Getting lost in a foreign country

@Porcospino (31366)
Denmark
March 20, 2013 1:59pm CST
Some years before husband and I became a couple my husband travelled around in the Southern part of Norway. He travelled on his own and one day he decided to go for a long walk in the area near the village where he stayed. He thought that it would be easy to get back to the village because there were signs on the trees. Those signs showed the route, or they were supposed to show the route, but there had been a storm in the area and a lot of trees had fallen down. Because of the fallen trees many of the signs were missing and it was very hard to follow the route back to the village. Fortunately he managed to find way the back in the end, but he was very scared because he was alone in the area and there was no one that he could ask for help. Did you ever get lost in a foreign country? What happened and how did you find the way back?
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@blackrusty (3519)
• Mexico
21 Mar 13
I now live in a foreign country and even more I don't speak Spanish at first I had some one with me but now I am alone for 2 months to fend for my self till I got a room mate I still to this day don't go out looking and I have been here now 10 months
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@Porcospino (31366)
• Denmark
29 Mar 13
I read the discussion that you started about your room mate who is going to move out. I hope that you will able to find a solution so that you don't get homeless. I can relate to thing you wrote about Spanish, because I have also lived in another country where I didn't speak the local language, and that was a challenge.
• Mexico
29 Mar 13
I* am sure that I will be fine
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• Greece
21 Mar 13
We had a visitor once who was determined to walk part of the way home to our house because he felt in need of the exercise. It was a 20 minute walk but he never made it. When it began to get dark we went hunting for him but he was nowhere to be seen. Eventually a truck brought him home - he had arrived at a church and was having a drink of water there. He only knew one word in Greek (which is where we live) and that was my husband's surname, so that was all he could say to his rescuer. Fortunately the person who brought him home knew my husband's name and where he lived.
@Porcospino (31366)
• Denmark
29 Mar 13
It must have been scary for him to get lost in Greece without speaking Greek. If you speak the local language you can ask for directions, but if you don't speak the language it can be much more challenging to find the way back. It was very fortunate that the person who rescued him knew who your husband was. I also got lost in Greece some years ago. I thought that it would be easy to find the way from the train station to my hotel, but it wasn't easy at all because I was unable to read the signs in Greek and I couldn't use my map. In Bulgaria I had the same problem because they use the Cyrillic alphabet instead of the Latin alphabet.
@thesids (22180)
• Bhubaneswar, India
21 Mar 13
Hi Porcospino If you are confined to a different country, well, I havent been to any country but have traveled extensively here in India and this (finding myself lost) has happened quite a few times with me. The easiest I found was to ask the local people there. Well, I traveled a lot during the early 1990s and as such we had no mobile phones or those GPRS things. And finding a road atlas (map) of each new place was difficult just because we at that time had not much knowledge of the existence of such maps. Today, technology has made it easier at many places. And if you have a good handset and are lucky that the GPRS works, I guess finding a way back would not be much difficult. But the times you mention of... technology fails many such times and makes things more complicated. So I would still vouch asking the locals would always be a better idea.
@Porcospino (31366)
• Denmark
24 Mar 13
I think that it is a good idea to ask the locals for help if we get lost. On the other hand it depends on the local language. Sometimes it is hard to communicate with the locals if we don't speak their language. I experienced that situation when I was in Laos last year. My husband and I wanted to visit a flea market and one the way to the market we got lost. We tried to ask the locals, but they didn't speak English, and we didn't speak the local language so we couldn't communuicate with them and we had to find the way on the flea market on our own. Yes, today technology has made many things easier. Sometimes when technology fails we have to find a different way to get back, and if we ask the locals we don't hsve to depend completely on the technology.
@jricky1 (6800)
• China
21 Mar 13
It's not cool to experience this and i feel so scared when i get lost here in the country.I try not to go alone in the night or some quiet places,a little dangerous to see.So i never happened to meet this and don't hope to see it happen to me.Thank god that your husband found the way back.
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@Porcospino (31366)
• Denmark
24 Mar 13
Yes, I am very happy that my husband managed to find the way back. It must have been a scary situation for him when he wasn't able to see the signs on the trees and didn't know which way to walk. I would have been scared in that situation especially because he was in a desolate area where he wasn't able to ask anyone for directions. I am happy to hear that you have been able to avoid that situation and I hope that you are going to avoid that kind of things in the future as well. I love to travel and I love to explore new area, but I don't like to get lost in a foreign country, so I always bring a map.
