I hate Drama

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and drama queens. When my exhusband and I split, I didn't harass him, didn't bother him, and although I tried to avoid him, he insisted on stalking me to the point where I decided I needed to get totally away from him and moved to another state. I dated a man some months afterwards and when it didn't work out, I never bothered him again. I didn't text him, didn't call, I just walked away. It's called Pride. So I don't understand these women (or even men) who have to continue to harass and stalk and bother their exes, some even years after the fact...they didn't appreciate them when they had them, and when their ex moves on and finds someone else, I don't think they have a right to complain. Then they decide they have to say nasty things to and about their exes new girlfriend. On Facebook of all places. Don't get me wrong, I like FB, it has it's usefullness at times, but I don't think it's an appropriate place to show one's immaturity level and to cause drama. So today I posted a pic of my bf, and his ex commented, a nasty comment. They have been separated for YEARS. I deleted the comment and didn't respond. I figure it's best just to ignore her. This isn't the first time she has done this, and she is in her 50's, time to grow up wouldn't you say? Her whole thing is to try to make me look bad, she is trying to make it look like I caused the breakup of their marriage. I didn't even KNOW him then. We've known each other less than a year. When in reality it was her. Unfaithfulness, sneaking around with another man, telling him she wanted to experiment and explore with other men. No pride in herself apparently. He was devastated, but now he has moved on and she can't stand it. What did she think? That he was just waiting for her to come to her senses? He doesn't even want her. So I think the best thing is to just hold on to my dignity and not respond, even though I really wanted to blast her, I bit my tongue, sat on my hands and refused to stoop to her level.