There Is Still Love After Three Decades

Hi sweetie. Apart from 3 decades that passed it is amazing to hear that people can love each other after all they went through. I really think it is wonderfull. I personally don't believe in love anymore but i do wish them all the best together.

Hello, Neil. How are you doing? I hope all things are well with you and your family. :-) I know, dear, that this one isn't impossible to happen. In fact, it could happened to you or me or to just anyone. Sadly, this is not the best lovestory eh because one way or another there be people who will get hurt at the end. For the part of the girl, she has no problem, unless, all papers are not processed and deemed her not ok to enter a new relationship. But for the man, oh, boy, he should have more common sense than dip his finger into the fire. :-( Past is past and even if they love each other, it is a no can do thing already. They are done. What the man should be thinking right now is the future of his children and her wife. I wonder what does the wife did to him for him to betray her trust and love? Why the guy is so willing to risk everything he has for the sake of that old sweetheart? THey , the old lovers, are just too selfish., especially to his kids. They are the ones who are most likely to suffer from their father's infidelity. For what? Because he loves the other woman? Jesus... they had they chance before but they blew it. Now that there are far more important things and people to consider they are acting as if they own the world and the future. Well, they have no future together unless the man is willing to leave the wifey and the kids. But this ain't going to be the first bad scenarion, it is only the beginning coz a lot of far worse thing can also happened. Is he really willing to take that much chances and risks with her... I'm a wife and a mother, Neil, so you must understand where this reply must be coming from... I feel for the kids... God bless you, Neil :-)

Rekindling old love story would definitely break many hearts. The best thing to do is to give undivided love to the family .

well it is love in the wrong time and now a baby in the wrong time also. i think the boy should choose which one to go.to his wife and his kids or to the high school sweetheart.he should decide and choose only one or they will live their life in pain.

This is the 3rd discussion of almost similar situation I have seen in mylot. Although, I have seen the topic several times already, I am really into it as I am one of those "victims" of such forbidden love I had a boyfriend in our high school days as well whom I cannot ignore till this date. We have our own families but when we met in facebook the feelings we have had before sparked to the 3rd degree He admitted personally, he still loves me and so do I Though we did not yet meet, we plan to see each other for a coffee drink. Just hope nothing will go wrong if that time comes for us to see each other.

I don't know but this relationship is rather complicated. I don't know how they can handle it, but I pray to God to give them wisdom and knowledge to do the right thing.

They will face the circumstance that might bring for continuing their so called undying love. We cannot blame any of them if they made mistakes but in the eyes of the people and the law of God strong insist no adulterer is allowed to enter heaven. If they don't want to live in heaven, so they will continue what they do.

Hi Nieldc! After 30 years they met? They are not young anymore and yet they engaged in forbidden love? And this is a true story? It sounds like a movie! My heart goes for the woman with whom the man have kids. How could that man just leave her and their kids for his high school sweetheart? Even if he loved that first woman, he should have had taken into consideration his family. And if I were the woman( the high school sweetheart), I would sacrifice my feelings to avoid wrecking a home. Oh well, that is my stand and not hers. Indeed, people thinks differently and besides love is blind and lovers cannot see.

So they are having an affair? That's terrible! If they are lovers since highschool why didn't they get married years ago. Instead they ended up with other partners. Must be some reason for that happening the way that it did.

This is so sad. That this man can disreguard his relationship with his wife and child for the sake of a long lost love. Betrayal will always color that old love no matter how this works out. If I were his present wife, divorce and a healthy monthly bill would be my gift to his new life. What a jerk.

Yes that's wrong. Love? I don't buy that if they are both knowingly hurting his wife. I bumped into a person I had a crush on 30 years ago. Didn't realize he felt the same way. We are still seeing each other today, but we were not in a relationship with anyone when we starting seeing each other.

hi neildc, I hope it's not you It's amazing how people kept this kind of feelings through the years but I think it's not worth it as the boy is still in a relationship with other plus they have a child now. hugs to zay and ate pat happy mylotting

First i think it is romantic for these two people by their love with each other after they have suffered so much. But after a second i thought the love between them is not real love. If they really love each other so much particularly for that man, he would not marriy to other woman 30 years ago and i am sure the woman was really hurt at that time. If true love really exist , they dont need to wait 30 years to make this decision of being together again. They could not be together 30 years ago, there must be a reason that only they know.

Hi,neildc! How you doing there?I don't think this could be a happy ending.But what confused me is why they broke up if they are in love with each other?No contacts in those 30 years and the boy stareted a family,and by saying that, I mean committment no matter how much you love another person or even more than your partner. Maybe what is happening to those sweethearts is just not love, it could be the good memoey in high scholl.But they are not teenage anymore,if the sweethearts are insiting getting together, then the boy should confess to his wife,his wife deserves to know it.Hide it from your wife would not good for your sweethearts love nor your marrige.I hope this boy would find out instead of sinking in love with his high school sweetheart.

i dont know where to begin with this but no mater how you look at it is and was wrong