@Raine38 (12391)
• United States
20 Mar 13
Once I got lost in Thailand. My husband was assigned there for a while for work, and I visited him for a month long vacation. While he's at work, I decided to go to a flea market. It's only about 15 minutes walk away frm our villa and I have been there with my husband before. This time, it looks so different because the signs have been moved due to a festival and some stalls were erected which confides me even more. What's even more challenging is the signs are in Thai script and they speak little to none of English. I ended up calling my husband and asking him to pick me up. I just sat on one of the benches there waiting for him.
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@Porcospino (31366)
• Denmark
21 Mar 13
I can imagine how different everything looked when the signs had been moved, and signs in Thai aren't useful when you don't speak the language. It is good thing that you were able to call your husband and ask him to pick you up. The thing you wrote about the signs that had been moved reminded me of an experience I had in Poland some years ago. I didn't have a map so I looked at the buildings and other things and I tried to memorize the streets. At one corner there was a yellow tent and I knew that I had to turn left when I came to the street with the yellow tent. I didn't realize that it wasn't a permanent tent. When I got back the tent was gone and I couldn't find the right street....
@spicymary (558)
• Romania
20 Mar 13
I never get lost in such a dangerous way. But there were times when I didn't remembered the way back, in my country and also in foreign countries. I remember I was sometimes in a place in Greece. I started to walk on the streets and I didn't managed to return to my hotel. I wasn't alone there, but I didn't had roaming, so I couldn't call my friends. The only major reference point I knew, was the church. I asked some guys where is the church, and they answer me "Do you want to get married so late in the night?". It was kind of late, and I didn't saw anybody else on that marginal streets, besides of them. And they refused to tell me any guidance. It was a little scary... But I walked more and I finally found that church and familiar places.
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@Porcospino (31366)
• Denmark
21 Mar 13
I can relate to that. I also got lost in Greece late at night. I tried to ask for directions, but I couldn't find anyone who spoke English. Eventually I found the way back to my hotel and I was very relieved. I wasn't alone, my husband was there as well, but he didn't speak Greek either. I would also have found your situation scary. It is not nice to be lost in a foreign country where the people you meet refuse to guide you to your destination. I am happy to hear that you managed to find the church on your own.
@lelin1123 (15595)
• Puerto Rico
20 Mar 13
First of all I would never go to a foreign country alone under any ciccumstances. So thankfully this has or will never happen to me. It is extremely dangerous to visit a foreign country by yourself especially in today's world. When I go shopping with my hubby at the mall and we separate to go do our own shopping when I can't find him I get crazy. I can't imagine being in a foreign country alone and getting lost. I think more men would wonder for a walk alone in a foreign country before a female would alone.
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@Porcospino (31366)
• Denmark
20 Mar 13
I also think that men are more likely go for a walk alone in a foreign country. As a woman I wouldn't have done the same thing as my husband did because I would be a vulnerable situation if I walked around alone in desolate area in a foreign country. Men are not quite as vulnarable as women but it can still be a scary experience to get lost in a foreign country like my husband did in Norway. It is easy for me understand how scared he was in that situation. I would panic if I wasn't able to find the way back. I have been lost in foreign cities sometimes, but that is not quite as scary because there are people that you can ask for directions. In a desolate area where there are no other people that option doesn't exist.
@doroffee (4222)
• Hungary
20 Mar 13
I've never got lost in a foreign country... it would be pretty scary for me, though, because everytime I feel I'm lost, I freak out a bit. I think now it's a bit easier with GPS in cell phones. I never really go alone anywhere in foreign countries, though, because I'm notorious for my lack of orientation :D (even in my home city I go everywhere with a map, just in case :D).
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@Porcospino (31366)
• Denmark
20 Mar 13
I thought I was the only person who did that (walked around with a map in my own city) My sense of direction is SO bad and I grew up in a large city so I always carried a map in bag just in case. One time my date was going to drive me home and he asked me which way he was supposed to drive. I had to check it on the map and he couldn't stop laughing. He thought that it was so funny that I needed a map in my own city I love to travel and I love to visit other places, but I always buy a map and check it carefully before I start walking around in new area.