I don't cry because I want him back, I cry because...

i am sorry for the pain you are feeling but its okay to feel hurt and angry ,with matters of the heart you invest alot and when that is wounded it can hurt so bad.mourn over the loss,wasted time and all then restart your life stronger and take your time before jumping into a new relationship,your heart needs time.

If he did it many times I think it's his choice to hurt you. Why he betrayed you many times if he still want you. Move forward, and move on. Don't waste your time to him. You will find somebody that deserve of your love.

I think i know what you mean in here, and I fully support you on this. I am happy for you that you are already firm with the decision that you are not accepting him in your life again. Yes it is true that this person is your husband but in reality he did not even think of you as his wife when he hurt you and destroyed your family. You are hurting now, but remember that you will be over it soon again, it takes time actually for this to heal, but be strong and know that you will forever be happier with the decision not to give him a chance to hurt you again. =)

Hi there RayneJasper! I am sorry to hear that. I know that it is easier said than done when one tells you to stay strong for your child. I am praying that you will be able to emerge from this experience as a stronger and wiser person. Do not forget to pray whenever you are feeling down and to spend time with people that you love and who loves you back, especially your child and your family. It is good that there will be a closure for the situation though, I believe it will help you to move on easier.

No he doesn't deserve a tear but you do. Crying is a good release and from what you said sounds like you have several years of frustration and betrayal to get out of your system. Think of it as cleansing yourself from all the pain and misery he put you through. Happy for you that you can refocus your life. It's not easy when you get used to having another person around, no matter how bad they treat you.

I understand how you feel, crying is a good way to release all the pains and stress that your experiencing right now. This is a very hard especially you have a child but you need to be strong for yourself and for your daughter. She might can not understand the full situation but she knew that's something is wrong in the family and she needs you most of the time. Crying and pains are only temporary when the wounds in your hearts are still fresh but sooner it will heal and you will happy again.

I just responded to your earlier discussion by knowing NOTHING about your earlier discussions and the background. Move upon with right decisions and as long as you are determined, I still tell you that go for a separation and ask him to give the compensation through the court of law and expenses for your child. Now-a-days, it is a fun for boys to do such things and they are really not understanding the pain of others. They really need to suffer from by doing such things and here in our place the women get adequate support and many people are giving compensation for the rest of life and on a monthly basis to the seprated women or if having children, they have to pay for it, if the case is genuine and proved as true and the women is innocent.

You are human, it is natural for you to cry when you are hurt. Don't hate yourself for it. Like you said, in time, you will feel better.

Hi Rayne ! You said it very correctly , 'he doesn't deserved a tear ! Dust off yourself then fly again. The sky is so wide , all of us have a space there ! Things happened because it wasn't really meant to be be. God took some people in your life because He planned someone best for you . Enough for those tears and pain because you deserved all the happiness and peace in this world. That is a real woman , knows how to rise after each fall , that's what matter most there ! Each of us have pieces of failures and this is but normal for us to grow a better person , because no such thing as mistakes in life but only lessons learnt ! Go for that goal , have owned life and focus and nurture your baby . The baby will be your guide in the road that you will be traveling ... Sail on !!!!!!!