Surgery - a fearful prospect.

@MsTickle (25180)
Australia
March 20, 2013 5:01pm CST
I'm to have my gall bladder removed in 3 months time. I saw the surgeon yesterday. After listening to what he had to say and reading the forms I have to fill out for consent to the procedure and any transfusions or medications that may be needed, I'm really scared at the thought of this surgery.
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@GardenGerty (160883)
• United States
21 Mar 13
Are they able to do it laparascopically? I know many people who have had this surgery, and I hope you will be fine. You may have to fine tune your diet afterwards, most the people I know have definitely reduced their fat intake. I have two nieces and a sister who had this done. Also my mother and my dad's mother had to have their gall bladders removed. If it helps, be sure to come here to talk about your worries. They always have to prepare you for a worse case scenario.
@MsTickle (25180)
• Australia
21 Mar 13
I do still eat a little bit of fatty food but I have cut most of it, probably about 95% of it out. Yeah, the surgeon did tell me that - I'm guessing that they will send me to a dietician or nutritionist as part of my recovery. They are very proactive at getting patients to be proactive these days in our health industry.
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@wolfie34 (26771)
• United Kingdom
20 Mar 13
Hello my dear friend, so basically you will be playing the waiting game, 3 months is an awful long time to think about it, it's like you will be putting your life on hold until it's over. If it was me I'd want to get it done straight away and out the way, so I can put it behind me, but that would be in an ideal world, it's never that easy or simple is it? Sending you a hug.
@MsTickle (25180)
• Australia
20 Mar 13
Hi sweetie, it took 3 months before I was able to get an appointment with the surgeon. Between 5 - 10 minutes and I'm down $108. I'd rather wait in this instance because I'm having an overseas holiday with my elder daughter soon.
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
21 Mar 13
hi MsTickle I was in my seventies when I had mine out and really its not scary at all. you can go home the same day of surgery if you have someone at home to be with You.It is called band aid surgery as its done with a small incision and a camera is inserted and your gallbladder is cut out and you are then clipped shut with three clips and a band aide .You will be able to go about your daily life in one week. Its just really simple so do not be afraid at all.
@MsTickle (25180)
• Australia
21 Mar 13
How strange. I was told that if I have the keyhole surgery, I will be in hospital for three days. That's what the surgeon said. I've spoken to two other women who have had the keyhole surgery and they said it was a very painful recovery and that I would need someone to drive me home from the hospital and I would also need the district nurse to call in from time to time. The surgeon told me that there was a chance that they could not get to the gall bladder with the amount of fat I have which would mean a large incision and a longer stay in hospital.
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@MsTickle (25180)
• Australia
21 Mar 13
Hi Hatley, Is your hernia an inguinal repair or an umbilical? Mine was a major inguinal repair and I was under for longer than the surgeon thought I would be. They use this amazing mesh that is sort of a plastic metal or a metal plastic if you get what I mean. The rupture is cut away or repaired if there is a rupture and the mesh, it's pliable, is attached to the area bringing everything together. What eventually happens is the scar tissue forms over the mesh and it becomes a part of you. Fascinating really. It takes a 6 week recovery period and you can do absolutely nothing for the first part of it. Recovery was hard as I was on my own. The key hole option makes everything much simpler. I hope that is all you need.
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@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
20 Mar 13
The surgery will go amazingly well, and you will recover in record time.
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@MsTickle (25180)
• Australia
20 Mar 13
May I borrow that and use it as my mantra please?
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@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
20 Mar 13
Absolutely!!!
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@missybear (11391)
• United States
21 Mar 13
I'm scared of any kind of surgery and don't even like to go to the doctor but I know a couple people who had their gallbladder out and they said it was a piece of cake, i hope all goes well which it will and i know if it was me I be scared too no matter what people told me.
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@MsTickle (25180)
• Australia
21 Mar 13
Hi missybear...yeah, even reading this discussion has my gut clenching. I don't know why I'm so fearful but I am...wish I wasn't.
@MsTickle (25180)
• Australia
24 Mar 13
Thanks Scott!
@missybear (11391)
• United States
22 Mar 13
Scott had it done too and he said it was nothing to worry about,
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@Janey1966 (24170)
• Carlisle, England
20 Mar 13
I feel for you as you have time to think about what's going to happen whereas I don't as regards my ablation..only a week to go until my surgery. Don't worry though..you'll be fine. I wouldn't have it any other way my friend. We're all routing for you!
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@MsTickle (25180)
• Australia
21 Mar 13
Sorry Janey, I don't know how I missed this. Good luck to you, I'm sure you'll sail through. We'll be thinking of you. Gosh, only a week, my gut is clenching as I type. At least I get to go overseas for a holiday between now and then. Best wishes to you.
