Do you shout when you are angry?

India
March 22, 2013 2:47am CST
Do you shout when you are angry? what I have seen is nearly all of people get mad and start talking loader while they get angry? How do you behave and talk when you are angry?
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38 responses
@Iriene88 (5343)
• Malaysia
22 Mar 13
Yes, I will just scream at the top of my voice. I did not bother what the people around me will be thinking. The anger has taken over me. This is totally not advisable, not healthy especially in front of elderly and children. I must manage my anger.
@Iriene88 (5343)
• Malaysia
22 Mar 13
Hahaha.... loud enough that the neighbor can hear.
• India
22 Mar 13
scary.....
• India
22 Mar 13
how loud do you shout?
@bellis716 (4799)
• United States
24 Mar 13
I tend to raise my voice when I get angry. I'm trying to learn not to do this. However, my husband is loosing his hearing and won't admit it. Therefore, I have to raise my voice but keep the anger out of it. Sometimes that is difficult.
@bellis716 (4799)
• United States
25 Mar 13
You described me when I was a young married person. My parents never raised their voices at one another, so I didn't know how to act when my husband hollered at me.
• India
24 Mar 13
I can not raise my voice on my husband at all because he is terrible when he get angry and I am just quiet and cry.
@celticeagle (165948)
• Boise, Idaho
23 Mar 13
It depends on how passionate I am about the situation. I can just shake my head and walk away if it isn't too big a deal. Or at the other end of the spectrum I could scream and yell. What I am feeling, how stupid the person is for not seeing it, etc. I am Irish so I can get pretty upset. Depends on how idiotic the situation is.
@celticeagle (165948)
• Boise, Idaho
24 Mar 13
It is a good intimidation ploy.
• India
24 Mar 13
I am too much afraid when I see somebody shouts and yells.
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@dismalgrin (2604)
• United States
24 Mar 13
I cry when I get angry, which is frausterating because many people take that as a sign of weakness and think they have me cowed because I'm crying. So, they just dig whatever nail they dug to make me mad deeper and then wonder when I become a little *ahem* violent on them. I think more people should learn to recognize that anger is expressed in many ways and take some responsibility for making people angry in the first place, rather than getting upset and acting blindsided when they push someone in a corner and that person fights back.
• United States
24 Mar 13
I'mglad to know I'm not the only one!
• India
24 Mar 13
I cry too when I am angry and I can not do anything on that for my anger.
@zaugis (81)
• Lithuania
23 Mar 13
It all depends on your mood, preparation for the day, resting against it. I try to watch it from the positive side, in addition to well understand how humiliate themselves shouting, screaming at other person. This is your emotions, intemperance. At this time you are at fault and continue unfolded chains of negative sequence. You degrade yourself when shouting. I change the topic of conversation, or to retreat to another location. Me do not need negative emotions. Do not need it, and to another person. A little time and everything resolves smile. What's moreover, grew into a major positive emotions flooded and a good laugh out of myself.
@zaugis (81)
• Lithuania
24 Mar 13
It was, I left meaningless disputes and in this way - Pretend that you do not understand ... It is also true that withdrew from the negative talk with little acquaintance of the person you will meet more than once. You will be perceived as an idiot. but, it is better so than conflicting with the real idiot, and spoiling your heart. Your actions and activities surrounding people understand. Someday it will become clear and the conflicting in person's. As he would do - his will. However, what he would repent - it really is. Have a nice day ;)
• India
24 Mar 13
that is a great way , thank you for sharing.
@jkct02 (2874)
• Kota Kinabalu, Malaysia
23 Mar 13
It is not a good idea to let your emotion rule ove - It is not a good idea to let your emotion rule over you in public places.
I may talk louder when I am angry but I have never shouted. I am very emotional and sensitive but I am good in not showing what I feel publicly. I feel that it is a weakness to let your feelings show uncontrollably in all situations. When we are with our own friends and family, it is okay to express ourselves freely but when it is in work or in public places, to lose control over one's self may not be a very good idea.
@jkct02 (2874)
• Kota Kinabalu, Malaysia
23 Mar 13
Yes, it is not easy especially for people who always react to what other people say. But it can be practiced and learned. It is smart to stay calm and lay low in unfavorable situations. To express the anger inside but to get hurt in return? There are better ways to do that.
• India
23 Mar 13
having control on emotions is difficult
@sylvia13 (1850)
• Nelson Bay, Australia
23 Mar 13
When I am angry it is more likely that I will be quiet instead of shouting or speaking louder!
• India
23 Mar 13
that is the great way!
@julyteen (13252)
• Davao, Philippines
23 Mar 13
It depends on the situation. Mostly I will relax and keep away myself to the people cause my hyper rise. I don't want to face another problem because of my temper and resulted to shouting somebody
• India
23 Mar 13
I like those who are relax and cool. some people are really do not get angry easily.
@julyteen (13252)
• Davao, Philippines
23 Mar 13
It depends on the situation but mostly I am not easily get angry
@jambi462 (4576)
• United States
23 Mar 13
I don't like getting angry and I try to avoid it at all costs. Usually the only times I get truly angry are when I'm at work and we are so busy that I don't even have time to think straight or do anything. It's just a really frustrating situation when you are just continually getting buried in your work to the point where you are helpless to get on top of things.
