Do you feel bad for the children of today's generation?

Philippines
February 12, 2013 7:32pm CST
Because most of them don't get to experience what we had as a child specially kids who live in the city. Life was so simple during our time. We play the old traditional games while kids today play with the computers and gadgets a lot. We used to climb trees, swam the rivers, dance and run in the rain, play hide and seek, and all those stuff that kids today missed. Aside from the fact that the environment is not the same anymore, it's not safe for them to always go outside and do these things. I missed being a kid! :)
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@ShyBear88 (59347)
• Sterling, Virginia
13 Feb 13
No I don't because I do all of that stuff with my kids. I take them outside we play at the play ground we play ring around the rosey. It depends on the parents there are just some parents that are lazy, or they are two busy to do thing like that with there kids or to tell them no you can't have this or that right now. My daughter yeah she has video games but they are all educational and I don't let her spend all day on them mostly they are used for the car while we are out. I try to do activties where they aren't watching tv.
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• Philippines
13 Feb 13
That's good to hear from you. I hope that most parents do the same for the kids. But we can't blame them though, for being always busy working their butt off to put food on the table.
• Philippines
18 Feb 13
You're right, but those parents maybe thought that's the way to raise their kids. Parenting is such a challenging and complicating most of the time. Thank you for sharing that.
@ShyBear88 (59347)
• Sterling, Virginia
14 Feb 13
Actually you can blame them just because they work all of the time to put food on the table doesn't mean they can't stop for 5 minutes and take some time to do something with there child. My parents worked all of the time seven 2 jobs and that never stopped them for doing stuff with my and my brothers. I have never let anything get in my way of me and my kids having a little bit of time. Yeah my stay at home mom but I got things I have to do every day in which some times means I don't have time for my kids, I have to force myself to have time with them and I force my husband to do things with them as well. Even just telling a babysitter would you please do this with my kids that is all it takes. Schools these days are going into the ipad direction so parents have to make time even if it's just a few minutes to take there mind off work other then when they go to bed. There kids are missing out on something that they will never get back.
@irene66 (1669)
• Philippines
13 Feb 13
For me, I do not appreciate much the generation of today even with the interference of technology. Just like you, I still prefer the generation where children climb trees, do bush walking and do swimming in the river. I just pity my children today because if i tell them my happy childhood story of picking wild berries, guavas and other exotic fruits, they just imagine and even cannot believe it. I also missed those days!
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• Philippines
13 Feb 13
Most children won't really believe it. MY nieces and nephews are like that too, they don't believe me when I tell them how our childhood was. Some things they could not even imagine, like swimming in the river because the river now has become very polluted it's really not safe for them to swim in there. I remember when we were kids, we stole guava fruits from one of our neighbors. We were caught but the old man just laughed and told us not to steal next time because he would give us the fruits if we just asked for it. That was so fun.
@irene66 (1669)
• Philippines
15 Feb 13
Not only guavas were stolen during those times. We also stole some young mangoes and other young fruits of our neighbors in our early years. We use to peel them and deep them in a dish of salt. At times, we were chased with dogs but of course we run away as fast as we could or climb higher up the tree and never move. until the dog is tired of barking.
@marguicha (223720)
• Chile
19 Feb 13
Children play in a different way nowadays, it`s true. But a few years ago I discovered that my months old grandson was not playing but learning with his toys. He picked up a toy, licked it, tried to make it bounce, looked at it from all sides and left it after that. He did the same with all his toys and then got bored with "nothing to do" until I tarted to wash oranges and apples for him to play with. Today`s generation is a generation with technology. They must learn how to conquer the world when they are very young. I was taught how to use my cell phone by a 5 year old nephew.
• Philippines
20 Feb 13
Yes, that's their advantage. They have an advanced learning when it comes to technology, but still it would be nice for them to experience nature the way it was decades ago. Thanks for sharing, have a nice day!
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
15 Feb 13
Honestly, I have to say that I am jealous of the children of today. The reason that I say that is because of the fact that they are able to do all of the things that we were able to do when we were children, but they also have a lot of options that we didn't have when we were children. For example, my children are able and do spend a lot of time playing outside with their friends. However, they have the alternatives of playing on the computer or with other technology when the weather is too nasty to go outside. This doesn't mean that I let them play exclusively on the computer or other technology, but that is an option that they have that wasn't available when I was a little girl.
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• Philippines
15 Feb 13
Or we can play with the kids with those computers, we can be their online playmates, lol! Thanks dorannmwin! Have a nice day!