@Janey1966 (24170)
• Carlisle, England
21 Mar 13
Do you rely on email notifications like I do? They're a hit and miss affair my friend. I'll be OK I'm sure. John's bought me some flowers to cheer me up which was very sweet of him, I must say. Where are you going on your hols? I'd love a holiday abroad..somewhere warm, preferably. Anywhere is warmer than here at the moment!
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@MsTickle (25180)
• Australia
4 Apr 13
Yes, I rely on notifications also and I did not get this one either. Luckily, I received a notification for one of the new response below and found this one of yours. Hope you are recuperating well. Don't do too much now. I'm going to Vietnam for about 10 days. Still waiting for my passport and need to obtain a visa still and running out of time. All the tricky details where I'm waiting on other people are taking longer than they should. I'm keeping busy though. Polished a section of my wooden floors this morning and I'm about to put some privacy film in lieu of curtains on one of the kitchen windows. I'm having my kitchen redone while I'm away...new walls and all.
@Thoroughrob (11742)
• United States
21 Mar 13
It always makes us apprehensive when it is us. It is relatively an easy surgery, most of the time. Are they doing the laproscopic or are you going to need the bigger surgery?
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@MsTickle (25180)
• Australia
21 Mar 13
They will attempt to do the key hole but with the extra weight I'm carrying there is a chance they may not be able to get to it and so they will have to make a fairly long incision which will increase my hospital stay due to more recovery time needed. Normally, I'm OK with any type of procedure but this time I'm quite scared whenever I think about the risks.
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@thesids (22180)
• Bhubaneswar, India
21 Mar 13
Dear MsTickle If you remember, a few months back I had a discussion wherein I had said that Gll Bladder surgery was recommended to me too and I too was asked to have it done in 3 months time. I have not much funds for any such surgery and as such I kept consulting doctors. One of them gave me some medicines and the good news today is that I dont need any surgery. Though the stones have not gone away completely, their sizes are reduced and also the pain which was regular and unbearable those days, is gone now. In India the medicine is named UDHEP. Maybe you can ask your doctors about the ways to remove the stones. And I should also tell you, you should take more of apples and try consulting Homeopathy Doctors. They too have some medicines with them which will help.
@MsTickle (25180)
• Australia
21 Mar 13
Thanks thesids, my doctor is Indian and he has not made any such recommendations, he just quickly wrote the letter to the surgeon and that was it. Also, I live far from anything so the chance of finding a homeopathic practitioner is not something I'm likely to chance upon. But thanks for the suggestions.
@SIMPLYD (90721)
• Philippines
21 Mar 13
Don't be, because my mother and father-in-law both had it already. They were already old yet they survived it because it's now a common surgery to the surgeons. What is important is to address permanently your problem with the gall bladder. You will be fine, just pray for it.
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@MsTickle (25180)
• Australia
21 Mar 13
Thanks for your kind words and thoughts.
• United States
25 Mar 13
Those forms do tend to scare people, but it's mainly to cover their butts. You are giving them informed consent. I had to have emergency gallbladder surgery. It was rotten inside of me and turning into gangrene. I was in ICU for 5 days, but I did fine once they got the infection out of me. I'd been sick for over a year with no obvious cause. Then it hit me all at once like a ton of bricks in August. Any time you are put to sleep it is potentially dangerous. It was a relief to have mine out. I'm not sick anymore.
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@MsTickle (25180)
• Australia
25 Mar 13
Hi PQ, I'm rarely ill fortunately. What my big thing is pain. Pain in joints and muscles and anything else that can ache. I know it's not all about my joints and muscles but I don't know what else is wrong...I'm sure there is something though, or a list of things because I'm not losing any more weight in spite of cutting right back, eating the right things and exercising.
@RitterSport (2451)
• Lippstadt, Germany
31 Mar 13
Dear MsTickle, I should also have that gall bladder removed and wanted it to be done around now but my husbands health comes first and as long as he isnt out of the hospital I wont have the chance to have that nasty gall bladder removed. I think that today thats routine surgery so I am not afraid at all. Please let us know how things turn out for you and the exact date of the surgery. Will keep you in my thoughts then for sure.
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@MsTickle (25180)
• Australia
4 Apr 13
It can cause severe complications if you neglect to have it removed my friend so don't leave it for too long...please. I'm not afraid if I don't think about it. I also don't mind having a holiday in hospital as that's how I think about it. I'll be sure to let you know about the date when I get it.
• Lippstadt, Germany
7 Apr 13
hi dear MsTickle, its not as bad with me. In fact my doctor would not even have known had I not told him about these pains which come and go. He did an ultrasound and said there are some concrements in the gall bladder so if I want it out so be it. I just got to wait now cause husband is in hospital and needs to be well first before I can get that taken care of.
