Is that true love happens only once
By ashishyash
@ashishyash (40)
India
February 21, 2013 3:49am CST
I have loved a girl very much but she ditched me. I could do harm to myself but i did not do this because of my thinking that nobody should destroy himself just because of someone else acts. I know my love was true but i also love myself, i also love my life so i decided to move on and to love someone who loves me. So i got married to a girl and today i am very happy with my life. I love my wife more than that girl. I have heard love happens only once but i think this is not true and my life experience suggest that. What you people think about this? Do you agree with me friends???
6 responses
@harmony01 (64)
• India
22 Feb 13
Its good to hear that you are leading a happy life after getting married, as I am also going through this phase. I cant marry to person I want to get married, not because he ditched me or I ditched him but because our families are not agreed. It seems impossible for me to get over it at this time. The more I think to forget him, more I think of him. I try to stay calm whole day but at the end of each day I find myself failed in doing so.
@ashishyash (40)
• India
26 Feb 13
I"ll suggest you to try at fullest to convince your families and get married but if that does not hppen then dont feel empty. Life is full of joy and opportunities which"ll make you complete. I agree it's tough to get over this phase but it's not impossible. First you should convince your families. Good luck and happy life ahead
@viju0410 (2286)
• India
21 Feb 13
Hi,
Welcome to mylot.
I must appreciate you for loving yourself first and then congrats for your married life. I have some friends with love failures but they are successful in their married life. So how can i say love happens only once? I think you can be out of love as well with the same person when you have 'no feelings'..
@machatago (385)
• Philippines
25 Feb 13
Love doesn't actually happen once though. True Love is more than that, how about love for your parents? Your friends? Your kids, and your relatives. That is called true love too. Not only to one particular person, of course sharing your love to your wife is a special kind of love too, but don't fuss about just be happy that you two are in love and I hope you will continue that til you grow old.
@offlimits (596)
• Philippines
22 Feb 13
I agree with you that love does not happen only once in our life. There are many forms of love and even in finding true love we go through experiences that lead us to that stumbling upon that person whom we will love forever. Sometimes, to know what really love is, we must take our experiences with our past love in order to prevent ourselves to commit the same mistakes again with our current one. So I'm glad that you've finally found the one who'll spend the rest of your life with.
@41CombedaleRoad (5952)
• Greece
22 Feb 13
Ask anyone who has lived for 30 years or more and they will tell you that love happens often. Most people have that first love experience that you describe and when that fizzles out and they recover they move on to a more mature relationship.
@pomwango (1353)
• Kenya
21 Feb 13
i don't think love happens only once,you can love and then it ends and you get to love again .its ok for love to end when its not both sided and you will find love with someone else who shares your dreams,sadly at times some love are so deep such that you never completely get over them even after you find someone new to love.
