriage. Generally people after getting married find it very difficult to be unattached. But people can change or be of a different view. I believe that being unattached has its rewards. If you are financially stable, then you can enjoy this freedom with your friends or alone spneding your time doing other activities

for me there is no wrong to be alone in our whole life,actually i am single since last year and i am still happy for being like this,even we are single we can still choose to be happy and enjoy life no matter what happen.life is too short.