@blackrusty (3519)
• Mexico
21 Mar 13
I would not worry to much this is a common surgery and every thing should be just fine you have plenty of time to read up on every thing you need to know about it and hope you a great recovery
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@MsTickle (25180)
• Australia
24 Mar 13
Oh no, I'll take the meds thanks. I'm not much into taking pills but if the doc thinks I should then I definitely will!
@MsTickle (25180)
• Australia
21 Mar 13
Oh thank you blackrusty. I'm afraid though that all the reading I'm doing is the problem. Since I did my phlebotomy course, the thought of invasive procedures has me well and truly rattled, whether it's me doing them or receiving them. I'm sure everything will be fine but I've become a scaredy cat.
• Mexico
21 Mar 13
well I should have been more clear look at things for faster recovery things that you can do other then the meds
@srisahara (4508)
• Indonesia
21 Mar 13
Hi friend, each people who never take a surgery in her life often scare with the process. I know what you feel. But it is a good idea if you focus to get your health better than image the surgery process. your health is very important not only for yourself but for your family too and some people you love. Don't worry it is not a scare action, but it is the only way to make you healthy. Come down and focus to your health friend...
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@MsTickle (25180)
• Australia
21 Mar 13
Thanks for your kind words and suggestions srisahara. I will try hard to do as you say. I've had several surgeries through my life and I'm usually fine. I guess I'm more aware of my mortality at my age. Welcome to myLot.
21 Mar 13
my boyfriend has also done this. currently he doesn't have a gall bladder. it is because he always eats fatty foods. in age of 23 he had a surgery removing his gall bladder. now he is 26 and still doing good. he is on board. because he is a seaman. but now I always remind him not to eat fatty foods again. to avoid much worst health case. for you the surgery will be good. though you lost a part of your body.you can still live happy.just keep a healthy diet and lifestyle
@MsTickle (25180)
• Australia
21 Mar 13
Hello elyhilaria and a warm welcome to myLot. I try not to eat fatty food and I don't as a rule but sometimes I fail. I hope my diet will improve even more after my operation.
@GreenMoo (11833)
21 Mar 13
I can't blame you for being scared. The surgeon has to tell you all the worst case scenarios after all. But I'm sure there's a very good reason for the surgery, and that's what you'll need to focus on.
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@MsTickle (25180)
• Australia
21 Mar 13
I was having a little daydream today that the removal of my gall bladder made the rest of my body start to function properly and I lost all the extra weight I'm carrying round which I've been unable to shift. That would be so great. Can I focus on that??
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@kprofgames (3091)
• United States
24 Mar 13
I had my gall bladder removed and felt like a new woman! The sick feeling every time ate anything was just gone. It was very liberating! Was apprehensive about it but when it was done felt amazing. It really is a quick procedure and the recovery time wasn't what thought was going to be.
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@MsTickle (25180)
• Australia
24 Mar 13
Hello, I'm hoping the surgery will take care of a lot of my pain. I feel like I have a lot of junk collecting inside me and slowing me down and making me ache and groan. The results of the ultrasound proved I'm right as the gall bladder has lots of small stones and sludge and the liver itself is enlarged. I don't have the same symptoms as you when I eat though...it's still one of my favourite things to do dammit!
@bounce58 (17385)
• Canada
3 Apr 13
Any kind of surgery IS alway scary. I haven't had any serious one, only an appendectomy years ago. Still I can distinctly remember as I was counting backwards from 100, and slowly losing consciousness how very afraid I was. I hope that this procedure goes over quick and without any complications for you!
@Cutie18f (9546)
• Philippines
21 Mar 13
There is another way of removing gall stones. It's by laser I think. A friend of mine underwent this and there was no surgery. There was only a small opening, as small as a needle's hole and that's it. You inquire about it. I am also scared of that kind of surgery that opens our body with a knife. That's scary.
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@MsTickle (25180)
• Australia
21 Mar 13
I thought there was a procedure whereby they went in through a small hole and blasted the stones into fine pieces but apparently that's not the case according to my doctor. I'm hoping they let me have the stones as I once read about a lady who made a necklace out of hers. I make jewellery too so I might give it a try as well.
@chum24 (569)
• Philippines
21 Mar 13
hi... when we talked about surgery it sounds scared and fearful it is normal reaction in your body. just go on with the procedure i know the doctor will better. goodluck
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@MsTickle (25180)
• Australia
21 Mar 13
Hi chum... You make it sound so simple. I think I will try to do that too. Cheers.
• China
21 Mar 13
Relax out of the sun, to the top of the hill to feel the natural atmosphere.
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@MsTickle (25180)
• Australia
21 Mar 13
Hi huhonghai and welcome to myLot. There's no sun here today as it's raining but there are no hills either as I live on the plains. How do I stay out of the sun at the top of a hill when it's not raining...aren't I likely to be standing in full sunshine??