No lover is a loser... how true?

Love and relationship are not a game where one is a winner and the other is a loser. When a relation breaks, both people become at one point a loser as they both lose the ones they love. It does not mean you are a loser for a lifetime. Life moves on and so does we. Time will always give us what we need. So be confident, be prepared for the one who will come to your life.

hahaha saying single blessedness is like putting icing on the cake... padding.. it is like sugar coating loneliness of being a single. Although some find it freedom and liberation. I am single... in a relationship status that I am not sure of. Though I like to believe that I am a lover and I have a lover hahaha... but.. told you am not sure ... you are not a loser.. only who thinks that they are losers are truly losers.

Well I never feel like a loser for not having no one in my life, in fact I actually feel I was the loser being in a relationship! I prefer my own company, I don't want anyone in my life to complicate it. I love being single, I wouldn't have it any other way.

To have a partner is well. But no matter if you have not. You are free. You have no binding. You can go everywhere you like. You can talk to anyone you like. But I wish you get a partner and share your joy and sorrows with him.

I think love isn't a superficial one. Magical feelings has nothing to do with love with gravity. I am a single man, but had some unforgettable attachments of love when I liked to live as "Nothing"

When you are single you are a free bird but when you are in partnership,it helps the world to exist.For this you have to have loving forgiving and sacrificing nature,otherwise it is better to stay single.

I am nearly 60 and I have no partner. I have a couple of roommates, but they aren't "partners". I have a fellow I like quite a lot, but he's got issues so that's okay, I don't NEED someone to be happy.

A loser is the person who chooses the wrong person not the one who waits for the right person.

There are just people who, shall we say, narrow-minded. They do not know much so they come to wrong conclusions. I have my partner in life but I do not think that do not have partners are losers. I know some people that function better without partners. I know some too who wait, and while waiting, make the most of it and enjoy life. Have a nice day

I am single and going on 51.I have been single for a very long time! I love it that way! My family probaly think I am a loser because I am single. I am sure they think I might be a lesbian,which I am not! Men are to much trouble! Without men in my life,my life is so much easier! I even live alone! I would not want it any other way!

Some people are just not thinking right, I guess. And those who might have said that actually are more like the losers coz they themselves might not be able to handle being alone themselves.

I am lucky to be me with my husband and raise our children together, but I do understand how being single could be good for people too. I don't think single people are losers but after having kids it is like the single people don't want to hang out with us married with kids anymore.

I to long for that special someone where you feel that spark everytime you touch or apeak. Is that a reality, right now I don not feel that way for anyone. So I have to make due with having friends. Its okay because everyone you meet isn't carved to be that life partner. Or maybe you just take things for face value and enjoy life along the way. No stress.

I think no lover does not mean a loser. Why we should have lover if we do not love her or him, what for? I think it is a cheating when we force ourselves to have lover but we do not love him or her. I also has thoughts like you friend, I feel okay if I have not lover, sometimes I feel blessing, because I can doing everything I want to do, which is there is no person that will prevent me, I feel more independent. do you think so friend?

people always judge you no matter what you do that is my experiences so I try to not give any sh1t to anything that they're talking about me me is my bestfriend

I really don't think no lover is a loser. I've been single for almost four years beofore i got married. i quite miss those old days,i worked hard to get good pay,i studied hard on languages,i've got a lot of freedom to do whatever i like,i enjoy my life so much.to be single is good,no lover means no burden,no worries,no sadness. It's a break for us to prepare well to meet our right one. besides,seriously,i think it's hard to find a true lover,it's better not to fall in relationship if you didnot meet that true one,otherwise,you will get so much hurts.

Yes, I do look like a loser because I haven't been with anybody. Fascinating with that is that anywhere I go, since I'm a kid I found out some boys have crush on me. However, I don't take them seriously so I don't have any serious affair with anybody. I'm very independent and I don't feel up to now the need to depend on a partner for me to feel complete. Others are pushing themselves to you but you have no feelings for them.

I am already happy since years I have a single life. I feel way more happier as I ever was while I still was married and living together. I don't like to take care of an adult that behaves like a baby, is Always demanding, manipulating, spending his own plus my money, never asking what I want (incl. tv), Always the same story with the toilet seat, etc etc. Life is way more relaxing if you can decide about everything yourself. I don't care people see me like a loser, it's better to be a loser and have my freedom as to fit into what society wants and be unhappy and locked up.

Singles are better than in a relationships because they can manage their lives by themselves only. They don't depend their selves to anyone. Besides, being single is fun because you can mingle to anyone.

the truth is that there is still dignity in being single. you are not obligated to anyone that will want to know your every actions, know one is acting as a master over your life, etc. If you have a good course to pursue, this is the right time to do so when you are not encumbered by that relationship thing..cheers