People who pretend that they are your friend,

I can feel ur anger. Those people especially girls, r so mean in life. I hate them too. When I was in my previous company, there was a girl who always pretends to be my friend in front of the whole company, even the colleagues thought we were so good together. But actually, she just took advantage of me to help her in front of the BOSS. So hypocritical! I wish I never would have met her.

It is common. They are opportunist. They want you because they want something from you. If you are useless, they will leave you without any words

Well, sadly.. especially for those who have tons of friends.. some of them may not be real friends. I only have a few really close friends, and among them, there are even fewer that i can really count on. But at least, they are still real friends, i try to stay away from the fake ones..

i actually met a few people who been like that to me,they showing that they are my real friend but later on they will show what they are real color and real intention and you will find it out that they are only using you for benefits actually they are many now a days.

Sure, there are so many kinds of those friends around. they walk with us, talk with us, eat with us..etc almost everyday of our lives. There are even those who capitalize on the word of friendship so they can get something from us. The problem is, we cannot actually see their intentions right away. we trust them because we need to and time will tell us whether we have to keep them or stay away from them...

Friendship is not about staying together, hanging out together and sharing all the fun. It's about respecting each other's individuality and helping when needed and also advising if some one's going wrong. A word of abuse to correct the other is also good in friendship.

Pretending friends are those people who are attention seekers. It is fine with me to have a friend or two but true to me and they're not pretending in all aspects. That kind of attitude is not good to bring out the society especially to my circle of friends. I am a friendly person and true to a friend. :)

Some people are great pretenders. LOL. We should be wise enough to know their true colors. We should not trust them 100%. We should not tell them everything about us. We should keep a gap between us. That way, they can't do their evil intentions.

I have know such people a long time ago and its a good thing that we dont have any communications now because they were so stupid. I really hate those people who are so untrue with their selves as well as the people around them.

That is one reason why it is hard to put trust on people nowadays. Some would just use you and not think of what the repercussions are. So, even if we wouldn't want to be choosy on friends, we have to be always on guard whom to be close to.

i feel really sorry for those people who've been hit by this pretenders. Well that's why we have to differentiate acquaintances from friends. Better yet, we should always be aware that knowing someone doesn't means that you must trust them in a snap of time.

The people who pretend are always losers. They gain nothing in life and at the end of the day they are left alone with none to help them in their dark times. A friend is some one who is always there for you through thick and thin but these people lose everyone because they play with the feelings of others. Actually they are playing with themselves and losing the jewels.

i hate this kind of people too.. who pretend that they are your friends and the end they will left you alone. i have friends like this when i was in my previous company, i should say that i am a good friend to them but when i resigned in the company due to my pregnancy they forget me. they don't even bother sending me sms or email even i see them online they don't bother to send me message to say hi how are you. they snob me.well anyway, i cannot please them if they are like that who wants you because they needed you but at the end of it they will left you.

Me too i already experience that.The worst is that you will be their friend if they need you,All i can say is that dont put your trust directly its better to have a friend who are vocal and frank of what they feel than to have a friend who always say yes but then when you are behind at them they will bring you down..

we cannot always know the intention of people around us... but we can always try to be careful regardless who the person is from - someone we know from school, or from the workplace. I have had an early experience with people like this and its been happening all the time, i guess i am not too lucky when it comes to finding a good friend. This is probably why i have never been close with someone and i have many acquaintances. People have their reasons for being with you, a friend to you - some because it is convenient to be with you as a friend since you are in the same workplace... some just as you say needs something from you. whatever reasons are, always just be careful and not to give out too much of yourself.