are you quick to judge?
By cherigucchi
@cherigucchi (14876)
Philippines
March 12, 2013 10:27pm CST
Humans are humans. We all have our flaws and imperfections. We are sometimes caught in a situation when you put judgement to people without even knowing the whole side of the story.
I am sometimes caught in the crossfire of misjudging people but I am also quick to admit mistakes if I did. And if ever there is a chance of correcting them, no matter how difficult it maybe, I am willing to correct those mistakes no matter how uncomfortable the situation is.
What about you myLotters, have you ever done that? Have you ever felt sorry about it if you ever did?
7 responses
@cherigucchi (14876)
• Philippines
13 Mar 13
tHAT is a very wise thing to do. However there are just people around who never seems to accept their own mistakes and stand firmly even if they do know that they did commit mistakes. They seem to care less and show no remorse...
@doroffee (4222)
• Hungary
13 Mar 13
I tend to judge, I'm not going to lie. Mostly because in today's world it is necessary, especially as a vulnerable young girl. You never know who's gonna attack you, so I steer clear from every single person who seems just a tad bit shady. But apart from shadiness, I don't usually judge people that much, unless they dress really distinctively. Like if I see a girl who wears clothing that is barely covering anything, I'm not going to think that she's had really high education and class...
@julyteen (13252)
• Davao, Philippines
13 Mar 13
No, I'm not that kind of person. I always let people show what they are and never mind what they do as long as they won't hurt me. I don't know why I act like this, I never say anything to people around. Beware, don't tell me anything also. I will kill you if you will judge me.
@mohkanari (1957)
• India
13 Mar 13
In my opinion, we are getting only some or more parts of reality before judging others actions or about others nature. Even our view can change as time passes. So misjudings are often in life. As a human we can try to correct it and has to correct it.
@roshigo58 (4859)
• Pune, India
13 Mar 13
Hi,
You are right. Sometimes we judge people without thinking and reach to the decision quickly. Then we came to know that our judgement is wrong. We feel very sorry for that. Everyone makes mistakes.We should give chance to improve others. we should ask for forgiveness and accept our faults and we should forget and forgive others mistakes.
@srisahara (4508)
• Indonesia
13 Mar 13
I am a moderate person, so I never judge someone quickly before learn more about him or her. Because it is unfair foe her/him, while i never know who she is in actually. if you have been done it, don't worry you have some chance to change your mind and more be careful when give a value to someone around you.
@Iriene88 (5343)
• Malaysia
13 Mar 13
I remembered that we should not judge as no one is perfect.
However, when certain situation are too much, we tend to
step in and take sides, judging etc. However, we should first
understand the situations in a full picture, looking from the other
party angle, things will be different. So, let us not judge but to
sincerely help in any situations for the good of all.
