The family that I loved is the family that pushes me to get away from them....

You can not choose your family. If you don't fit together it's the best to respect eachother and go your own way. There is no need to stay and get annoyed by eachother, hate eachother, make eachothers life miserable. And if is comes to your brother: stay out of his relationship with his wife. You will never know what is really going on since you are not her and you are not your brother. Also your brother will be different as brother as he is as a son or a husband or nephew or cousin or neighbour. Your brother has to take care of himself and his own relationship. If he can't do that he has to learn it... sooner or later he will. So will his wife.

Why is your sister-in-law so mean? How about talking to your brother and defend yourself. Tell him that isn't it "Blood is thicker than water?" He shouldn't believe all the things that his wife is saying. He should know you because you are his "SISTER."If not, then, go away from them. If they don't care about you, then you shouldn't not also care about them. Mind your own life then if that's what they want. Maybe your brother will realize his mistake in the future. I hope you can clear yourself to him first before going away. I hope won't cry anymore.

Maybe its time to think of you self, your brother has hes own life and you too, i think its better to move away from them, before you lose your respect to them, you know you can't push your self to love by them. its good that you are a loving and caring person, but love your self also, i'm sure your brother can handle things. Avoid things that's causing you pain and stress, you must enjoy life. You can live without them the fact that they are not the one who give you air to breath.

Oh dear sometimes it is better to live away from your siblings if only to maintain your peace. Once your siblings get their own partners in life it would be really hard to keep the harmony inside the home. So it is always good that a married couple should separate. They should live on their own. But if your brother and his wife can't do that, then I suggest you move and have your own where you can live in peace.

I can only say this from my experience and that is the gap between society and family is getting less as days go by. Sometimes it is better to choose society over family and get your peace.

People start to grow up when they get away from their protections.it's good for you!

So goes the saying "you can choose your friends but you can't choose your family". I don't think a person really every stops loving their family. That is always a special connection no matter what. There does come a time that you spend too much time with them though. Family will always be there but you don't have to spend everyday with them for them to know you care. You have your own life and so do they. Close families are wonderful but everyone needs their space. My oldest daughter lives down the street from me. I don't talk to her everyday, nor do I want too. We are there for each other when we need it but every family needs their own space to be an 'their' family. As for your sister in law. Well, we can't pick those either. Hopefully your brother will come to terms with her and what she does. That is still between them though, even if it effects you - he is the caught in the middle of it. It can't be easy for him either having his wife and sister at odds with each other.

I agree with other responses we can not choose the family that we end up with. There are times when family do not fit together, because of certain things. I see there is a lot going on within your family. I would love them from far away, because if they keep pushing you out then what can you do right? I hope that all works well for you and your family. There are days when I wish we could choose our family haha.

that happens.they are so called bad moments and troubled phase with trembling fear and anxiety,you just need to cry and get over it