• India
23 Mar 13
yes, in that kind of situation, I get angry easily.
@ctrlor (76)
• China
23 Mar 13
for man, sometimes use loud voice, maybe fight for lady, always keep quiet or go away.
@ctrlor (76)
• China
23 Mar 13
shout? just at singing . haha
• India
23 Mar 13
@JamesKYTan (1605)
• Malaysia
24 Mar 13
We shout when we are angry. This is natural for human behavior.This shows human has emotions. When we are happy we are calm. We only shout when the other party cannot hear. This is not human emotion. An angry man always shout. Can you show me an angry who is calm and does not shout? I can't. Can't you?
• India
24 Mar 13
@adnileb (5276)
• Philippines
23 Mar 13
I do and it's a shame. Most especially when I am very angry, I shout AND want to throw things everywhere. I hate it when I'm like that but sometimes, I just can't help it. I remember one time, I threw my PSP away, same with my phone. But mostly, I love walking with heavy feet like destroying the floor. I know it's irritating, but I feel so light after doing them.
@adnileb (5276)
• Philippines
24 Mar 13
• India
23 Mar 13
@Manasha (2730)
• Pondicherry, India
23 Mar 13
My personal experience shows that an angry person loses everything in his life. So, we have to be calm and perfect always. However, we have to express our opinion sharply without bursting out. There will not be any solution for the anger person in this world.
• India
23 Mar 13
I do not know what an angry one will lose but I know that to be angry is really bad and basics of all ignorance of human is anger.
@Bluedoll (16773)
• Canada
22 Mar 13
I usually only talk softly unless I am around someone that talks loud and then for some reason I start getting louder. Why is that? Then there are the people that are hard of hearing and want you to speak louder. Only when I've really had enough and reached my limit will I raise my voice to be heard above all others. If I am angry people around me will know this as I will not hide it. After I get attention though, I will explain and lower my voice immediately. It is only right if you expect people to listen and take you seriously.
• India
22 Mar 13
well,, yes, when some already shout if we speak slowly it will not work at all then we have force to loud our voice for them to hear what we say!
@Bluedoll (16773)
• Canada
22 Mar 13
don't really like shouting so tend not to be around people that do. I had a friend that would speak only loudly and in public places it was embarrassing
@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
23 Mar 13
I don't shout but my voice is only raised a bit. But my face would turn red like half cooked prawns.
• India
23 Mar 13
something like this?
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
23 Mar 13
I do shout when I am angry. But I also consider the person and the place to raise my voice. I wouldn't want to make a scene in another place.
• India
23 Mar 13
it is great to consider when to raise the voice and in front of whom..
@Dominique25 (9464)
• United States
22 Mar 13
I try not to shout when I'm upset. Most of the time I can talk in a calm matter about whatever is bothering me. Some people though it seems that they can not talk at all without shouting.
• India
23 Mar 13
yes, some people really are high temper but to be calm while of anger is really great
@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
22 Mar 13
It depends on what and to whom. I don't need to talk much to my children, friends or the dogs. It's enough to look, to say one word or to point (even the dogs respond on that). I like the silence. But I did shout several times last week as I was in Africa. Me and my youngest went over there and we decided not to let us being abused again. Not to feel sorry for all those scammers, so called beggars and bumpsters. As long as you stay friendly (it's nice to be nice) they keep pushing you over the edge, as long as you are willing to pay they keep pushing you, making you pay with a smile no matter if you can afford it or not. So at a certain point someone asked me for 150 (it's just 150) again (after asking the whole day for money/me for paying for ...) it was too much for me. I shouted at him and left with my kids. I think the whole village could hear me but it did make him clear at last he was going to far (before he wanted to force me to pay for his driver's license)! It was a good practise and I only needed to do it (with different people) 2 more times. After that the respect was there and the NO was also clear to them. There are times there is no other option as shouting (pity enough). Especially if people are too blind to see and prefer to be deaf for what you say (and this all with the never ending smile). I am not a walking wallet and 150 means 6 days food for me and my 2 kids, who are my first responsibility. It's good to know now they only respect me if I say NO if necessary shout NO.
• India
23 Mar 13
that is great. I mean I like kind of people like you.
@neelia27 (896)
• Philippines
23 Mar 13
when i am really really angry i cant help but to shout specially when i cant control my son with his naughtiness.. and when he hears me shout he behaves.. i seldom shout so i guest my son is scared when i shout on him.. we are human so shouting is part of being angry..
• India
23 Mar 13
I do also shout on my kid only not anybody else.
@Dias14 (176)
• Indonesia
22 Mar 13
I think everyone shall different in expressing feeling angry. Indeed if rage on imagine do acts that outside sense fikiran. But i think angry was not as that. Can it if you angry, you be quiet, to grumble; loud speaking, breaking things, or whatever. I do if i get angry d better silent until mood really cold, then when it is cold i will talk about it.
• India
23 Mar 13
well that is great way to calm down and talk when we are over anger.