I Am Leaving
By HULYO
@julyteen (13252)
Davao, Philippines
April 1, 2013 5:05am CST
Who followed me last week or several days ago. I was annoyed, frustrated and desperate. Until such time I decided to stop and leave. Who have the guts to do it. More more than 6 years who love the site not because of the earnings but to some special people around.
I have a doubt until now, especially today. All of those who supported me for a couple of months and even years still communicating with me through different discussions? Now, I realize I won't leave my friends just because of one person. I wouldn't compromise my 50 friends to avoid a single person.
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37 responses
@alpha9180 (301)
• Malaysia
1 Apr 13
Well, you more reasons to stay since you have been here for so long. It is not easy to build up the friendship here over six years and are you sure you want to just give up your 50 friends because one that offended you? Do you think it is justified to do so? I believe you will be the looser if you do. The 50 friends are supporting you, will you let them down? I believe you know the answer and you shall stay...
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@sishy7 (27167)
• Australia
1 Apr 13
I've always had the impression that you never really intended to leave for good. It's just more like a long leave of absence. Many users here do that for one reason or another; it's normal to get frustrated or burnt out here enough to make us want to leave, but we can always come back any time we want to...
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@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
1 Apr 13
What?
Just because of one person? duh!!!!
Huh again...
You know my friend I have experienced the same feeling before- but now I know how to play the game...hahahaha...
Yes...laugh it loud....like LOLS!!!
This is MY-LOT and nobody's My-Lot - but for everyone!
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
1 Apr 13
Thanks a lot my friend....I feel the same!
Friends matters the most -and let alone that one person stay out of your way
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@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
1 Apr 13
Yey! That's great news, julyteen! With either Mybro or Globe Tatoo, through thick and thin!
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@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
1 Apr 13
Work should be normal by this week. So I hope you'd hear from them soon.
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@jugsjugs (12967)
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1 Apr 13
I feel that there are lots of people that go out of their way to make other people unhappy, dont let them wear you down to leaving the things that you enjoy.
I feel that there are people in true life that will make us do things that we would not have done with out them making us feel like worthless.
Stay here with us and ignore people that are nasty that can hide behind a screen.
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@rosekiss (30414)
• Eugene, Oregon
1 Apr 13
I would never leave mylot either, not matter what happens, as I do enjoy this site, and if I do take a break for awhile, I am always being drawn to come bac, and I have never regretted doing that whatsoever/ I am not here for the money, either, as I come for the discussions and the fact that i can learn from them, and just have plain fun while doing so. i will admit though, that it was about the money when I first started, but it didn't take long to realize that it was all the fun I have been having that keeps me here most of the time. I am glad you aren't leaving and have decided to stay, as I know you have enjoyed your time here in the past, and I kniow you will continue to do so. Take care, and have a great day.
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@Dominique25 (9464)
• United States
1 Apr 13
Glad to hear that you are going to stay at mylot. Yeah I agree with you we shouldn't let one thing get us down or cause us to be discouraged about our situation. When things get tough we have to think about the positive things in our life and keep going. Keep up the good work.
@redvakaurvaki (4216)
• Indonesia
1 Apr 13
well, I have been off from mylot for some weeks, so I miss your update. nothing to worry, mylot is not for some people and you should not leave this site just for one person. I know you're one of friendly member I've ever met and I want to see you in more discussion
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@cttolledo (5454)
• Legaspi, Philippines
1 Apr 13
I agree. Do not give up your 50 friends just because of 1 .. It's not fair on the part of your friends, they will surely sad when you leave.. Just ignore that one..keep on mylotting!
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@TLilly12 (1229)
• United States
1 Apr 13
I am glad to hear you are not going, to let some one in here cause you to leave Mylot, that will not solve anything by you, leaving because of some one in here, to me that is like the person got control over you, and are telling you what to do.
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@srisahara (4508)
• Indonesia
1 Apr 13
Hi friend, in our life always there is one or more persons that make we annoyed, frustrated and desperate. But I think it just a few and we still found tens good friends among them. It is a good idea if you still here for your 50 friends and no matter with the one person that make you discomfort.
@moneylots87 (521)
• Indonesia
1 Apr 13
Hey julyteen! :)
Sometime social life in the cyber world is annoying, but most of the time, its great! Especially in MyLot, LOT of nice people here, and if I can give my guess, I think 90% of my lot members are really a nice, good and friendly people! :)
I never find in other social network sites, a people like a people in here, and they all are from all over the world too! Yay! :D
Have a nice day! :)
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@ARIES1973 (11426)
• Legaspi, Philippines
1 Apr 13
Wherever you go or whatever organization you joined, whether at work or any other place, there are times that you'll find someone who annoys you for some reasons. And for that reason, there are time that we think of quitting. If you do that, you are the loser, why? First, the person who annoys will be very happy because he succeeded to let you go. Second, you lost other friends along with that someone you find annoying.
Learn to play the game. If you will continue to be affected by that person, most likely, your performance will also be affected because you keep on thinking about him/her.
Cool yourself and continue with your journey.
"Seek first to understand, then to be understood."
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@Angelpink (4034)
• Philippines
1 Apr 13
Exactly friend why sacrifice many for just 1 person !Ones fault can never be a fault of everybody . So it is so unfair to the majority if they will be included in that consequence that you are giving to 1 person. You made the right decision friend !
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@emily7339 (1337)
• Malaysia
1 Apr 13
If you think this is a good site that have hold you for six years, you should not leave just because of one person...So, you have make the right decision, why abandon the 50 friends for the sake of one person. It is not worth your sacrifice, haha!
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