• Greece
22 Feb 13
I do feel sorry for the children growing up today because their world is a much smaller one than ours was. They have lots of modern technology but playing with it involves hours of sitting indoors in solitude and using their fingers instead of their imagination. My childhood has gone now and although my children might just about remember remnants of the time before computers, it is certain that their children will have an almost alien experience of being kids. When people talk of street kids we think of neglected young people who are likely to get into bad company and habits. When I was a kid we were all street kids in the sense that the street was our playground. We had freedom to ride our bikes, skate on the pavements, walk to the park, kick a ball against a wall or just play chase games. Good memories to look back upon.
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@violann (436)
• United States
22 Feb 13
That is so true and we had to be home when the street lights came on. In our teenage years we had a curfew.
@tyleremy (170)
• China
15 Feb 13
why feel bad?we do all miss the old times and old games, but we gotta move on,we're shifting to a new century.Let's focus on the bright sides.Think about they have better food and better living conditions etc.
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• Philippines
15 Feb 13
Looking on the brighter side of life? Got it! Thanks dude! Have a nice day!
@cutepenguin (6431)
• Canada
13 Feb 13
I think my son will miss out - people nowadays are so much more careful and don't let kids do even basic things like walk to school by themselves.
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• Philippines
13 Feb 13
Thank you for your response, it reminds me those days when me and my sibling just walk going to the school together with the entire kids in the neighborhood. It was so much fun!
@sizzle3000 (3036)
• United States
13 Feb 13
I do feel really sorry for this generation of kids. I don't just look back on my childhood but on my own daughter's. Granted I was an overprotective mother but that was just me. The neighborhood we were in was great at the time and I could watch it slowly get worse. Does anyone know what that's like? We used to go outside and play as kids and it's not just that it's gotten more dangerous because I'd know where my child was at all times as my mother did me but now outside games are being replaced with video games. And people complain about obese kids yet parents aren't getting the kids outside. Even if you're so protective that it's YOU and your kid playing a game. You can't blame everything and not point the finger at yourself as the parent. Yes it's society but us parents could change it.
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• Philippines
13 Feb 13
Yes, parents are still the children's role model. If most parents are into today's modern technology, we can't really blame them because technology makes our lives easier. But the problem is there's a price to that.
@dandan07 (1906)
• China
13 Feb 13
Now outside is dangerous. 40 years ago, children can swim in the river, now swimming in the river is really a good way to kill yourself. And there are few and few children in the community now, it is impossible to team up and play together. I think today's children lose a great part in their early age, they do not have a chance to know the nature, which makes them lose many common knowledge, they do not have chance to have teamwork, which make them lose the chance to learn how to communicate with people.
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• Philippines
13 Feb 13
That's another thing, communication. Some children today just use social media to communicate. They only have few chances to relating to people from different walks of life.
@lelin1123 (15595)
• Puerto Rico
24 Feb 13
I feel extremely bad for the kids of today growing up in a world where playtime is in front of a computer, tv or phone. I have grandkids who don't get to play outside like they should because the world is so dangerous. I loved growing up in the 60's and 70's, where we played hopscotch, hide and seek, cowboys and indians, volleyball, tag, and so many other games. Even my daughters grew up where they played outside with their dolls, playing in the tree house, playing school, etc... My daughter and her husband are so scare that something will happen to their girls they actually homeschool the girls to keep them safe. I plan to be there for a month in May and I will be taking them outside to play weather permitting.
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
13 Feb 13
I do see the difference of how our life was compared to the life of my kids now. Well, financially speaking, my parents were a lot stable already when they were my age now. And also, my family had lots oof bonding time together so we get to do a lot of things together. Unlike now, where kids would just rather stay home and play with their gadgets all day.
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• Philippines
13 Feb 13
That's true! Money was not that a big issue back in those days. Couples have many children because they can afford it. Now some couple have only one or two child because they think they can't provide for many children, and life now is a little harder for the kids financially speaking.
@edvc77 (2140)
• Philippines
13 Feb 13
Yes it is quite different nowadays. Games are even modern and innovative with the latest gadgets. I find traditional games more appealing because one can interact personally with other children unlike the computer games. It is true too that the environment is not safe anymore. Children of today miss many natural things.
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• Philippines
13 Feb 13
Yes, and these games make many children obese because they don't have much physical activities, unlike during our times. Games were fun of like our sport already, we were very active kids and rarely get sick
• India
13 Feb 13
I feel sorry for this century kids, living in the world of crim and all those bad news which we hear daily from media. but for another side, time of technology is good if it will be with love and safety in the society.
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• Philippines
14 Feb 13
Technology is really good, it can make a lot of things easier, we can finish a lot of work in no time, communication is excellent. It's just we have to pay a price for that.