Oftentimes, the word I LOVE YOU is used for deception.
By raynejasper
@raynejasper (2322)
Philippines
April 3, 2013 2:07am CST
hi fellows. 
He said, I Love You, but what he really meant was i like your body. I don't know if how long will it take for me to recover. Right now, when I hear the words I LOVE YOU, i just think of how much pain I've suffered because I believed in those words. For me, those words means deception. How many relationships have I witnessed also that has the same scenario as mine. He said i love you to one girl, then says i love you again to another girl. I just thought that there are still many people who take advantage of those words and just say them without meaning them.
He said, I Love You, but what he really meant was i like your body. I don't know if how long will it take for me to recover. Right now, when I hear the words I LOVE YOU, i just think of how much pain I've suffered because I believed in those words. For me, those words means deception. How many relationships have I witnessed also that has the same scenario as mine. He said i love you to one girl, then says i love you again to another girl. I just thought that there are still many people who take advantage of those words and just say them without meaning them.6 responses
@pals101 (2010)
• Philippines
3 Apr 13
This word brings out only good or bad things. It depends on how the person used it. Male or Female, all experienced the weak side of falling in love. Sometimes, we must always be sure about our feelings before given it all. They say, too much love can kill you. So always be wise to choose the good side and never be tempted by the illusions being adore to you. Be smart, be alert, be forgiving... 
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@raynejasper (2322)
• Philippines
5 Apr 13
well, yes. Be forgiving, that's one thing we all need to learn. no matter what happened, we need to free ourselves from the pains by giving forgiveness to the one who committed the mistake. Forgiving is not actually for the person we are forgiving, but for us to have a peaceful mind.
@raynejasper (2322)
• Philippines
6 Apr 13
right. Before giving forgiveness, we need to make sure that we are really ready to let go of everything that happened because when we say we forgive someone, it is also the starting point for us to move forward.
@dagami (1158)
• Rome, Italy
3 Apr 13
yes, indeed. for the younger generations, the words "i love you" are easily said these days that one wonders if they really know the true meaning of the word love. they confuse it with admiration, physical attraction, infatuation. love means much more than these.
relationships start with a form of attraction - physical, intellectual, etc. then as the relationship progresses, we get to know the inner aspects of the person - his values, intellect, quirks, shortcomings, etc. accepting these as part and parcel of one's partner is the first step into falling in love.
as we grow older, we become wiser because we learn from the mistakes that we made during our youth. being deceived has hurt you but this has also made you a stronger person. the next time you hear those words, you are better equipped to judge whether it's true or not.
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@raynejasper (2322)
• Philippines
5 Apr 13
Right. This is where Experience is the best Teacher best apply. This is also where the realize the sad reality that is, life can be trial and error at times, but we must go on. The only thing is, sometimes, people find it very hard to move on after being heart broken because its not really easy to trust again after being deceived. There will always be doubts and fears that the same thing will happen again.
@veejay19 (3589)
• India
3 Apr 13
Very true my friend. Human love is like that fickle and concentrated only on the form and not on the heart. It is always the body that attracts,the face,looks the figure etc. Initially the heart responds but soon the feelings of love are replaced with lust and even that after sometime disappears and boredom sets in. Then he/she goes after another one and the 'I love you' factor gets repeated and once again the same process carries on. Very rarely does one come across true love that lasts a lifetime.Why are so many break-ups and divorces taking place? Amongst all other reasons this is one.
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@raynejasper (2322)
• Philippines
5 Apr 13
I do agree veejay. This is why those words are also the most abused words. If only all of us knows how to value the meaning of those words, then maybe there will be lesser break ups and broken families.
@katie0 (5203)
• Japan
4 Apr 13
What a horrible person. Don't let the lows like him to determine the meaning of I love you for you, just check out the person who is saying, you can only know a tree by its fruits. See his actions to see if he is a good person. Not towards you, but towards kids, elderly and animals.
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@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
3 Apr 13
For as long as man lives, there will be people who will deceive other people for their won benefit. So we, as women , should be really careful on whom to trust.
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