Why Most Marriege are not Successfull On these days

Its because after marriage, they just thinks that they wanted something else and found something else. It's just a thinking process.

I honestly don't think people realize what they are signing up for. Some people are in such a rush to get married that they don't really take the time to get to know each other. I mean sometimes they get married and realize that they don't have as much in common as they thought because they didn't take the time to really get to know one another and are starting to realize that they didn't know what they were getting into. Others just don't want to put in the effort to make a marriage work. Relationships are work. You need to put in the effort to work things out and communicate with each other. It's easier to give up sometimes than to actually take the time to make it work. Marriage is about compromise and often times each person is stuck in their way and don't want to give a little to get a little, and eventually something has to give, often times it's the marriage. I read an article once that said that often times the feelings of love when you first fall in love starts to wear off. You may love the person but that euphoric feeling you get at first starts to fade, and people often lose that and decide to end things to go after that feeling again. Which is why some relationships may end, but if you work on things you can often find something even more amazing an everlasting love. At least that's how I summed it up. Anyway those are just a few theories. I could be wrong.

I happen to think we were not made to be monogamous. Just look at how high the divorce rate is. And most marriages break up over infidelity. I always said I never wanted to get married, because divorce cost to much and is a waste of time...

May be our grandfather's traditional value of couple seeing marriage between them as an everlasting bond until the last day of their life on earth is no more applicable in light of the arrival of modern/new age family value. It is a lot easier for young couple to hold a marriage ceremony now and they don't see it is necessary to commit to each other for life anymore in order to keep the marriage intact, so whenever they don't feel happy with the other party, they can walk into a divorce court and end the marriage instantly. In short, the personal value place on the sanctity of matrimony had changed among many people over time, people are not pressured to keep their marriage successful anymore inside their community.

Ya,its true.Now a days marriages are not successful,because of understanding problem. I saw ego problems in some of my friends life and even in my life also.In my opinion divorced couple are better than staying together with quarrels.

yeah i agree in these days there are many sad end marriages. i just feel sad about it,i think people are getting strange and change. trusting to the people is getting hard and finding a right person is not so easy like before. happy mylotting

Maybe after marriage they both realize that they are not meant for each other, for me this is crazy actually, before you got marriage both of your were in a relationship first, i just wonder in that particular stage they didn't realize that they are not meant for each other, and they wait to get marriage until they realize it? So funny, this is a good lesson to everyone,don't get marriage if you are not sure of what you feel and your decisions to get married, because its a waste of time and money.

I think marriage is not only about love, but also about respect and values. In this moment I can see that society is centered more in having material things than in growing internally. So values that are bonding are not interesting anymore and a new car can be a bone of contemption.

Broken marriages has different reason and it's really sad that marriages these days are not successful compared with the olden days. Maybe because people are not more liberated and easily get tired of simple things instead of mending up- they prefer to broke up and find a new relationship.

I think this is due to the immaturity of most couples now. I can say this because I observed that more and more people enter married life at very young age and still are not that decisive with their actions. They simple thought that married life is a matter of play and easy tasks but as days passes by, they then realized that they do not want to have that responsibility leading to most unsuccessful marriage.

because people forget honesty... that is all.. people use to lie and show something else of what really they are.. otherwise if couple with honesty show their reality of what they are and they start and accept each other on that reality then this kind of things will not happen.. base is honesty which is not available in recent marriages

There are many reasons why marriages fail. One of the reasons I know is that some couples rush to get married after a few times of getting to know each other. Getting into marriage should be a meeting of the heart and mind. Affections can never be trusted because they change overtime. Or may be some people think that there are many fishes in the ocean that they do not try to fix the relationship once a dealbreaker comes in to destroy it.

Nowadays,it's difficlt to have a good marriage,the pressure of buying housese and adopting children is very high,some people can't tolerate the stress,they chose to divoce and fight each other,besides,as the time is long,they are tired.

For happy married life, LOVE should make marriage. But nowadays, marriages are trying to make love between the couple. This is the problem. So most of married couple are not happy today

Now we can see most of the marriages are really not successful on these days. Now it is a fashion. I am really unsatisfied about the fashion of divorce and failure of family life .